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HntersToy -> How much do you retain after a session (12/29/2013 5:04:21 PM)
I tend to be in the moment and relish what is being said/done to me...but dang it, afterwards I can only remember a few tid bits of what was said/done. I tend to get lost in the moment. The first time ever with my Master was pure joy, but half of it is a blurr. I remember His hands running up underneath my dress, checking for panties, i remember Him holding my head and asking if I were sure that this is what I wanted...to be a submissive , to be used....."Yes" i replied...He took me! Do any of you experience the same?

DarkSteven -> RE: How much do you retain after a session (12/29/2013 6:43:32 PM)
Once a sub checks out into subspace, she's pretty much gone. I recently introduced a sub to the cane and gave her 20 strokes. After, she said she only remembered 2 of them.

littlewonder -> RE: How much do you retain after a session (12/29/2013 8:07:36 PM)
For me, when we play hard, I go deep into almost a trance-like state and remember almost everything. I usually forget a few small details but for the most part my memory is a little more heightened I think even though afterwards I am still in a fog, unable to really talk. Give me a few moments though and the fog has lifted I can talk about what happened.

LookieNoNookie -> RE: How much do you retain after a session (12/29/2013 8:21:57 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: HntersToy I tend to be in the moment and relish what is being said/done to me...but dang it, afterwards I can only remember a few tid bits of what was said/done. I tend to get lost in the moment. The first time ever with my Master was pure joy, but half of it is a blurr. I remember His hands running up underneath my dress, checking for panties, i remember Him holding my head and asking if I were sure that this is what I wanted...to be a submissive , to be used....."Yes" i replied...He took me! Do any of you experience the same? Sometimes :)

DesFIP -> RE: How much do you retain after a session (12/29/2013 8:26:16 PM)
Bits and pieces immediately after. Usually more will come back after a few days, at which point I tend to check with him if it really happened or not.

BouncyBoo -> RE: How much do you retain after a session (12/29/2013 8:26:48 PM)
I have experienced a variety. Typically I remember everything that occurs, though I may not realize what we each say. A few times I won't remember most of the details, though I could make decent guesses. Once, I couldn't remember much of anything the following day. I actually asked once if we had done x, because I did not remember it. That level of confusion was terrifying, and I actively have tried to avoid it since then.

orgasmdenial12 -> RE: How much do you retain after a session (12/30/2013 12:22:06 AM)
No I usually remember most of it, but if it's a long scene, I sometimes forget what order it happened in. Also, if he's using different toys, sometimes I can't tell which toys they were - like, I'll think it was the dragon cane and it turns out it was the manilla cane, etc. It's not a problem, but it messes up journal entries sometimes.

crazyml -> RE: How much do you retain after a session (12/30/2013 12:57:31 AM)
Well... a pro diarist would take contemporaneous notes... just sayin ;-)

lovethyself -> RE: How much do you retain after a session (12/30/2013 7:39:02 AM)
Have you tried writing notes while your hands are tied? Or knowing specifically what's being done while blindfolded? [:D]

SoulAlloy -> RE: How much do you retain after a session (12/30/2013 7:49:29 AM)
I usually remember what happened though in intense scenes I tend to remember in a more out of body way, like yeah this happened but I don't recall the sensation Guessing the toy is always difficult lol - after being quizzed about which items I preferred and hated being hit with after a scene it usually boils down to describing the sensation (thuddy nice, wrap around stingy thing evil)

crazyml -> RE: How much do you retain after a session (12/30/2013 9:03:28 AM)
Sheesh! That's what dictaphones are for ;{)

orgasmdenial12 -> RE: How much do you retain after a session (12/30/2013 9:17:16 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: crazyml Sheesh! That's what dictaphones are for ;{) Oh you mean recording it?! Sheesh, why didn't you say! Of course we've all done that, who hasn't?! :-P

SeekingTrinity -> RE: How much do you retain after a session (12/30/2013 9:23:08 AM)
~FRing it~ Once the endorphins reach a certain level with me, I'm totally gone and remember very little of what goes on. What I do recall is in bits and pieces that don't make much sense. We tend to take the times when we are apart to fill in the blanks or make sense of any lingering curiosities we might have. This takes place generally via email

HntersToy -> RE: How much do you retain after a session (12/30/2013 11:03:04 AM)
Glad to see that I am not alone! I truly wish I could remember every detail, not that I'm complaining ;)

thracia -> RE: How much do you retain after a session (12/30/2013 11:50:57 PM)
And, for a minute, I thought the lawyers had gotten in on the findomme threads!

LookieNoNookie -> RE: How much do you retain after a session (12/31/2013 5:46:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: HntersToy I tend to be in the moment and relish what is being said/done to me...but dang it, afterwards I can only remember a few tid bits of what was said/done. I tend to get lost in the moment. The first time ever with my Master was pure joy, but half of it is a blurr. I remember His hands running up underneath my dress, checking for panties, i remember Him holding my head and asking if I were sure that this is what I wanted...to be a submissive , to be used....."Yes" i replied...He took me! Do any of you experience the same? The first time I even went to a bar, in Manhattan, with the woman that I was certain was "The One"...I was mesmerized. She still is "The One".

Ilyrium -> RE: How much do you retain after a session (12/31/2013 8:25:29 PM)
I wonder if orgasms wipe out the memory cells?

Ilyrium -> RE: How much do you retain after a session (12/31/2013 8:26:56 PM)
Ooops. Hit the wrong button ... Didja ever wake up next to someone who had looked gorgeous the night before, and, there she was, asleep in your arms, and you wanted to chew your arm off to get away without waking her up? Maybe orgasms wipe out the memory? Dunno ...

tiggerspoohbear -> RE: How much do you retain after a session (12/31/2013 8:29:59 PM)
I've had mornings like that, from the female POV though. [>:]

LookieNoNookie -> RE: How much do you retain after a session (12/31/2013 8:53:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Ilyrium I wonder if orgasms wipe out the memory cells? I'm sorry....what?

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