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what do misstesses look for from a sub/slave - 1/13/2014 6:24:21 AM

splinter13

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basicly what the title says what the title says

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RE: what do misstesses look for from a sub/slave - 1/13/2014 7:17:56 AM

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Hello A/all,

You are asking Mistress', of course; but, I am going to throw my four cents in (anticipating inflation).

There is no one answer for that question. Further, with the exception of a submissive nature, I seriously doubt that there is any one quality that ALL Mistress seek. I could be wrong on that one too!

Know yourself I would recomend that you do a serious self assesment. Figure out your own limits. I read something once about a guy that claimed he had, "No limits." The Mistress relating the story asked him, "Then I could kill you?" GET THE POINT?

In the same vein, accept your self. If you are ever going to take this past the fantasy and wanking stage, you must become comfortable with your own submissive nature.

What ever you laundry list of kink is, keepit to your self and be prepered to chuck it.

Lastly, be brave. Show up at local munches and events as much as you can. Submitting to a Dominant Woman can be a wonderful and fulfilling experience.

Good Luck,
Mike
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RE: what do misstesses look for from a sub/slave - 1/13/2014 8:17:04 AM

Miyani

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What do dommes look for in submissives? The same things women look for in partners.

What is that?

... depends on the woman, doesn't it?

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RE: what do misstesses look for from a sub/slave - 1/14/2014 4:17:33 AM

MissKittyDeVine

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The ability to spell Mistress.

Your profile is empty. Give a potential Mistress some idea of what you're about (not just kink) and what you can offer her.

< Message edited by MissKittyDeVine -- 1/14/2014 4:18:57 AM >

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RE: what do misstesses look for from a sub/slave - 1/15/2014 8:30:45 AM

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Spell? We have to SPELL too. Sheeesh. So demanding!

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