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MAINEiacMISTRESS -> RE: It is normal to be offered ownership? (1/20/2014 6:25:52 AM)
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First off, the "honor of being 'Owned' ", claimed as property by a Dominant, or on the flipside to be the Owner of a submissive, is somewhat of a kink for some people (I happen to be one of these and allow My boys to work toward earning a Collar if they choose to). It does not necessarily have anything to do with payment or Tribute (these are two separate things and may or may not be involved with Ownership), nor do those people involved have to have a romantic or sexual interaction. Kink is very much a MIX & MATCH situation. Not everyone is into the same thing, and finding the right match is where most of the work lies.
As for paying or giving Tribute, that is entirely up to you. If you DON'T want that, then DON'T send money. If the so-called Dominant is overseas, most likely it's a scam. You will certainly never meet her face to face so why bother? Many unscrupulous people target social sites like this one in hopes for making a quick buck off suckers, and that is what the BIG RED WARNING is for.
Once preliminary meet-ups are over and some sort of relationship is established (Dominance/submission agreement, etc.) it is entirely up to the two of you to work out the details of how things will progress.
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ORIGINAL: Itpleasesme
within a few messages - one time on the first reply - I was asked if I wished to be owned.
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