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angelikaJ -> RE: What does it take to be considered REAL in the BDSM Community (3/8/2014 6:09:53 PM)
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ORIGINAL: MstrPBK
My apologies for not replying sooner.
I think some of my concerns are just surfacing in the more recent posts on this thread. I think it is safe to say that being that we're in different parts of the world we might forget our different perspectives of social and cultural differences. At the same time we might also lose something in not being able to meet fact to face and find out further of each other. These are dynamics that sometimes establish 'real' vrs 'fake'.
Yes there are some out there that 'scream' is this really legitimate when you might look at a profile or even a composite of a conversation. But to declare someone a fake without knowing them, I think is concerning -- and that was the point of my initial post. Bomb messaging someone they are fake and then immediately blocking them is suggesting something about the sender (personal opinion).
To summarize where I am at: This thread has pulled out some points I will need to consider -- they were NOT the points of my original concern. I will address those points in my own way to assure my self they are done evenhandedly and consistently to everyone. I thank you all for your input and thoughts. I can not speak for anyone else here but as far as I am concerned CollarMe moderators may lock this thread since it has done its job.
MstrPBK
St. Paul, MN USA
That point was not at all clear in your initial post.
That isn't how I read your post.
And yes, it does reflect on the sender when they behave like that.
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