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Blueswordsman -> RE: Subs do you get physical pleasure from deep throating (3/18/2014 8:04:12 AM)
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ORIGINAL: BecomingV
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ORIGINAL: Blueswordsman
Does deep throating a cock bring you physical pleasure like intercourse or is your only pleasure in the giving?
I'm a switch, but I can tell you that the pleasures of deep throat do not vary according to the role I am in. It's not a behavior exclusive to submissives.
The nerve endings in the lips, mouth and throat are not the same as those in vaginas, labia or anuses: so the physical sensations differ. But, in both oral and in intercourse, other parts of the body usually touch, as well. The scents are different, too. And, with oral, there's also taste, texture and temperature. These sensations and experiences differ vastly. I like variety.
With deep throat, what feels good physically, is the warmth and weight and sleek texture of a cock head on my lips. Then, the "bump" as the cock passes into my mouth and each tastebud comes alive as it runs across my tongue. My tongue instinctively curls around it and the insides of my cheeks come alive with the contact. If the roof of my mouth is banged - that's a bit too sensitive for me, so that 's not fun. Same with the back of the throat, however, I have more control with that, so it's easy to avoid a direct hit, with some practice. (deep throat, not skull fuck) I also love to suck and to play with tongue swirls. I love to play with energy and motion and the interplay of mouth and hands. Feeling balls tighten in my hand while using swallows and breath to create sensations on the cock, while using my curled-in lips to protect while I bite firmly at the base, pushing into the pubic pad to grasp even deeper, my lips and eyes and nose and cheeks feel the scratchiness of the hair.
I don't mean to turn this into wank fodder, but I could go on. There are many pleasurable feelings to be had in the giving of deep throat. The most important part for a man to remember is that each woman has her own unique sexuality. There is not right or wrong, or better or worse. It's about who fits you.
What does change according to role, is the type of psychological pleasure I derive from giving deep throat. Again, to me, fellatio is not a submissive act (some here seem to think it is). As a sub, if the tone was consensual non-consent, then the rush came from being taken, being possessed, being a vessel of his pleasure. As a Domme, the rush comes from completely controlling erections. When, where, duration and climax. As a Switch, I get to do both.
OP - Why are you asking this question?
I asked because I had several experiences with three different woman. Two did it to please me. It was difficult for them and offered me great pleasure. The third got sexually off on having her throat fucked and breath restricted. It was messy and kind of cool but not as pleasant. So I was curious about how many woman got physical pleasure out of deep throating
I agree that oral sex is not submissive. However, base on your description of deep throat. It's an Art form and you are Rembrandt .
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