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Simple poll - how do you wish a submissive to be attired when performing tasks?

I most enjoy my sub pleasing me (wearing nothing)

32% (13)

I most enjoy my sub pleasing me (wearing leather)

5% (2)

I most enjoy my sub pleaing me (wearing lace)

7% (3)

I most enjoy my sub pleasing me (wearing rubber)

5% (2)

I most enjoy my sub pleasing me (wearing a chastity device)

2% (1)

I most enjoy my sub pleasing me (wearing a robe)

0% (0)

I most enjoy my sub pleasing me (wearing just rope)

2% (1)

I most enjoy my sub pleasing me (wearing a leash)

22% (9)

I most enjoy my sub pleasing me (wearing dress clothes)

10% (4)

I most enjoy my sub pleasing me (wearing whatever they want)

12% (5)

Total Votes : 40

(last vote on : 3/18/2024 12:23:58 PM)
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RE: Simple poll - how do you wish a submissive to be at... - 1/21/2014 7:13:00 AM

DesFIP

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Something appropriate. Meaning no fetish wear while strolling up to her house. You may never see her neighbors again but she will. Put a coat over it.

However I wouldn't advise latex if you're spending the day changing her oil or weeding her garden.

Beyond that, ask her. She may prefer you naked. Or wearing a power suit while on your knees.

FYI, women are not a hive mind. Each one is different with different tastes.

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RE: Simple poll - how do you wish a submissive to be at... - 1/21/2014 7:59:50 AM

kalikshama

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quote:

FYI, women are not a hive mind. Each one is different with different tastes.

That's great, lol

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RE: Simple poll - how do you wish a submissive to be at... - 1/21/2014 11:24:12 AM

littlewonder

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quote:

ORIGINAL: FieryOpal
Do not, under any circumstances, show up wearing a juvenile-looking baseball cap, especially if you're an older dude. They do it to hide their baldness 9 times out of 10.

That reminds me of the time I met this guy at a bar. He was about in his mid to late 20's. He always wore this ball cap even when we were fucking. Eventually one day I saw him without it on and he was completely bald! I have to say from that point on I just could not see him the same way. Thankfully he was only a fuckbuddy. I don't think I could have taken him as anything more after that.

To this day if I see a guy who wears a ball cap ALL THE TIME, I just automatically assume he's bald under it.

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RE: Simple poll - how do you wish a submissive to be at... - 1/21/2014 11:29:56 AM

SeekingTrinity

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~FRing it~

OP, I honestly think you overthink things way too much. What do you plan on doing? Preparing for every single contingency out there?

Ask 10 different dominants what they prefer...and you will get 10 different answers. All of which may or may not be shared by the only one who's opinion is going to matter...which is the opinion of the one you potentially will be involved with. So how is asking a bunch of strangers on the Internet going to help you? Your potential Domme is going to have her own ideas and desires. Those, not these silly polling questions, are going to be what's important.

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RE: Simple poll - how do you wish a submissive to be at... - 1/21/2014 6:46:10 PM

sunshinemiss

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Sunny Quote of the Day
goes to
DesFIP
for
women are not a hive mind.
Each one is different with different tastes.

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Yes, I am a wonton hussy... and still sweet as 3.14

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RE: Simple poll - how do you wish a submissive to be at... - 1/22/2014 11:43:21 AM

MalcolmNathaniel

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Simple poll my ass.

I am rather mercurial. Sometimes I want naked, sometimes I want ropes, sometimes I want short skirts and lots of decolletage, sometimes I want lacy frilly things. And always heels.

And that's just on me! What I want on a slave is even more varied!

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RE: Simple poll - how do you wish a submissive to be at... - 1/22/2014 12:29:37 PM

Ilyrium

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MalcolmNathaniel
And that's just on me!

Yikes!

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RE: Simple poll - how do you wish a submissive to be at... - 1/22/2014 4:16:04 PM

TieMeInKnottss

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MalcolmNathaniel

Simple poll my ass.

I am rather mercurial. Sometimes I want naked, sometimes I want ropes, sometimes I want short skirts and lots of decolletage, sometimes I want lacy frilly things. And always heels.

And that's just on me! What I want on a slave is even more varied!

And yet you wonder why I pack so much when I am only coming for 2 days??

