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hi i'm new -- looking for a mother - 1/11/2014 10:36:22 AM

boyformom123

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Hey, I'm new here just wanted to introduce myself..

Looking for a mother for a special mother-son relationship.

If you'd like to talk, send me a message!

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RE: hi i'm new -- looking for a mother - 1/11/2014 10:50:06 AM

MAINEiacMISTRESS

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Welcome to the forums, where we discuss current topics and share opinions.

Your profile is a tad contradictory. You say you are looking for a "Mom", yet you've labeled yourself as a Dominant. "Littles" generally take the submissive role, while the "Mom" is usually the Dominant (especially if the little boy is naughty and needs "time out" or a firm spanking). Perhaps you just checked off the wrong box by accident...if not, that's certainly a unique arrangement you are seeking, but not utterly impossible to find I suppose, since there are so many varied dynamics out there.

Good luck in your search.

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RE: hi i'm new -- looking for a mother - 1/11/2014 11:02:41 AM

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The profile's gone. That was fast.

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RE: hi i'm new -- looking for a mother - 1/11/2014 11:02:58 AM

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Hello and welcome.............well now it became even more confusing as it says your profile is not found.

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RE: hi i'm new -- looking for a mother - 1/11/2014 11:09:05 AM

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Welcome to the non-profile side of CM.

I urge you to learn more about real time (read not porn based) BDSM before you decide who/what you are and who/what you want.

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RE: hi i'm new -- looking for a mother - 1/11/2014 11:28:24 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MAINEiacMISTRESS

Welcome to the forums, where we discuss current topics and share opinions.

Your profile is a tad contradictory. You say you are looking for a "Mom", yet you've labeled yourself as a Dominant. "Littles" generally take the submissive role, while the "Mom" is usually the Dominant (especially if the little boy is naughty and needs "time out" or a firm spanking). Perhaps you just checked off the wrong box by accident...if not, that's certainly a unique arrangement you are seeking, but not utterly impossible to find I suppose, since there are so many varied dynamics out there.

Good luck in your search.

Brat child from hell, perhaps?

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RE: hi i'm new -- looking for a mother - 1/11/2014 11:42:38 AM

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i changed my account name

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RE: hi i'm new -- looking for a mother - 1/11/2014 1:03:32 PM

ChatteParfaitt

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Okay then. Um...a dom wanting a mom. Perhaps we don't agree on the meaning of the term dominant.

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RE: hi i'm new -- looking for a mother - 1/11/2014 2:28:21 PM

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quote:

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Okay then. Um...a dom wanting a mom. Perhaps we don't agree on the meaning of the term dominant.

Well, he says he wants to pick out her clothes. So maybe he simply wants an older female sub.

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RE: hi i'm new -- looking for a mother - 1/11/2014 4:40:59 PM

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Maybe I am reading wrong .....but instead of having a Daddy/daughter relationship you want it to be more of you where you are in Charge and tell

the Mom how to care for her boy...........yes??? That would then make you the Dom in the relationship as you would be the one controlling how things

are done.

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RE: hi i'm new -- looking for a mother - 1/11/2014 5:24:15 PM

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exactly.. I don't know why some people find it so hard to believe that a dominant personality would want this kind of a relationship with a mother.
Why should a desire for a mommy-son relationship preclude dominance over her?

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RE: hi i'm new -- looking for a mother - 1/11/2014 5:44:46 PM

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I think because many of us have not heard of such coming from a Dom but its usually what a sub male looks for. The difference that I am getting

is when its a male sub looking.....the Domme has all the say so, where you are reversing that role. If it is what you seek ...it matters not what

others may think, only how you wish it to be. It may be a bit harder to find someone is all. As I said many of us have never heard of it this way.

I will wish you all best of luck and finding the Mommy you seek.

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RE: hi i'm new -- looking for a mother - 1/11/2014 5:48:35 PM

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thanks very much!

I've never been turned on by "what's easy" :) But I do know that I'll find what i'm looking for.

cheers

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RE: hi i'm new -- looking for a mother - 1/11/2014 5:53:33 PM

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You might have better luck if you defined what you view a mommy as. Someone who cooks your meals and washes your clothes? Because that could more easily be defined as a service sub.

There is no archetype I can think of where the mother is submissive to the child. Except Oedipus and we know how badly that ended.

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RE: hi i'm new -- looking for a mother - 1/11/2014 6:01:06 PM

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lol, well don't worry about it ;)

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RE: hi i'm new -- looking for a mother - 1/12/2014 11:58:08 AM

MAINEiacMISTRESS

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Yes, I was envisioning something like in your avatar pic, LOL, but since so many kids today fit that description I'd call it more "vanilla". Oh well, to each his own.

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MAINEiacMISTRESS

Welcome to the forums, where we discuss current topics and share opinions.

Your profile is a tad contradictory. You say you are looking for a "Mom", yet you've labeled yourself as a Dominant. "Littles" generally take the submissive role, while the "Mom" is usually the Dominant (especially if the little boy is naughty and needs "time out" or a firm spanking). Perhaps you just checked off the wrong box by accident...if not, that's certainly a unique arrangement you are seeking, but not utterly impossible to find I suppose, since there are so many varied dynamics out there.

Good luck in your search.

Brat child from hell, perhaps?

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RE: hi i'm new -- looking for a mother - 1/12/2014 12:07:34 PM

MAINEiacMISTRESS

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As I said, I know a crapload of VANILLA guys who have this exact relationship with their mom. They don't move out when they reach the age of manhood, they mooch off her for free while she toils away cooking meals, cleaning up after them, doing their laundry and working a crappy job (sometimes two) to support the both of them, and then when she reaches retirement age they write checks from her life savings account to buy things like laptops, Star Wars costumes, video games, and comic books.
All the while the son is a verbally abusive, argumentative, tantrum-prone BRAT.

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exactly.. I don't know why some people find it so hard to believe that a dominant personality would want this kind of a relationship with a mother.
Why should a desire for a mommy-son relationship preclude dominance over her?

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RE: hi i'm new -- looking for a mother - 1/13/2014 2:52:06 AM

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Hey Wel.............

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