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respectfulDomSC -> RE: % that is full of shit? (1/17/2014 7:39:54 AM)
Thanks everyone, you've opened my mind some to my rant. My impetus for my post was,I've seen so many doms who were rude, and/or subs who were'nt ready for the rudeness. Pardon if if I sounded rude myself,or assumed too much. Its nice to know there are more good folks out there in this world. B

smartsub10 -> RE: % that is full of shit? (1/17/2014 8:00:59 AM)
I respect you for having the cajones to come back to the forums and answer the replies that were sent. You'll probably do a lot better over on this side. Welcome!

sexyred1 -> RE: % that is full of shit? (1/17/2014 8:07:50 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: respectfulDomSC Thanks everyone, you've opened my mind some to my rant. My impetus for my post was,I've seen so many doms who were rude, and/or subs who were'nt ready for the rudeness. Pardon if if I sounded rude myself,or assumed too much. Its nice to know there are more good folks out there in this world. B Who is ever "ready" for rudeness?

kalikshama -> RE: % that is full of shit? (1/17/2014 8:59:36 AM)
respectfulDomSC - the amount of mail I received dropped precipitously after I changed my age to 40. So if you approach women closer to your age, not only will you have less competition, but they will have more life experience. Good luck! KK

DesFIP -> RE: % that is full of shit? (1/17/2014 9:06:05 AM)
Your assumption that everyone owes you a response for unwanted email needs to be re-examined. If you don't call up credit card companies to decline their offers, then you're doing the same thing. Nobody asked you specifically to write them, you ought to be sufficiently self aware in your 50s to know that those barely legals aren't interested in you. Yet you complain because they aren't writing their profiles the way you want. See the oversized ego there, that expects thousands of strangers to conform to you, when you aren't dominant to them? And I have to assume your profile claiming to want a lasting relationship is bs, because you're not going to find that with someone younger than your children.

LadyPact -> RE: % that is full of shit? (1/17/2014 10:17:07 AM)
OP, if I take your screen name literally, you've got T3WD in your backyard. I'd damn near give up My right arm for that.

Spiritedsub2 -> RE: % that is full of shit? (1/17/2014 12:45:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DesFIP Your assumption that everyone owes you a response for unwanted email needs to be re-examined. If you don't call up credit card companies to decline their offers, then you're doing the same thing. Nobody asked you specifically to write them, you ought to be sufficiently self aware in your 50s to know that those barely legals aren't interested in you. Yet you complain because they aren't writing their profiles the way you want. See the oversized ego there, that expects thousands of strangers to conform to you, when you aren't dominant to them? And I have to assume your profile claiming to want a lasting relationship is bs, because you're not going to find that with someone younger than your children. This OP (and many others like him) who want a woman decades younger than themselves made me think back to my own perceptions when I was one of those very young women. I thought men in their early 30s were ancient and unattractive! If I had been looking for men for financial support, I'd have looked at old guys, but never for romantic and sexual attraction. Then, just like now, I was attracted to people close to my own age. Guys, it is tragic but true, in general: most very young women aren't going to want you, except for your money. Yes, there will be rare exceptions, but nowhere near enough to meet the demand. Whining about the lack of response by young women to your overtures is a waste of your energy. Of course this is nothing more than my opinion.

