Hello and welcome Goodtime its nice to have you join us here and we are looking forward to see you post also. [:D] I read your profile and you
pick up some slack unless your wife knows that you are here looking also. Many here have a thing about cheating and even though many think
the BDSM world is all about kinky sex .....for many it is not. You stated you are new so that is just a friendly heads up. [:)] Your profile doesn't really
tell what you have to offer someone....just a thought. A sub that is going to have share your attention will want to know what she will get from you
besides just sex. LOL after all we do not have to have a Dom for that. [;)] You will find that many on this side are real life couples and most the
others that are here are not really looking. Being new I would suggest lurking around do some reading and see what this side is all about. Feel free
Welcome.. Kind of second what Rascially said...unless your wife gives her approval, you may find yourself with limited options. Since you state your experience is limited to online, why not progress to reading some of the books listed on the BDSM Booklist provided on the General Forum?