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RE: It is normal to be offered ownership? - 1/20/2014 4:54:50 AM   
ResidentSadist


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First of all, the whole "superior women and their superior thoughts" versus "worthless you" would have had me rolling my eyes. That smacks of someone who is freshly fallen off the turnip truck as you hit the speed bump designating the border between FemDom Pornland and Realityland...


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RE: It is normal to be offered ownership? - 1/20/2014 5:14:48 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Itpleasesme

I have posted some notes of appreciation to some of the Superior Women on this site to show my respect.


Funny, I haven't found my note.

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RE: It is normal to be offered ownership? - 1/20/2014 6:25:52 AM   
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Status: offline 		First off, the "honor of being 'Owned' ", claimed as property by a Dominant, or on the flipside to be the Owner of a submissive, is somewhat of a kink for some people (I happen to be one of these and allow My boys to work toward earning a Collar if they choose to). It does not necessarily have anything to do with payment or Tribute (these are two separate things and may or may not be involved with Ownership), nor do those people involved have to have a romantic or sexual interaction. Kink is very much a MIX & MATCH situation. Not everyone is into the same thing, and finding the right match is where most of the work lies.

As for paying or giving Tribute, that is entirely up to you. If you DON'T want that, then DON'T send money. If the so-called Dominant is overseas, most likely it's a scam. You will certainly never meet her face to face so why bother? Many unscrupulous people target social sites like this one in hopes for making a quick buck off suckers, and that is what the BIG RED WARNING is for.

Once preliminary meet-ups are over and some sort of relationship is established (Dominance/submission agreement, etc.) it is entirely up to the two of you to work out the details of how things will progress.


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ORIGINAL: Itpleasesme

within a few messages - one time on the first reply - I was asked if I wished to be owned.



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RE: It is normal to be offered ownership? - 1/20/2014 6:38:29 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Itpleasesme

In my particular worthless case I am looking for a woman to offer myself to, while that is admittedly a paltry gift, it is what I am prepared to surrender.


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RE: It is normal to be offered ownership? - 1/20/2014 6:59:25 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Itpleasesme
I am new both to the life and this site.

You sound new. My suggestion is that you find a get-together that is more or less local to you, and meet kinky people in real life. Your OP reads as though it is full of fantasy.

Also, it's never a bad idea to improve yourself. The less "paltry" a gift your servitude would be, the more likely a dominant woman will be interested. So, de-paltry-ize yourself, and learn lots!

Good luck.

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RE: It is normal to be offered ownership? - 1/20/2014 1:32:44 PM   
tiggerspoohbear


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Status: offline 		I'm not a Domme but a female submissive. Thinking you have a paltry gift to offer will get you nowhere in most cases. Dominants want their slaves to have self confidence, to feel good about themselves.

P.S. And here I thought cats were the superior beings. They certainly seem to think so!

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