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unsolicited emails - 7/6/2006 2:27:37 AM   
babyboyk


Posts: 90
Joined: 5/9/2006
Status: offline 		was just wondering how submissives/slaves deal with unsolicited emails, and such like, as im getting irritated from people dont seem to be able to search for themselves, lol
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RE: unsolicited emails - 7/6/2006 3:04:39 AM   
Sirandlittle1


Posts: 538
Joined: 12/22/2005
Status: offline 		I dont deal with them, i ignore them if im not interested in them. Simple

But they are fewer and futher between since we got a joint profile. lol

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RE: unsolicited emails - 7/6/2006 3:57:01 AM   
srllile7


Posts: 75
Joined: 3/30/2006
Status: offline 		If it goes along with what my profile says and the fits into what im looking for and im just not interested then I politely decline.  However if its completely left field I simply ignore and delete.  I have to say though that at this point my profile says almost nothing but I find that gets you less emails  hehe. 

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RE: unsolicited emails - 7/6/2006 4:07:28 AM   
RavenMuse


Posts: 4030
Joined: 1/23/2006
Status: offline 		You have friends only listed, you state no new Dominants, you clearly show you are owned..... anything that crosses the line on any of that... don't even think twice, just delete and forget... if it is offencive, hit block, then delete and forget them. You owe them nothing.

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And it must follow, as the night the day,
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RE: unsolicited emails - 7/6/2006 4:20:04 AM   
feastie


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Joined: 6/4/2004
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quote:

ORIGINAL: babyboyk

was just wondering how submissives/slaves deal with unsolicited emails, and such like, as im getting irritated from people dont seem to be able to search for themselves, lol


I press the "delete" button.

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RE: unsolicited emails - 7/6/2006 8:24:34 AM   
stockingluvr54


Posts: 673
Joined: 6/22/2006
Status: offline 		at least you're gettin some mail......LMAO!

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RE: unsolicited emails - 7/6/2006 8:56:34 AM   
Caretakr


Posts: 1221
Joined: 6/24/2006
Status: offline 		Use your mail filters first. Set them as narrowly as posible.

Set you profile age to between 80 and 99,that will stop most searches finding you.

And then just ignore the loser types-delete without opening-they'll get the message.

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RE: unsolicited emails - 7/6/2006 8:57:06 AM   
babyboyk


Posts: 90
Joined: 5/9/2006
Status: offline 		lol, thanks for Yyour responses, Mistress monitors my mails though still get unsolicited pms though, good invention the iggy button though

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RE: unsolicited emails - 7/6/2006 9:21:37 AM   
juliaoceania


Posts: 21383
Joined: 4/19/2006
From: Somewhere Over the Rainbow
Status: offline 		I read them because I encourage people to contact me for friendship or if they want to comment on a post I make. If they insinuate they may find me interesting in any other way than friendship I delete and move on... it really isn't that big of a deal. Sometimes I have a hard time answering emails about my posts...lol

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RE: unsolicited emails - 7/6/2006 9:54:38 AM   
subedana


Posts: 100
Joined: 7/12/2004
Status: offline 		Mail???? What's that???
Sorry, just a little levity. For the unwanted ones if they are way out in left field I simply delete them.

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RE: unsolicited emails - 7/6/2006 11:31:59 AM   
littleone35


Posts: 2828
Joined: 2/17/2005
Status: offline 		I answered all my mail now if i get one from someone i don;t know i save them for Master and he answers them.  I just hate people who cannot read my profile clearly states i am collared but i still occssionally get e mail.  I must say though not many  and i am glad about it.  Now if someone wants to just be friends i am cool with that Master lets me talk to whomoever i wish as FRIENDS if someone shows more interest then being friends well then Master handles that.

Matt's littleone

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RE: unsolicited emails - 7/9/2006 3:36:41 AM   
babyboyk


Posts: 90
Joined: 5/9/2006
Status: offline 		thats how i generally deal with them, bearing in mind my Mistress monitors my emails, and who She allows me to talk to, any i dont know, Mistress deals with on my behalf, which is cool

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RE: unsolicited emails - 7/9/2006 4:59:56 AM   
krikket


Posts: 1183
Joined: 11/17/2004
From: Washington, DC Metro Area
Status: offline 		What you're getting can be looked at in two ways:  The first is that it's junk main, hit delete/block (without reading),end of story.  If number 2 fails, repeat #2.  This kind of jumk mailer eventually gives up --- sorta like the junk mail ya get in your mail box.  Personally i say thanks to them for keeping the cob webs outta the box for me..lol.  The second way to look at it is that, because of your you are now given a broader outlook of the citizenry of CollarMe, and allows you to practice in writing back (CM even provides ready made no-thanks).

If you put your ad, picture (expecially the suggestive/nude ones) and profile up on a public board you're going to get unsolicited mail -- it kinda goes with the territory. 

i guess my attitude, which isn't meant to be mean or sarcastic, but ....
if receiving unsolicited mail was my worst problems, I'd say my prayers and say thanks be.

cheers
jimini


quote:

ORIGINAL: babyboyk

was just wondering how submissives/slaves deal with unsolicited emails, and such like, as im getting irritated from people dont seem to be able to search for themselves, lol


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RE: unsolicited emails - 7/9/2006 5:09:18 AM   
MHOO314


Posts: 3628
Joined: 9/26/2004
Status: offline 		People are people, and many won't even read your profile, its the internet, deal with it delete, block and move on.

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RE: unsolicited emails - 7/9/2006 5:13:55 AM   
twicehappy


Posts: 2706
Joined: 2/5/2006
Status: offline 		If they are from a dominant looking i pass them to my owners to handle. If they are from other subs/slaves just making friends i always reply, if they are from dominants making friends i refer them to my owners to request their permission and to verify they are not actually seeking a playmate.

Those of any role that i contact first my owners do not care about as they trust me, and i do talk to other doms as friends/riding buddies only.

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RE: unsolicited emails - 7/9/2006 5:16:41 AM   
bandit25


Posts: 3029
Joined: 6/18/2005
Status: offline
The delete key is your best friend at times.

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