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Rawni -> RE: Ladies: more catfishing against Dommes? (1/18/2014 12:39:08 PM)
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I haven't had one that disappeared, though I wish some would. What I have seen is the smooth ones... the ones that know how to talk, do it well and present well, are typically married, attached, have multiple profiles that are dom, switch, sub and slave and are playing numerous women. Some of them 'travel' lol and always have a ready excuse as to why they cannot do one thing or another, mothers... man, those poor ladies end up in more hospitals than I do... and some will meet, try to get what they can or show how upset they are when you actually refuse to trade yourself or services.
I tend to keep them online, by phone and messenger long enough to get the ready beavers in a hurry, out of my real life, until I know something. The one's that get me are the ones that you don't do anything sexual or kinky with, they learn you and know what to say and do so for months, even a year and then... you find opportunity to meet and they have a wife. Found the wedding of one that actually came to visit after a long time of talking and presenting here on the forums as a single man for years. That's okay, because she and I became good friends. [:D]
I scare most of them off within a week, but some do slip by. I've learned some pretty good investigative skills too... so the answer is... US. I'm not hungry, don't get into too much of a hurry, don't give too much of myself and stopped telling people right off what my medical issues are. I tell them right away that I have some, but I don't give private and too personal things right off because that felt more like an emotional raping than anything else they could do.
On the other hand... I have gotten to know some of the most wonderful men, that could not work out because of our situations. Not being able to move or having family ties that bound us, etc. Some have been dropping by year after year of my being here. There are good ones out there, they are just far fewer than the bad ones. Everyone seems to think that dominant women are in demand and there are more submissive men than dominant women. I disagree! There are far more kinky men that wish to play bottom, get kinky and wish to play multiple partners and try them out seeing how it flows, than there are actual submissive men.
Boy have I seen some cat fights through the years, over the good ones. I just laugh, stand back and watch as no man is worth a cat fight or drama in my little world. Have at it.
You can tell when a man is really interested in YOU. Look for those signs and have ready tests to see if they are men of action or men of words. I have one test that has only failed me once and he was the married one and a sociopath.
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