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LadyHugs -> RE: Question from a newbie (7/7/2006 8:48:19 AM)
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Dear kimmysue, Ladies and Gentlemen;
My paramount advice to any slave or submissive is; to honor and respect yourself, to include your mind, your emotions, you spirit, your senses, your physical being, your hope/faith and patience.
Never use 'sex' as a weapon, a tool, a bargain tool/chip, currency, blackmail, manipulation tool/weapon, or focal point. Sex is a power. Power can be helpful or dangerous. Be in charge of your own power and sexual business, treat it with respect. Have others respect your sexual nature even more than yourself. It is one of your powers out of many but, used more reckless than anything else. Sex does not heal a person or situation, just gives temporary pain relief. That is why rape is a horrible crime--it robs you of your power. Note; men can be raped also so this is gender neutral advice.
Follow your gut feeling always. It is never evident at first however, it is God's gift to humans for survival and animals have theirs also. So if your pet does not like someone; heed their animal instincts and beware.
Never feel badly about sticking to your guns. Compromise only when you have many valid reasons to do so and to your personal advantage.
Such as you can compromise as to what car you drive to a point but, you cannot compromise on giving up freedoms to visit, communicate with family, friends and the scene/community, et. al. So, indeed treat yourself as a successful business. Merging companies only when it is right, e.g. 'the one.' By removing the emotions, it helps see more. Let emotions be the last one to vote.
If you are in a judgment phase; Identify what it is. Identify what it is not and then consentrate focus on what cannot be identified or what can't be explained.
Never forget to laugh, have fun and enjoy life. It delays the aging process.
Just a few tid bits of my personal advice to people, for consideration.
Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs
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