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RE: Pictures - 1/5/2014 9:45:09 AM   
Kana


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ORIGINAL: windchymes
Seeing your cock when I don't even know you does NOT make me want to get to know you. I don't see it and think, "Wow!!! That one's special!!! I want it for my own!!!" The mere sight of it doesn't make my panties even the slightest bit damp. And no matter how special any man thinks his is, it ain't any more special than anyone else's. And after I've seen a few dozen of them when trying to read profiles, yours does NOT stand out in any way, shape, or form. It just fades into obscurity with all the others.

Except every guy knows,and I mean knows (There ain't no think here,this is one of those 100% certainty deals)in his heart of hearts that he is the exception to this and that once exposed to his magnificent manliness you, like any and all helpless simpering women,will throw away values, dreams, goals, morals, ethics, relationships, distance, family, friends, whatever, that you may find your rightful place, which of course is eternally crawling at the base of that splendiferous peace of man meat that is, in all its munificent glory, merely emblematic of the alpha male virility of it's owner.

Sheesh-WTF is wrong with you people? How can you fail to recognize?

Walks away muttering about the state of optometry and the plight of modern wenches...


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RE: Pictures - 1/5/2014 9:53:37 AM   
sheisreeds


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Status: offline 		Allowing cock shots on alt sites is a Darwinian safety net for women.

Also another thing I find totally distasteful is posting other people's pictures, or porn shots of fantasies.

Thievery is a huge turn off.



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RE: Pictures - 1/5/2014 11:39:26 AM   
D0MBLKMAN2Serve


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ORIGINAL: Blonderfluff

On behalf of most of the women on here.

Please don't do the "cock pic"

Really. We don't want to see it.
We LIKE them in real life. But they are only attractive when they are attached to someone we like...



LMFAO. Well said!!

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RE: Pictures - 1/5/2014 12:21:56 PM   
TieMeInKnottss


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ORIGINAL: sheisreeds

Allowing cock shots on alt sites is a Darwinian safety net for women.

Also another thing I find totally distasteful is posting other people's pictures, or porn shots of fantasies.

Thievery is a huge turn off.




I do wonder about that! There is recourse for "stolen photos" and ways to find if pics have been posted but what do you do if you see a photo with someone that you think probably has no idea that they are now featured on "alt" or "CM"... I don't even like it on vanilla dating sites. One, of the people in the photo the ugliest is usually the one "seeking" and does not point that out. 2) many people put photos of their kids which I find really distasteful. It is like you are using your child to reel in a date!

There is a photo on a profile on "the other side"...It is a group "college" setting photo. Everyone is dressed and the poster IS in the photo (so it does not break the TOS) but so are 3-4 other sweet 19-21yr old girls who probably do not know they are prominently posted on a fetish site by someone they think is a friend.

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RE: Pictures - 1/5/2014 12:25:49 PM   
TieMeInKnottss


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ORIGINAL: Kana


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ORIGINAL: TieMeInKnottss
Yeah...we "chicks" dig eyes!!!

I'm so sorry. I forget chicks was offensive. Please accept my apology and note that I really intended to write "'slutcunt fuckmeat crawling whore holes worthless cumbuckets."

I will do my utmost to ensure that such a drastic error never happens again



Thank you!! I feel much better??? I actually was making fun of the "eyes" things... This "chick" or "slutcunt fuckmeat" likes a hot set of abs....Let's just say I was crushed when I realized Peon's designation!!! That photo HAS caused MANY physical reactions!!!

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RE: Pictures - 1/5/2014 12:27:58 PM   
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ORIGINAL: TieMeInKnottss
My policy is that I won't respond if you have ANY cock shots or photos of women "servicing" you...


Lol, my policy is not to respond if they have any pictures of women, especially tied tits, chastity belts, etc, etc. At least their cock belongs to them, is the way I see it.

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RE: Pictures - 1/5/2014 12:30:07 PM   
DomMeinCT


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ORIGINAL: Cochrane

Yes, I think there's a difference between genders there, much as I'm loath to make such sweeping generalisations. I think I'm partly just wanting to say "there is a real person at the end of this profile." I'm also aware that there seems an emphasis on women showing naked pictures, and not nearly as much for men.


The women who show naked pictures may do so knowing men may like that.

As you've already heard, women tend not to like the same thing. Do a quick search using the picture grid on men on the other side. Every dick looks the same, as does every headless body shot.

Show us the human being behind the profile.

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RE: Pictures - 1/5/2014 3:19:14 PM   
Kana


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ORIGINAL: TieMeInKnottss
Thank you!! I feel much better??? I actually was making fun of the "eyes" things... This "chick" or "slutcunt fuckmeat" likes a hot set of abs....Let's just say I was crushed when I realized Peon's designation!!! That photo HAS caused MANY physical reactions!!!

No wonder you looked so soul-crushed when you first saw flabby old me ;-)

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RE: Pictures - 1/5/2014 3:50:53 PM   
TieMeInKnottss


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Status: offline 		Oh I was impressed! just crushed because you were taken

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RE: Pictures - 1/5/2014 5:32:05 PM   
petitespot


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ORIGINAL: Kana


quote:

ORIGINAL: TieMeInKnottss
Thank you!! I feel much better??? I actually was making fun of the "eyes" things... This "chick" or "slutcunt fuckmeat" likes a hot set of abs....Let's just say I was crushed when I realized Peon's designation!!! That photo HAS caused MANY physical reactions!!!

No wonder you looked so soul-crushed when you first saw flabby old me ;-)


I'm gonna see flabby old you and your better half on Sunday! I will make a full report then.


