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ResidentSadist -> RE: Former Master (1/20/2014 4:19:59 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Pballer123
She is 51 and not new to the lifestyle. Can a person give all the information of a 5-month relationship in one forum? I had ONE question, was I wrong in telling her to stop communicating with her former master. How many people answered the question? How many people went off on all of the rest of the relationship when they did not have the information or were asked for their opinion on the relationship?
Again, was I wrong to tell her to cut off contact with her former master at that point? Simple yes or no question. . . .
I thought answering "what's next, she moving in with him?" and "So how did that 3 day cool down go? She pregnant with the ex Master's baby yet?" was a pretty clear "no, you're not paranoid" type of answer. But reexamining your OP and the story it tells of your relationship skills, I see you can't decipher the obvious from simple clues so I will spell it out for you.
1 - no, you're not paranoid . . . in fact, she is probably already sucking his dick again or pregnant with his baby by now.
2 - no, you shouldn't try and restrict her contact with him. It's seems far too late because your stance was too weak about it in the first place.
3 - no, we don't get your story because key elements are missing and those missing elements make you look like a clueless fool. "3 day cool down" . . . what is that, a relationship "timeout" like you give naughty kids? Is it like LadyPact said and you are victim of your own white knight syndrome? Are you pussy whipped and that brat does what ever she wants? I suspect neither is the case and the missing elements of the story you withheld are just making you look really bad.
Get it now?
ETA: Dude, keep your ducks in a row... in other words remember your own questions! Your reply rant is off base because your original question was if you were paranoid, not if you were wrong to try and cut off contact. And, the way you phrased it in the OP was weird . . . why not say " I told her to stop seeing him?" Instead you made it all conditional, you want her to do something in the future . . . you know, like if she gets around to it on her own time. That is a far cry from "never see him again". Don't tell her to go visit him and have some goodbye sex then stop seeing him in the future when she can get around to it. Some of these shenanigans may be your own fault. You tell me how they aren't your fault so we all understand.
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