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Mistresses I need a professional opinion - 1/17/2014 4:37:48 PM

Alex8897

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I am just wondering what you all think of my profile and If I should change anything. Is it a deal break for Mistresses if I'm a switch? Also a side note if anyone is interested in getting to know me message me. This is what I wrote how is it?

I can be very Dominate or a complete Slave. I want someone who I can play/or be played with, in the bedroom while we explore each others boundaries and push them to their limits. Kinks wise I am up for just about anything just run it past me. If any of this sounds good to you message me back.

About Me: I love nature and the outdoors, especially camping and swimming. I enjoy playing rugby and soccer, and I love reading, listening to all kinds of music, playing chess, and trying new things. Current college student.

My Ideal Person: Someone who is intelligent, kind, and beautiful. A women who is a freak in the bedroom and vanilla outside it. Someone who can make me laugh and overall have fun with. Women under 35 please. Overall I am looking for someone with similar interests that I can have fun with, can make me laugh, and since I am a romantic snuggle and watch a movie with.

For a Mistress I am looking for someone who knows how to take control and teach me and mold me because when it comes to being a sub I am inexperienced and I can be shaped into what ever you desire. I will do my best to worship you like a Goddess if that's what you desire, or if your a little less Dom, I am a romantic and very passionate. Let me know what your specifically looking for something because I can most likely fill the role. No FINANCIAL MISTRESSES please, I am a college student..

For a Sub I am looking for a complete slave who I can bend to my will. I will be Sensual and Provocative all the way to Strict & Merciless. I will train you to exhibit all the characteristics of a sub with strict training and domination. If your not into heave BDSM I can do light stuff as well and help you explore your fantasies.

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RE: Mistresses I need a professional opinion - 1/17/2014 6:35:23 PM

NiceButMeanGirl

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Well, you really didn't have to copy & paste your entire profile into your OP because your profile belongs on the profile side and not here in the forums. It wouldn't put me off, a guy being a switch I mean, as long as he didn't try to switch on ME. The minute he tried to switch on me, it would be over.

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RE: Mistresses I need a professional opinion - 1/17/2014 6:43:54 PM

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Ok thanks and sorry about pasting my profile up I am still new to the site

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RE: Mistresses I need a professional opinion - 1/17/2014 6:48:06 PM

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ORIGINAL: NiceButMeanGirl

It wouldn't put me off, a guy being a switch I mean, as long as he didn't try to switch on ME. The minute he tried to switch on me, it would be over.

NBMG

Ditto. No BDSM switching, or D/s switching either.

What would put me off, which is why I haven't been with any switches thus far, is that you are (also) seeking a sub.
It always makes me question whether a male switch is capable of total monogamy and won't get an itch that I'm not willing or wired to scratch.

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RE: Mistresses I need a professional opinion - 1/17/2014 6:58:26 PM

Alex8897

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Ya that is kind of what I thought some Mistresses would say, I guess it just depends on the people in the relationship. It's more of a trust thing I guess when you get down to it, and the experiences in life they have gone through. I've been cheated on once and could never do it to someone else. Of course trust is usually the hardest thing to build in any kind of relationship so I can understand how it might be hard for certain Mistress to really go for a male switch.

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RE: Mistresses I need a professional opinion - 1/17/2014 7:36:27 PM

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Welcome to the boards, Alex.

I agree that acceptance of switching could be an individual thing. You may wish to seek a switch as well, since many women who are domme or sub only would not be OK sharing you with others if they didn't feel comfortable or enjoy dual roles to accommodate you.

My guy Huck labels himself a switch. What makes it work is we have a fully formed relationship outside roles. If there's something I want to do with him or to him, he lets me. He's an awesome person and a pleaser. That's all that matters to me. If he wanted to top me, I would at least discuss that possibility with him, though I consider my basic nature to be exclusively dominant.

Per your profile as written, I would clean up the few grammar and punctuation mistakes. This is a written medium, and you are just one guy in a sea of men. As such, you probably have just one chance to make an impression with your profile so you will need to bring your A+ game to stand out.

'You're' when you mean 'you are' instead of 'your'.

Dominate is a verb. In your context, you want the noun 'dominant'.

Also, pare down the description repetitions and maybe rethink using the term 'freak in the bedroom'. I know what you are trying to get across, but it may be poorly perceived. Try 'kinky' or 'lifestyle' instead.

You have obviously put lots of time and effort in to your profile. I hope you and someone wonderful find each other soon. Best of luck to you.

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RE: Mistresses I need a professional opinion - 1/17/2014 9:22:18 PM

Alex8897

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Thank you so much for the help, I have cleaned up my profile with the suggestions you gave me. I will try to make sure my profile reflects my A+ game.

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