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TheMrx -> how to approach a mistress? (1/23/2014 11:55:07 PM)

I'm not sure if it's my approach or what but I keep coming up short approaching a mistress even though I have a lot to offer, just not positive how to fix it. Any advice?




asanaambitions -> RE: how to approach a mistress? (1/24/2014 12:16:35 AM)

Well, without knowing how you're approaching these women it's hard to tell you what you *might* be doing wrong. But as a general rule, you want to treat dominant women like women...because they are. If you're basing how to approach women off of the things you've seen in porn, then you're definitely going about it in the wrong way (not saying you are, but since I don't know what you are doing, I'm just throwing stuff out there to see what sticks). If you're sending messages online my advice is to read the profile, actually make sure you're looking for the same things and then approach the lady like she's a human being, don't act like a grovelling sycophant and stick to vanilla topics until she's comfortable directing the conversation in a different direction. You also might want to fill out your profile more and talk a bit about who you are as a person, not just the very stereotypical trope of "I want to serve and be told what to do". Of course you want that if you're submissive, try telling us about the parts of you that are less obvious (and I don't mean a description of your naughty bits). Good luck!




isoLadyOwner -> RE: how to approach a mistress? (1/24/2014 12:25:36 AM)

Always use lower case in addressing her as "mistress" .

Call her mistress even if you've never met.

Dominant women adore laundry lists, tell her exactly what she can do to get you off.

Actually try the exact opposite of what's described above.




TheMrx -> RE: how to approach a mistress? (1/24/2014 12:42:38 AM)

So then it depends?




evesgrden -> RE: how to approach a mistress? (1/24/2014 3:26:10 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: TheMrx

So then it depends?


Sheldon,
post#2 = sarcasm.






MsMJAY -> RE: how to approach a mistress? (1/24/2014 3:29:31 AM)

How are you approaching them? Where are you meeting them?


quote:

ORIGINAL: TheMrx

I'm not sure if it's my approach or what but I keep coming up short approaching a mistress even though I have a lot to offer, just not positive how to fix it. Any advice?





DarkSteven -> RE: how to approach a mistress? (1/24/2014 5:53:07 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: TheMrx

I'm not sure if it's my approach or what but I keep coming up short approaching a mistress even though I have a lot to offer, just not positive how to fix it. Any advice?


1. Never approach a Mistress. Instead, approach women.
2. You say you have a lot to offer. Your profile says that you want to be Dominated. That shows nothing about what you have to offer, and makes you look like the gazillions of other sub men.

I'm assuming that you mean that you're writing to collarme Dommes' profiles.

I always begin by assuming that the best I can hope for is a fun conversation. I read a profile, and if I don't think I'd like that person, I don't write her. If I do think I'd like her, I start a conversation, using the info from her profile. I'll pick out a vanilla interest, or ask her something about her location.




LookieNoNookie -> RE: how to approach a mistress? (1/24/2014 5:19:06 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: TheMrx

I'm not sure if it's my approach or what but I keep coming up short approaching a mistress even though I have a lot to offer, just not positive how to fix it. Any advice?


This is so fucking easy man.....

Here ya go....

Crouching position, ready to pounce, menacing look...outa the bushes....."HEY!!!! WHAT THE FUCK!!!!!"......

If they cringe....work your magic.

(I swear, sometimes....I'm a giver).






SylvereApLeanan -> RE: how to approach a mistress? (1/24/2014 5:27:26 PM)

I suggest reading the CMail Help section in the FAQ.




LookieNoNookie -> RE: how to approach a mistress? (1/24/2014 9:07:40 PM)


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ORIGINAL: SylvereApLeanan

I suggest reading the CMail Help section in the FAQ.


There is that.




MistressBean -> RE: how to approach a mistress? (1/24/2014 11:17:31 PM)

It's a shame that some in this forum attempt to prevent or make light of those seeking advice.




AlphaFemsRule -> RE: how to approach a mistress? (1/25/2014 10:24:43 AM)

If you're talking about online: read their profiles. If you like them, write them and tell them why.





VideoAdminChi -> RE: how to approach a mistress? (1/26/2014 7:29:49 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressBean

It's a shame that some in this forum attempt to prevent or make light of those seeking advice.


Lookie makes fun of everything, everywhere. If this bothers you, put him on Hide.

If you have any questions, please CMail me, but do not reply in this thread.




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