shiftyw -> RE: % that is full of shit? (1/17/2014 1:22:40 PM)
I have very little in common with someone closer to my dad's age than my own. When I first started internet dating, I got hit on (and still do) by dozens of older guys. I started by being polite and saying "sorry, but you're a bit too old for me!" or a light joke, but eventually- unless I recognize them from the forums- in a good way, know them from work or what have you, I have stopped responding at all, because "you're too old for me!" is so rarely the end of the conversation. While I pay my own bills (proudly), I found that many of these gentlemen would OFFER money, berate me/call me names/insult me, MANY of them were cheating on their wives. So very few were interested in anything but getting 20 something pussy. None were interested in WHO I was. Plenty of folks were quick to tell me I wasn't mature enough to date them anyways or didn't know what I wanted- to which I can only respond with I am both mature enough, self aware enough to KNOW I didn't want to be in a relationship with someone a 1/4 century my senior, I want to get married, maybe someday have children- someone twice my age can offer that, but they won't be around anymore when that kid goes to college, when I'm 35, you'll be 65, I will LIKELY outlive you by many years. If I were to even consider it, the other person involved would have to be after a lot more than some tight young pussy. I find your attitude about "young subs" being ill prepared for jerk off doms a little manipulative way to try to convince "young subs" to be into you cause you "know what you're doing" or you're "one of the good ones"- being an asshole certainly isn't limited by age- a young sub can very well reject those asshole young doms, as well as asshole old ones too. Perhaps you need to find a way to respect the fact that they are looking for more than just a sexual relationship.

ExiledTyrant -> RE: % that is full of shit? (1/17/2014 1:29:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: shiftyw I have very little in common with someone closer to my dad's age than my own. When I first started internet dating, I got hit on (and still do) by dozens of older guys. I started by being polite and saying "sorry, but you're a bit too old for me!" or a light joke, but eventually- unless I recognize them from the forums- in a good way, know them from work or what have you, I have stopped responding at all, because "you're too old for me!" is so rarely the end of the conversation. While I pay my own bills (proudly), I found that many of these gentlemen would OFFER money, berate me/call me names/insult me, MANY of them were cheating on their wives. So very few were interested in anything but getting 20 something pussy. None were interested in WHO I was. Plenty of folks were quick to tell me I wasn't mature enough to date them anyways or didn't know what I wanted- to which I can only respond with I am both mature enough, self aware enough to KNOW I didn't want to be in a relationship with someone a 1/4 century my senior, I want to get married, maybe someday have children- someone twice my age can offer that, but they won't be around anymore when that kid goes to college, when I'm 35, you'll be 65, I will LIKELY outlive you by many years. If I were to even consider it, the other person involved would have to be after a lot more than some tight young pussy. I find your attitude about "young subs" being ill prepared for jerk off doms a little manipulative way to try to convince "young subs" to be into you cause you "know what you're doing" or you're "one of the good ones"- being an asshole certainly isn't limited by age- a young sub can very well reject those asshole young doms, as well as asshole old ones too. Perhaps you need to find a way to respect the fact that they are looking for more than just a sexual relationship. I gotta say, Sunny quote this entire post! Shiftyw, I am in awe. Exiled

ChatteParfaitt -> RE: % that is full of shit? (1/17/2014 1:35:48 PM)
I agree great post. [sm=goodpost.gif]

hlen5 -> RE: % that is full of shit? (1/17/2014 3:22:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: shiftyw ..........I want to get married, maybe someday have children- someone twice my age can offer that, but they won't be around anymore when that kid goes to college,..... ........Aging semen has just as many defects as aging eggs......

shiftyw -> RE: % that is full of shit? (1/17/2014 3:31:28 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: hlen5 quote: ORIGINAL: shiftyw ..........I want to get married, maybe someday have children- someone twice my age can offer that, but they won't be around anymore when that kid goes to college,..... ........Aging semen has just as many defects as aging eggs...... Indeed- I should have said "May be able to offer that".

LookieNoNookie -> RE: % that is full of shit? (1/17/2014 5:08:47 PM)
It's 17.37798236420%

Zonie63 -> RE: % that is full of shit? (1/18/2014 4:35:30 AM)
I would say that the number of those who are completely full of shit (that is, 100% full) would probably be non-existent. Those who are 90-99% full of shit would probably be quite low. Perhaps 50% of the population would be 50% full of shit, although at that point, you could probably look at it as either half-full or half-empty. Likewise, I don't think there's anyone who would be completely empty of shit, since everyone has a little bit of shit inside of them (and that amount likely fluctuates throughout any given day).

