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ORIGINAL: respectfulDomSC

I just sent a long note to [Mod Edit: Removed User Name] , didnt go through)

I opened up quite a hornets nest from what I thought was going to be a brief rant. Many responses from everyone, some liking my post, many calling me stupid,old fart,etc.

Here is my note to the last person..

".Huh, the nice way you wrote your profile, does not match your message to me here. Assumptions are a crazy thing yes. Good god, did I open a hornets nest with my post. So many assume I am an old fart looking for a young girl.(I could never explain a real young girl hanging around me, to my son and friends)

What I do in here often, when I see a profile of a young girl calling herself a slave...and! she puts up a photo, too much information, where she lives, what classes she's taking in school...is I tell her that she is giving way too much information, and its just not safe to do so, and all she has to say is her age and a brief profile and she will get hundreds of messages anyway. Calling yourself a young slave is just going to bring out the knuckleheads, dont you think?

The only time I lie in here, is when I see a stupid ad like 'asian subs for sale', then I say I am law enforcement and they can expect a visit soon.

(I am 53, and every word in my profile is true, and being respectful is a daily practice, sometimes I fail, like in writing my post)

My post was written out of a too often witnessing(from reading about, and talking to women) of just plain rudeness in here. I think if there is one thing I am guilty of is holding the bdsm crowd to a higher standard, why would I think that?

Yes my post might have been rude as well, as i have no business telling anyone they are full of shit. Pardon that.

I wish you the best, and hope your ideal dom comes to you."

Bill

Anyway, there ya go.....

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ORIGINAL: needlesandpins
I once had a guy who took it upon himself to give me advice on my profile, that I hadn't asked him for...............