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RE: Pictures - 1/5/2014 5:51:54 PM   
DarkSteven


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ORIGINAL: orgasmdenial12


quote:

ORIGINAL: TieMeInKnottss
My policy is that I won't respond if you have ANY cock shots or photos of women "servicing" you...


Lol, my policy is not to respond if they have any pictures of women, especially tied tits, chastity belts, etc, etc. At least their cock belongs to them, is the way I see it.


Let me ask for a clarification.

In my pics, I have one of me with my ex-sub and GreedyTop, taken at the airport. Totally vanilla, and everyone's wearing clothes. Would that pic be an issue?

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RE: Pictures - 1/5/2014 6:26:51 PM   
FieryOpal


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ORIGINAL: sheisreeds

Allowing cock shots on alt sites is a Darwinian safety net for women.

Also another thing I find totally distasteful is posting other people's pictures, or porn shots of fantasies.

Thievery is a huge turn off.


... especially if it's a stolen cock shot....

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RE: Pictures - 1/5/2014 10:31:21 PM   
littlewonder


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ORIGINAL: petitespot

Don't forget the required shot of all your toys laid out on a bad hotel comforter. Especially insertables.


UGH. I just had someone today look at me and their profile is exactly a picture of that. Yeah, sexy huh?


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RE: Pictures - 1/5/2014 10:33:55 PM   
littlewonder


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ORIGINAL: petitespot


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ORIGINAL: Kana


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ORIGINAL: TieMeInKnottss
Thank you!! I feel much better??? I actually was making fun of the "eyes" things... This "chick" or "slutcunt fuckmeat" likes a hot set of abs....Let's just say I was crushed when I realized Peon's designation!!! That photo HAS caused MANY physical reactions!!!

No wonder you looked so soul-crushed when you first saw flabby old me ;-)


I'm gonna see flabby old you and your better half on Sunday! I will make a full report then.



Yay!! I can't wait!

DS, as long as you have permission from both of them and they are fully clothed, I personally don't have a problem withit, but if I were looking for a Dom and I saw them both in the photo, I doubt I would respond to you. I personally don't wanna see pics of your exes, currents or any females for that matter. For all I know I wouldn't know who they are, what they are to you, if you have their permission, etc...I would also think you may be interested in poly and in that case, I wouldn't be interested. So you may want to think about stating such in your profile if you are still seeking others.


< Message edited by littlewonder -- 1/5/2014 10:36:37 PM >

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RE: Pictures - 1/6/2014 2:53:20 PM   
nowhereforgood


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Status: offline 		As another shy user without head pictures on the profile I can relate too.
Basically, I solved the problem by avoiding having a profile picture, until I came up with an idea. I took inspiration from the famous statue "the thinker", and I made a low key back-lit self-portrait where I mimic its posture. This way I was able not only to finally have my anonymous profile pic, but I also imbued it with my nature as a planner.
The result, is the avatar you see. The judgement is up to you :)

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RE: Pictures - 1/7/2014 8:52:14 PM   
DomMeinCT


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ORIGINAL: nowhereforgood

As another shy user without head pictures on the profile I can relate too.
Basically, I solved the problem by avoiding having a profile picture, until I came up with an idea. I took inspiration from the famous statue "the thinker", and I made a low key back-lit self-portrait where I mimic its posture. This way I was able not only to finally have my anonymous profile pic, but I also imbued it with my nature as a planner.
The result, is the avatar you see. The judgement is up to you :)


This isn't an in-your-face-look-at-me-nakee picture.

It's well lit, (imo) tasteful, and creates interest.

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RE: Pictures - 1/7/2014 8:56:59 PM   
MisterP61


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Status: offline 		I agree with DomMeinCT. A very tasteful, artsy picture. Well done.

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RE: Pictures - 1/8/2014 4:05:26 PM   
humble75


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Status: offline 		I would never do a picure where I force my naked state into the eyes of someone, but at the same time I feel that I should be nude in my pictures here. I dont know why, but I know that I hope its not disgusting to anyone. Its very hard to know wich way to go sometimes, when you hope to be some kind of sexy, but also "proper".

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RE: Pictures - 1/8/2014 5:52:13 PM   
LadyPact


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I say "chicks". I say "dudes," too.

MP is full of it. I have his cock shots. (No. Nobody else is getting them and they aren't on the profile.)

I have cock shots of tk. They are also private stash. (Getting a theme here? That's how you know I'm interested in the man and not just the s-type/husband/play/whatever.)

I'm female and I get over on darn near all of the shots that females say they don't want to see. The play shots. The toys. Etc. (If you don't want to see needle shots, don't go looking.)

As a male, OP, I wouldn't suggest you don't any of that until folks get to know you. Once they do, if you like rope and you're showing off your ties, it will go over better with a degree of familiarity.

To nowhereforgood, I think it's a great shot and very creative on your part.


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RE: Pictures - 1/8/2014 6:08:58 PM   
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ORIGINAL: humble75

I would never do a picure where I force my naked state into the eyes of someone, but at the same time I feel that I should be nude in my pictures here. I dont know why, but I know that I hope its not disgusting to anyone. Its very hard to know wich way to go sometimes, when you hope to be some kind of sexy, but also "proper".


Humble, your pictures do not show your cock or a gaping butthole, which is a plus imo. However, because the only pics you have are naked and in 'kinky play' mode, to my eyes you appear one dimensional. You're probably a nice, well-rounded guy but since women view pictures so literally, you might be short-changing yourself.

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