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hello looking for my first mistress - 1/8/2014 2:40:42 AM

bubbabarrett31

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i'm from west central georgia and i'm lookijng for a mistress to serve i have no requirements or limits the only yhing is i dont have a credit card i deal in cash only and want some one who understands that

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RE: hello looking for my first mistress - 1/8/2014 3:16:36 AM

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No limits huh?

Some of my Domme friends have chainsaws.
I'll point in your direction.

smh

Good luck with that.

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RE: hello looking for my first mistress - 1/8/2014 3:28:26 AM

bubbabarrett31

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that may be fun and quit interesting

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RE: hello looking for my first mistress - 1/8/2014 3:43:09 AM

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Only at first.

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RE: hello looking for my first mistress - 1/8/2014 5:13:53 AM

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Hello and welcome its nice to have you join us. Bubba since you are new I will share a few small little things that might help you find that in which

you seek. There are about 100, maybe a bit more, male subs for every Domme, unless you are seeking findomme only, then you have a better

chance. Your intro and profile will most likely have them pass you by. Here is why I say that....most look at grammar and how you write. Not

capping letters is going to leave them thinking you are lazy. You have nothing about who you are just what you want kink wise, maybe tell them

more about who you are so they may find things you have in common. The whole part about the credit card in your profile...you should probably

just take it all out. Maybe take some time and do some lurking here and some reading to see what it is that they seek. I would also loss the saying

that you have no limits, that saying seems to bring respondences but not of a good kind. These are just a few suggestion that will hopefully help

you find that in which you seek. LOL but if all you seek is a Fin Domme....you can just throw all this advice out the window.

Hopefully you will find that in which you seek and that the new year is good to you.

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RE: hello looking for my first mistress - 1/8/2014 5:52:50 AM

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ORIGINAL: Rasciallymisty

Hello and welcome its nice to have you join us. Bubba since you are new I will share a few small little things that might help you find that in which

you seek. There are about 100, maybe a bit more, male subs for every Domme, unless you are seeking findomme only, then you have a better

chance. Your intro and profile will most likely have them pass you by. Here is why I say that....most look at grammar and how you write. Not

capping letters is going to leave them thinking you are lazy. You have nothing about who you are just what you want kink wise, maybe tell them

more about who you are so they may find things you have in common. The whole part about the credit card in your profile...you should probably

just take it all out. Maybe take some time and do some lurking here and some reading to see what it is that they seek. I would also loss the saying

that you have no limits, that saying seems to bring respondences but not of a good kind. These are just a few suggestion that will hopefully help

you find that in which you seek. LOL but if all you seek is a Fin Domme....you can just throw all this advice out the window.

Hopefully you will find that in which you seek and that the new year is good to you.

Raciallymisty....gee, isn't that what I meant?
You put it so much more clearly than I did. God bless your patience. :)

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RE: hello looking for my first mistress - 1/8/2014 6:15:03 AM

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LOL you did Toy but I thought maybe saying it again it might sink in and he would see you where trying to help. Time will tell.

OP I really do wish you well and hope that our advice helps.

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RE: hello looking for my first mistress - 1/8/2014 6:57:09 AM

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Welcome to the non-profile side of CollarMe.

This side is for discussions on topics of interest. You can learn a lot here, if you're so inclined.

As for your no limits statement, please re-think that. It's not healthy to not have boundaries, they keep you safe. Also, please don't send money (cash or otherwise) to anyone you've not met in person.

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RE: hello looking for my first mistress - 1/8/2014 8:22:12 PM

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good advise you guys thanks . i did enjoy the sarcasm that was what i was suggestively seeking i was wondering just how far peoples mind would actually go but as you see only one went there you are right every one has limits of some sort weather they admit it over come them or just get drunk lol but yes it was an attempt at research to lure out what kinda people lurk around these sites. thankyou for your responses i look forward to more on tbis subject.

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RE: hello looking for my first mistress - 1/13/2014 3:54:15 AM

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Welcome, hope you can find someone who deserves you.

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RE: hello looking for my first mistress - 1/18/2014 12:18:29 AM

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I am what you're looking for.

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RE: hello looking for my first mistress - 1/18/2014 12:32:31 AM

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welcome man

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RE: hello looking for my first mistress - 1/18/2014 1:11:47 AM

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Welcome.
Mention CASH and you'll have "Dommes" coming out your ears...not all of them the real deal of course, but weeding through them will certainly give you something to do. Since you are new at it, I strongly suggest you take time to read through the forums to learn what is normal and what is abuse. This will save you (and your wallet) some heartache.

May you find a Domme who is genuine & worth your Trust.

--MM

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RE: hello looking for my first mistress - 1/18/2014 1:38:54 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Toysinbabeland
No limits huh?

Some of my Domme friends have chainsaws.
I'll point in your direction.

smh

Good luck with that.

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ORIGINAL: bubbabarrett31

that may be fun and quit interesting

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ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt

Welcome to the non-profile side of CollarMe.

This side is for discussions on topics of interest. You can learn a lot here, if you're so inclined.

As for your no limits statement, please re-think that. It's not healthy to not have boundaries, they keep you safe. Also, please don't send money (cash or otherwise) to anyone you've not met in person.

Am I the only one that thinks perhaps he is a relative of The Black Knight from Monty Python? At least that is how it seems the scene with chainsaws would end.

< Message edited by ResidentSadist -- 1/18/2014 1:39:49 AM >

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RE: hello looking for my first mistress - 1/18/2014 4:52:52 AM

Justine333

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Hi,

No limits is not really realistic. Fancy being spit roasted? losing an appendage?

As for money, do not send money in advance. Pay upfront - sure, but never in advance.

Can I suggest you google a BDSM limits checklist. I guarantee you, you have limits, there are fetishes out there you ahve probably never heard of.

A x

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