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Mercnbeth -> RE: Sex over 40 (11/19/2004 1:01:39 PM)
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Wow over 40!!! beth and I never get close to that number in a day. We're envious!
But seriously now, I think many lose the ability of using the human bodies most erotic organ - the brain. I think it's a function of forgetting to have fun, or not taking time to have fun, or all of a sudden forgetting that having fun keeps you young.
When pressed, many may still be having sex, although not with each other. Some have it alone. How many have been pushed away by a un-responsive partner, or worse, being told something they wanted to try was "perverted"? The internet has generated a whole new genre of sex. A world where fantasies can be fulfilled, in the comfort of your home, as you sit there romantically involved with yourself. The only human touch being your own. There are countless many out there who tonight will be 'one handed web surfing' under the romantic glow of their computer screen.
Some, many if you go by some of the posts here, seek it outside their partnership. I believe there are a lot of people whose sexuality develops later in life. They weren't aware of what really 'turned them on' until after they were partnered with someone incompatible with their needs. Then, for financial reasons, children, or just plain laziness, they resolve to just giving up. Thinking themselves 'too old' to change - too old to even be concerned about 'that sort of thing'.
Of course sometimes physical reasons come into play, but now there are enough pills, potions, lotions and whatever to eliminate that excuse. I'm not worried. Being a full blooded Sicilian Italian I figure to be 'perverted' well into my 90's And by the time I'm ready for Viagra, at 100 or so, they'll be selling it over the counter.
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