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RE: for a female sub - 12/29/2013 6:10:38 PM

peppermint

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He has to have a great sense of humor. He has to be fun to be with. I also watch the way he treats others. Kindness is a very important attribute.

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RE: for a female sub - 12/29/2013 6:47:35 PM

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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

For those seeking a relationship not just sex, the BDSM umbrella encompasses the relationship or sexual tools we use, not who we are. We still need to be good relationship material. Like lilwonder says, if you can't get a date in the vanilla world, don't expect one in BDSM (or something like that). So your question caught my interest and this is what I found.

The Top 20 Traits Women Want in a Man

Objective
To identify, quantify, and rank the traits that make a man "hot" to women.

Methods and Subjects
We surveyed more than 1,000 American women ages 21 to 54 in two online polls. One was conducted by Opinion Research Corporation, based in Princeton, New Jersey, and the other was done on BestLifeOnline.com.

Results
We organized traits and characteristics according to the percentage of women who ranked them within the top 10 attributes. Women rated traits relating to character and personality much higher than they scored those reflecting physical attractiveness. For example, only 13 percent of women included muscular build as a requisite for hotness, while 66 percent placed moral integrity as a "make me quiver" characteristic. Check out the supporting data.

Top 5 Character Traits
.................

RS, the study you quoted is somewhat relevant, but I sure wish there could be a way of seeing what qualities women actually DID go for instead of what they SAID was important. There's a difference between words and actions sometimes.

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RE: for a female sub - 12/29/2013 8:34:45 PM

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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven
Bullshit. It's just cock size. Don't you women watch ANY porn?

Okay to be very specific, it has to be between 6 to 8 inch, too small no good, too big also no good, feel like your womb is getting stabbed to death going so deep, and then a thick girth is important too. At least 4 to 5cm girth would be great!

There ya go, the truth :)

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RE: for a female sub - 12/30/2013 12:23:53 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

quote:

ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

For those seeking a relationship not just sex, the BDSM umbrella encompasses the relationship or sexual tools we use, not who we are. We still need to be good relationship material. Like lilwonder says, if you can't get a date in the vanilla world, don't expect one in BDSM (or something like that). So your question caught my interest and this is what I found.

The Top 20 Traits Women Want in a Man

Objective
To identify, quantify, and rank the traits that make a man "hot" to women.

Methods and Subjects
We surveyed more than 1,000 American women ages 21 to 54 in two online polls. One was conducted by Opinion Research Corporation, based in Princeton, New Jersey, and the other was done on BestLifeOnline.com.

Results
We organized traits and characteristics according to the percentage of women who ranked them within the top 10 attributes. Women rated traits relating to character and personality much higher than they scored those reflecting physical attractiveness. For example, only 13 percent of women included muscular build as a requisite for hotness, while 66 percent placed moral integrity as a "make me quiver" characteristic. Check out the supporting data.

Top 5 Character Traits
.................

RS, the study you quoted is somewhat relevant, but I sure wish there could be a way of seeing what qualities women actually DID go for instead of what they SAID was important. There's a difference between words and actions sometimes.

That is true, we want that whole list, which is not realistic, so you need to prioritize what you need vs. what you want. Whenever I found someone I wanted, they were not what I needed, except in two cases where one died and one wouldn't have worked long term because I was in love with someone else, who was bad for me.

So I believe that list is a good one and you hope to go for qualities. One problem may be that the traits of faithfulness, reliability, being a good father, etc. are not traits you see right away.

It is the more visible traits like looks, sexual prowess, humor that you see first and a lot of men who have those charming qualities may not possess the deeper ones.

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RE: for a female sub - 12/30/2013 12:44:53 AM

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They have dough though.

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RE: for a female sub - 12/30/2013 3:56:45 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Greta75

quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven
Bullshit. It's just cock size. Don't you women watch ANY porn?

Okay to be very specific, it has to be between 6 to 8 inch, too small no good, too big also no good, feel like your womb is getting stabbed to death going so deep, and then a thick girth is important too. At least 4 to 5cm girth would be great!

There ya go, the truth :)

To be honest, cock is important, I just didn't want to be crude. Size is important but the main factor is that he not be cut. You wouldn't believe how difficult a conversation that is to have BEFORE you get them into bed. So a lot of the time, you get them into bed and then you have that 'oh' moment of disappointment.

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RE: for a female sub - 12/30/2013 10:55:40 AM

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I'm going to bet that the OP isn't coming back.....

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RE: for a female sub - 12/30/2013 11:27:57 AM

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Not gonna take that bet!

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RE: for a female sub - 12/30/2013 5:55:19 PM

littleone35

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Lts see if hes quiwrly confident ( a definite turn in)
Intelligent
hsa iintegrty
is firm yet gentle
has ti have a swnse of humor
be faithful
As for physical i perfer ( butnot a deal break)
Tall 5'9"or more
Broad shoulders
Strong bun not body builder muscles
nice eyes

There are more i ca=ould list in both catorgried but i woud be here all night. I was very lucky i found all tht in the same man.

Matt's littleone

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RE: for a female sub - 12/30/2013 6:13:02 PM

DarkSteven

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

I'm going to bet that the OP isn't coming back.....

Which is a shame. Good, thought provoking question, honest discussion.

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RE: for a female sub - 12/31/2013 3:07:50 AM

ResidentSadist

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So where is SirGeraldDavid? He got some nice replies. He was logged in yesterday. I guess he isn't tending his own thread,

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RE: for a female sub - 1/1/2014 3:59:50 PM

peppermint

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I wrote to him about spelling errors in his profile and he wrote back to thank me. Then I wrote suggesting he thank people for taking the time to answer him in the forum. We'll see if he comes back or not.

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We are stardust, we are golden, and we got to get ourselves back to the garden.

Yes, I am crazy about feathered creatures. I have a dozen chickens, 3 ducks, 5 geese, and 2 parakeets.

Revise that number. Just got 14 new chicks and 5 turkeys.

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RE: for a female sub - 1/4/2014 11:41:53 PM

ResidentSadist

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I just talked to him (the OP). He said he is new and didn't know how to get back to the thread yet. I gave him some instructions. We will see if he makes now.

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RE: for a female sub - 1/4/2014 11:57:41 PM

SirGeraldDavid

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I am sorry ,I haven't replied since I posted,,, I just not found where I make the post. I am not a rude person,, so please except my apology

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RE: for a female sub - 1/5/2014 9:44:11 AM

DarkSteven

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Welcome back!

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"You women....

The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

Quit fretting. We men love you."

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RE: for a female sub - 1/6/2014 6:43:45 AM

sunshinemiss

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I have a list of about 30 things I want in a man. They are just things that make sense to me... they represent something (I don't REALLY care if he's bilingual, but I *DO* care whether he has a world view versus a narrow view.) Making the list helped me figure out what a MAN is to me... because that's what I want - a MAN. What all those things on my list boil down to is this:

He is a man who knows himself well.
He is responsible.
He is well rounded and balanced.

And he is crazy about me.

I deserve no less. The rest of it? That's all gravy.

best,
sunshine

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