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Looking for a mentor - 1/2/2014 1:11:46 PM

RobinBoy

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Hi

I'm new here and I would appreciate it if anyone helps me with some tips on how to find a mistress.

Best,
Robin

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RE: Looking for a mentor - 1/2/2014 1:17:52 PM

mnottertail

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Well, you don't seem to be too terribly bad as a first impression, goto the Ask a Mistress forum, read the FAQ entirely and start chatting.

By God, it is just rainin' Dominatrixes down there.

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RE: Looking for a mentor - 1/2/2014 1:40:55 PM

TieMeInKnottss

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Welcome. Best thing is to read the "ask a mistress" forum and you will pick up a lot. Also, there are tips on a sticky. I am a female sub, but I have hung around here enough to know the BIGGEST no-no for Dom women is treating them as "fetish delivery" & to think everything (or even most stuff) is sex based like something out of porno!! Be honest, humble...and, as with ALL women-show you are interested in HER and not in her designation!

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RE: Looking for a mentor - 1/2/2014 4:07:37 PM

kalikshama

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Your thread title says "mentor" but your post says "mistress" and as these are two different things, color me confused.

Welcome!

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RE: Looking for a mentor - 1/2/2014 9:47:44 PM

Rasciallymisty

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Hello and welcome its nice to have you join us here.

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RE: Looking for a mentor - 1/4/2014 5:01:34 AM

garyFLR

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Hi RobinBoy,

Welcome to CM. Jump in to the forums, start getting to know people, update your journal often, maybe visit the chat rooms.

I hope you find the lady you're looking for.

All the best, Gary.

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RE: Looking for a mentor - 1/4/2014 5:07:20 AM

ChatteParfaitt

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Welcome to the non-profile side of CM.

Your profile says you're in Houston. Check out the many local BDSM groups in your area, look for TGN (the next generation) groups that are geared to the under 35 crowd.

You have a much better chance in real time.

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RE: Looking for a mentor - 1/7/2014 7:21:09 AM

OohAahMrs

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Welcome Rob, to save time, I just throw lots of money at the problem.

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