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changing oneself - 1/3/2014 6:45:01 PM   
tullulahjane


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Status: offline 		As yet i dont have a Master

Thank goodness I guess

I ws recently told, as a Size 14 WOW I have a lot of work to do

I went from a size 20 to 14

with numerous food allergies

I get as a Master you dont give a shit, but WOW do you need to be so rude?

Oh yes by the way, I have sever food allergies that make things difficult

but wow I am fat ass?

do you understand that despite the 4 c-sections.... I am done,

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RE: changing oneself - 1/3/2014 6:47:51 PM   
tullulahjane


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RE: changing oneself - 1/3/2014 6:48:35 PM   
angelikaJ


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Status: offline 		Why are you allowing yourself to be upset by some twit (not any sort of "master") that you do not know on the internet?

This kind of insult has happened to most of us... but most of us don't take it to heart.

Report messages if you must, and block and hide the people who disturb you.

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RE: changing oneself - 1/3/2014 6:50:21 PM   
angelikaJ


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RE: changing oneself - 1/3/2014 6:50:24 PM   
ConfusedGal


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Status: offline 		Wow ! Incredibly rude ! There is a difference between encouraging your slave to be healthy that being a jerk! Whoever told you this was a jackass

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RE: changing oneself - 1/3/2014 6:52:18 PM   
tullulahjane


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I gave my picture to one I trusted - I know I am far from perfect, but I am human

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RE: changing oneself - 1/3/2014 6:52:26 PM   
Apocalypso


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RE: changing oneself - 1/3/2014 6:54:39 PM   
tullulahjane


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Status: offline 		thankyou your right, its there loss

I know Iwork on it but if they dont accept it - can I help that?

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RE: changing oneself - 1/3/2014 7:00:50 PM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		Look. There are numerous women I am not compatible with. Some due to personality. No biggie.

You just discovered someone you're not compatible with. Block him and move on.

The more energy and time you spend on him, the less you have for people who are better to you. Make your choice.

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The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

Quit fretting. We men love you."

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RE: changing oneself - 1/3/2014 7:25:05 PM   
MisterP61


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Status: offline 		I couldn't agree more. I personally like real women and not sticks (if I want a stick I can just go in the woods and get one). Weight has never mattered to me one iota. Who you are as a person... now that is a very important part of who I choose to deal with. Don't listen to the shallow ass fucksticks on this (or any other site). What they say speaks volumes about what type of person they are.

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RE: changing oneself - 1/3/2014 8:11:06 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		It sounds to me like you have some kind of sub frenzy and you are vulnerable to all idiots online. Look at my signature about not parking your brain.

Ya know, none of this is any different than vanilla.

And if you are this sensitive, you may want to think about shutting off your computer and find out why you are like this and work on that issue first. The internet is not for sensitive folks.



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RE: changing oneself - 1/3/2014 8:17:43 PM   
kalikshama


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quote:

I get as a Master you dont give a shit, but WOW do you need to be so rude?


Any idiot can label himself a Master. I would never consider for a Master someone who was rude and didn't give a shit.

I suggest you read some of the non-fiction on the -=BDSM Book List=-

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RE: changing oneself - 1/3/2014 8:48:49 PM   
DarkSteven


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ORIGINAL: kalikshama

Any idiot can label himself a Master.


And most of those who label themselves Masters... aren't.

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RE: changing oneself - 1/3/2014 11:10:03 PM   
AthenaSurrenders


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quote:

ORIGINAL: tullulahjane

thankyou your right, its there loss

I know Iwork on it but if they dont accept it - can I help that?


I'd go a step further than that, and find someone who will think you are wonderful at size 14, will think you are wonderful if you never get a pound lighter and will still think you are wonderful if you get back to size 20.

The statistics on weight loss are pretty grim reading if it's something you worry about. A huge majority of people who lose significant amounts of weight regain it within a few years. Even if you are exceptional in terms of willpower and body chemistry, life happens. Accidents and illnesses take their toll on our bodies. You don't want to be with someone whose love is dependent on your appearance because it can and will change. You should be grateful this guy didn't like the way you look. Better a moment of (admittedly rude) rejection now, than a lifetime of feeling you're not good enough.

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RE: changing oneself - 1/3/2014 11:16:29 PM   
sexyred1


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Status: offline 		OP, you must be new to the internet.

Someone calling women fat is par for the course, especially if they write you first and you reject them.

It seems that they think insulting your weight is a big deal.

They are just computer chair cowards who would never have the nerve to say anything to women like that in person.

As long as YOU are ok with you, delete and move on.

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RE: changing oneself - 1/3/2014 11:49:13 PM   
angelikaJ


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Status: offline 		Did you join before this happened?

You haven't been here that long.
I think you ought to either find people who are local to you and meet relatively quickly in a very public place... or don't trust strangers so quickly.

You went from a size 20 to a size 14.
That is amazing!
You should be proud of yourself.



You need to know:
There are guys who would have called you fat even if you had been a size 8.
There are guys who will try to bully you in to putting on a cam show by saying they heard you weren't a women... and will ask you to cam verify by posing naked.
(delete and block them)

Don't listen to what Tom Hairy-Dickwad says.

No one can judge whether or not you are submissive enough.
If you aren't submissive enough for them, it simply means you are incompatible with them.

Don't waste time or tears on people who are not worthy of them.



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RE: changing oneself - 1/4/2014 8:02:06 AM   
chatterbox24


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Status: offline 		Girlfriend. You were not speaking to a master.

My take on a true Master is one who inspires you by positive input and patience, absolutely not by negativity and tearing down.


Congrats on your weight loss, that is truly amazing and inspiring. Don't let some superficial moron make you feel bad. Find someone who cares about you, and most of all keep loving yourself.

HUGS!!!

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RE: changing oneself - 1/4/2014 8:21:35 AM   
evesgrden


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RE: changing oneself - 1/4/2014 8:27:39 AM   
Kana


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

Look. There are numerous women I am not compatible with. Some due to personality. No biggie.

You just discovered someone you're not compatible with. Block him and move on.

The more energy and time you spend on him, the less you have for people who are better to you. Make your choice.

QFT

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RE: changing oneself - 1/4/2014 3:06:17 PM   
lilcracker


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Status: offline 		My partner likes me no matter my size....he sees something wonderful in me and looks past size. OP look for a partner like him.

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