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RE: Simple poll - how do you wish a submissive to be at... - 1/22/2014 4:59:44 PM

VeryMercurial

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Being mercurial is good and underrated.
:)

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RE: Simple poll - how do you wish a submissive to be at... - 1/22/2014 10:51:30 PM

sunshinemiss

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MalcolmNathaniel

Simple poll my ass.

I am rather mercurial. Sometimes I want naked, sometimes I want ropes, sometimes I want short skirts and lots of decolletage, sometimes I want lacy frilly things. And always heels.

And that's just on me! What I want on a slave is even more varied!

I am sure I speak for all of CM (shup if you don't agree!) when I say it would be a great pleasure to take a gander of you in the above mentioned wardrobe. The décolletage in particular. And the skirts. And the frilly things. Most definitely the heels. Definitely.

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RE: Simple poll - how do you wish a submissive to be at... - 1/23/2014 6:02:34 AM

Pyramus

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ok. I admit it. I had to look up décolletage ......

quote:

dé·colle·tage (dkôl-täzh)
n.
1. A low neckline on a woman's garment, especially a dress.
2. A dress with a low neckline in front.
[French, from décolleté, having a low neckline; see décolleté.]

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RE: Simple poll - how do you wish a submissive to be at... - 1/23/2014 8:09:02 AM

TieMeInKnottss

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I have pictures!!! Unfortunately, his legs look better than mine in my one set of heels....
(And I do not know how to embed a picture into my response)

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RE: Simple poll - how do you wish a submissive to be at... - 1/23/2014 11:33:39 AM

Ilyrium

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quote:

ORIGINAL: TieMeInKnottss

I have pictures!!! Unfortunately, his legs look better than mine in my one set of heels....
(And I do not know how to embed a picture into my response)

1. Go to tinypic.com
2. Upload the picture
3. Cut and paste the URL surrounded by IMG tags

Like this:
[IMG]http://oi43.tinypic.com/2qvbe5i.jpg[/IMG]

Note: I'm not sure what the "embed picture in post" checkbox actually does but I checked it anyway.

EDIT: Well that didn't work. So, maybe I don't know either how to embed pictures in a post!
http://i43.tinypic.com/2qvbe5i.gif

< Message edited by Ilyrium -- 1/23/2014 11:37:45 AM >

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RE: Simple poll - how do you wish a submissive to be at... - 1/24/2014 8:36:07 AM

MasterCaneman

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Deftly steering this back on track-it really depends on the subject in question and the situation. Now as a caveat, it has been some time since I've been in a situation where I could dictate couture to another, but let me dust off the ol' wetware and see...

Obviously, in the daylight world, what is culturally and socially appropriate. I see no need to attract unwanted attention upon her or me. Most of my past playmates also tended to wear what we'd call 'crossover' apparel now, because I was in the heavy metal 'rocker trash' scene in the eighties and nineties, so leather, spandex, and studs were pretty much a given most of the time.

Behind closed doors, it was down to the altogether except for the collar and leash. While I seriously dug boots and heels, I also learned very quickly that they can cause serious issues when the evening came to climax, if you please. I have a very interesting scar on one leg as a result of a stiletto heel, so they tend to go barefoot at some point. More than once, I've had to make some accomodation for their overall comfort (I'm too damn COLD like this! she whined), so I'd bend a bit and allow them a bodystocking. I'm not a big fan of the fancy scene wear they hawk or the complex stuff like stockings and garters.

When I was on the 'ponygirl' kick a few years back, harnesses looked appealing, but I can see some technical downsides to most styles, especially in the southern regions. The short answer is: in public, dress comfortably and conservatively, with perhaps a sneaky little tell like a choker or a kitten collar. In the bedroom, nothing but a smile and some neckwear. And cool shoes. That come off easily when necessary. That's all, folks.

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RE: Simple poll - how do you wish a submissive to be at... - 2/2/2014 7:10:18 PM

TieMeInKnottss

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< Message edited by TieMeInKnottss -- 2/2/2014 7:12:56 PM >

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RE: Simple poll - how do you wish a submissive to be at... - 2/3/2014 7:13:13 PM

Redoubt

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What about the option "Whatever *I* want"?

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RE: Simple poll - how do you wish a submissive to be at... - 2/3/2014 7:22:49 PM

MAINEiacMISTRESS

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Yes, that option needs to be added to the poll, otherwise I cannot participate.

quote:

ORIGINAL: Redoubt
What about the option "Whatever *I* want"?

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