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Chastity- Male and Female - 11/20/2004 9:19:28 AM   
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Thought it might be a good topic to cover. I believe that it is a cornerstone for a male sub, but wonder what everyone thinks about it with a female sub or slave.

Also, would love to see some discussion on the practical sides of it, including maintaining good hygiene. In particular, for long term use, how do you deal with proper cleaning especially if the male is not circumcised.

Another topic......... what are the consequences of long term denial? Atrophy concerns, and ways to prevent it? The pros and cons of "milking". What are the concerns for females in this same regard?

Hope to hear some interesting discussions......
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RE: Chastity- Male and Female - 11/20/2004 9:52:18 AM   
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If you do a search on the word chastity, I'm sure you will pull up a multitude of threads since this topics has been covered in depth several times. **OR** if you are lucky, proudsub will be generous enough to pull the treads for you ;)

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RE: Chastity- Male and Female - 11/20/2004 12:02:18 PM   
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quote:

**OR** if you are lucky, proudsub will be generous enough to pull the treads for you ;)


OK, OK, here are a few of the threads on chasity:

all thoughts on chastity

thoughts on chastity belts/piercings

male chastity belts and piercings

forced chastity

chastity piercing for women

and on milking:

milking the penis

milking



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RE: Chastity- Male and Female - 11/20/2004 1:06:26 PM   
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We have run into some practical problems using chastity devices. Mainly, painful nocturnal erections. I live to serve, but I can't go around sleep deprived. Still trying to find a workable solution.

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RE: Chastity- Male and Female - 11/20/2004 2:09:13 PM   
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quote:

We have run into some practical problems using chastity devices. Mainly, painful nocturnal erections. I live to serve, but I can't go around sleep deprived. Still trying to find a workable solution.


If you read some of the threads i posted you will see you are not alone with that problem. If i remember right there are some suggestions for it, but i have no idea which thread, sorry.

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RE: Chastity- Male and Female - 11/20/2004 2:40:39 PM   
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We are sooooooooooooo lucky to have you proudsub!!! Were.are you a librarian in a past/present life???

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RE: Chastity- Male and Female - 11/20/2004 4:16:16 PM   
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Ok........... read lots of the threads......very informative. But still wish to know some opinions of those with more experience than me......

Question #1: Is Chastity a vital part of the D/s environment?

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RE: Chastity- Male and Female - 11/20/2004 4:47:32 PM   
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We are sooooooooooooo lucky to have you proudsub!!! Were.are you a librarian in a past/present life???


Ahhhh thank you. Hmmmm good question, maybe in a previous life. But i do it because i usually have the time and like to help out. It's one way i can contribute to this board since i have very limited experience compared to most here.

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RE: Chastity- Male and Female - 11/20/2004 10:17:19 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Emberglow

Question #1: Is Chastity a vital part of the D/s environment?


IMHO, no, not at all. It depends, as do all things, on the people invovled in the realtionship.

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RE: Chastity- Male and Female - 11/22/2004 8:54:59 AM   
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I just think that most men will not truly be submissive unless there is penis is kept under lock and key. The motivation for truly giving in to a Mistress is sexual based in my opinion, and the threat of not allowing the man to cum or rewarding him when he does good is a prime motivator.

Agree/disagree?

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RE: Chastity- Male and Female - 11/22/2004 1:52:35 PM   
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RE: Chastity- Male and Female - 11/22/2004 2:09:30 PM   
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The Body Modification E-Zine has a section of photographs devoted to female chastity. There are several different examples of chastity piercings there. It's not a free site, but you can obtain access by submitting photos or articles (originals, not internet foundlings) if you would rather not pay.

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