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Chubby Submissive Exhibitionist - 1/3/2014 6:11:33 AM

chubbyslone

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Hi everyone!

I'm a submissive exhibitionist looking for erotic and casual video chats. I'm a little fat and hairy, I try to stay groomed and get into shape when I can, but just can't seem to find time. I love nudity and would stay naked daily if given the opportunity. Of course, I would workout a bit and groom myself more if I find myself in an ideal world where public nudity was allowed. Possibly even wax my body hair off. For now I'll love my body for the way it it. I love all body types. Lots of people think chubby and having hair is sexy. I like simple pleasures. Personally, I'm not too fond of pain and torture aspects of BDSM.

Anyway, nice to meet you!

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RE: Chubby Submissive Exhibitionist - 1/3/2014 6:29:27 AM

ChatteParfaitt

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Welcome to the non-profile side of CM where we discuss all manner of things, even some BDSM topics!

Sorry but your intro is unlikely to steer much traffic to your profile except for those looking to rape your wallet. Virtual BDSM is just not going to attract many dommes that don't expect payment.

BTW: Your profile pic violates TOS, please remove it. You are not allowed an explicit pic as your primary pic, even if it is an air brushed illustration.

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RE: Chubby Submissive Exhibitionist - 1/3/2014 6:35:32 AM

chubbyslone

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Ah, sorry I thought illustration would be okay. I guess introducing myself here opened me up to more trouble than connection. Bye all. Have fun!

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RE: Chubby Submissive Exhibitionist - 1/3/2014 6:36:27 AM

ChatteParfaitt

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I attempted to give you some good advice, please do what you wish with it.

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RE: Chubby Submissive Exhibitionist - 1/3/2014 6:52:45 AM

Rasciallymisty

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Hello and welcome, Chatte gave you some good advice and she has a real clue of what she is talking about. Hopefully you will see it that way and see what this side is all about.

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RE: Chubby Submissive Exhibitionist - 1/3/2014 7:17:17 AM

kalikshama

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I checked your profile to see how far away you are from South Florida, which has a clothing optional beach and hotel. Unfortunately for you, you're on the other side of the world in India.

Good luck and welcome!

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RE: Chubby Submissive Exhibitionist - 1/3/2014 7:21:50 AM

chubbyslone

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Hi,

I have no doubt of that. It's just that my welcome message seemed more like some sort of law enforcement than advice, also I have no Idea how to use the advice in regards to Virtual BDSM. I can't obviously start meeting people locally, family and friends have too many contacts. Then I can't relocate, I'm a submissive - not a slave. I still matter to me even though I function better with a guiding hand. Plus I am not into a lot of hardcore BDSM stuff lot of people are intrested.

Chatte, I have removed the illustration. I AM shocked how such a mild illustration can be offensive on a site that borders a little into crazy side of things. Still, rules are rules. I have changed my primary photo.

I'm not saying bye to collarme, just the forum. Sometimes it's not so inviting to be so serious and formal. I guess slaves will be thrilled at the indifference, but a submissive who thinks they still matter to others - it seems too formal. Again, thanks for the advice.

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RE: Chubby Submissive Exhibitionist - 1/3/2014 7:35:15 AM

ChatteParfaitt

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I don't make the rules, merely telling you what they are.

You have a chance to learn and grow here, or you can return to your fantasy world. That's entirely up to you.

I suggested to admin that they create a section for those who *do* want to steer traffic to their profile. I personally have no problem with giving people what they seem to want. But I'm not a mod and have no power to change things here, just as I have no power over the fact that most people you will attract are men pretending to be women, scammers and fem dommes looking to rape your wallet.

That's the reality of the profile side if you are seeking online and virtual male submission.

I can't do anything about that, I can and did advise you.

ETA: If I were indifferent to your plight, I wouldn't have bothered to reply at all. Think about that.

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RE: Chubby Submissive Exhibitionist - 1/3/2014 9:17:16 AM

Rasciallymisty

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Chubby here are the rules for posting pictures on the profile side..

Please only post pictures you took yourself
Please do not post commercial photos or artwork
Overly genital focused primary photos may be removed

You actual violate all three rules. Your other pictures are still also all in violation and most likely will be removed. Chatte was just trying to help you, if you decide not to take the advice that has been given here that is you choice. Maybe see it as just FRIENDLY advice and not as someone attacking you. Once again hopefully you will decided to check this out and find out there are many friendly and helpful people here.

< Message edited by Rasciallymisty -- 1/3/2014 9:19:30 AM >

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RE: Chubby Submissive Exhibitionist - 1/4/2014 4:44:24 AM

garyFLR

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Chubby, Misty & Chatte both know what they're talking about, & they're really nice ladies as well, please take the advice in the spirit in which it is meant.

< Message edited by garyFLR -- 1/4/2014 4:56:23 AM >

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RE: Chubby Submissive Exhibitionist - 1/7/2014 7:27:18 AM

OohAahMrs

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Eye eye!

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RE: Chubby Submissive Exhibitionist - 1/7/2014 6:13:34 PM

MistressDarkArt

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Welcome, Chubby. This side is VERY different than the profiles side. There is lots to learn and enjoy over here; hope you stick around and participate!

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RE: Chubby Submissive Exhibitionist - 1/7/2014 6:40:01 PM

unionkane

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what chatte and RasciallyMisty said.....you REALLy should listen.....

I speak from experience.....listen!

but I bid you welcome! if you chose to not be here.......well, thats your loss

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