GoddessManko -> RE: % that is full of shit? (1/18/2014 5:02:45 AM)
LOL I happen to be a younger woman who finds older men extraordinarily sexy. I have many different types of friends, most of whom, when I am with them, I am silly, jovial and pretty much engaged in camaraderie based on social cues and just my nature to be the "sweet girl" to my vanilla friends and I like it, it's a part of me. Now can I discuss Higgs Boson. Keynes vs Friedman, Diogenes the cynic? The Conventional Forces of Europe Treaty to them? Not really. One of the most touching moments of my life is when a group of millionaires at the end of 2008 twice my age actually asked 20 something, barely had money of her own me for investment advice. Why you might ask? They recognized something unique in me perhaps which allowed them to do so. What made them recognize this trait in me before my younger peers ever could (in a million years) is their wisdom and personal experience with people over the years. Older men may (but are not exclusively) have sophistication about them, a confidence you may not see in a younger man and if you are a brainiac nerd who has an interest in global geopolitics an older man may be more inclined to engage in such topics. We live in the age of Kesha and Kim Kardashian so it's harder to find those who value Aung San Suu Kyii more than these celebrity types who isn't of a certain age and has some level of "exposure" to these things. Again, only speaking from my experience and not generalizing but I find this topic especially interesting since older men presume what some on this thread do, that younger women are these shallow creatures you see on tv or on magazines. Again, people have varying interests, so a younger woman who isn't attracted to an older man, may be more a gregarious issue than one that is "shallow". Having someone you do have things in common with and so on. [sm=lastthing.gif] [sm=crop.gif][sm=crop.gif][sm=bowdown.gif][sm=bowdown.gif][sm=bowdown.gif][sm=bowdown.gif][sm=mistress.gif]

ResidentSadist -> RE: % that is full of shit? (1/18/2014 5:50:43 AM)
0.025% 200,000 noobs/month about 50 of us aren't full of shit do the math

Domnotlooking -> RE: % that is full of shit? (1/18/2014 8:18:46 AM)
This one is a no-brainer: Thailand. You can do a hottie hardbody all night long for $70. They even have fake fetish-ish places (add $20-30 to your spending plans). Said hardbody will even send like, $20 back home to Mama back in water buffalo-land. A win/win all around. We are the world. Maybe read the very excellent ThaiVisa forum for the ins and outs of the mindfucking little Noi will be doing to up the $$$'s and how you might even get the $70 fuck for $50. Short version: skip Bangkok, go out the countryside. My good deed for the day is done.

Hillwilliam -> RE: % that is full of shit? (1/18/2014 8:34:10 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kalikshama respectfulDomSC - the amount of mail I received dropped precipitously after I changed my age to 40. So if you approach women closer to your age, not only will you have less competition, but they will have more life experience. Good luck! KK Youngster[8D]

kalikshama -> RE: % that is full of shit? (1/18/2014 1:15:12 PM)
That was a few years ago...and I didn't get around to doing it right away [8D]

StrongSpirit -> RE: % that is full of shit? (1/18/2014 2:33:16 PM)
I have noticed 4 relevant things. 1) The internet is a non-representational interface. That is, one single piece of sh!+ can literally write 1,000 emails, while 99 good guys write 10 a piece. It looks like the odds are 1000 a-holes vs 990 Doms, when it reality it is 1 vs 99 2) In my experience at clubs, about 10% of the people are rude and not worth talking to. Another 20% or so could work on their social skills but when you get to know them, they are pretty nice. 3) Finally, and most important, notice I said 10% of people. Men in our culture are taught to take it like a man and ignore rude women, but that doesn't mean the women aren't rude. Similarly I have seen submissive men (and again, submissive women) also be just as rude as dominant people. 4) and perhaps most important, submissive a-holes are often more subtle. It sometimes takes a while to figure out what is going on. I have seen an a-hole dom order a random sub to get a drink for him then spew it out when he took a sip. Both were a-holes - a regular sub would have just pored it on his head, not serve him pee. After all, he was just a little bit rude, it's not like he pinched her or anything.

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