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SouthernBBWDomme -> not really a seasoned domme here.. (11/20/2004 12:29:17 PM)

So I have a question..

what is an alpha sub?

Thanks in advance! [:D]




LadyShoshin -> RE: not really a seasoned domme here.. (11/20/2004 1:12:08 PM)


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ORIGINAL: SouthernBBWDomme

So I have a question..

what is an alpha sub?

Thanks in advance! [:D]

Can also be called a number 1 sub. Generally in a poly situation or stable of submissives, this sub serves the Dominant, but has authority over the other subs in the household and may even dom them if the Master/Mistress wishes it.




MistressFire70 -> RE: not really a seasoned domme here.. (11/20/2004 8:35:37 PM)

Hi!

Many houses who have multiple sub/slaves assign a heirachy. This is one kind. An alpha sub is the "head" sub in a family of subs. The terminology is taken straight from wolf and dog packs. The alpha wolf is the one in charge, the betta is next, etc. etc.

Fire
Also a southern Woman.




AlphaGeek -> RE: not really a seasoned domme here.. (11/21/2004 3:34:30 PM)

Note that not all poly/bdsm relationships utilize this "pecking order" thing. Mine certainly dosen't, and most of the poly kinksters in the circles I travel within don't either.

Besides, could you imagine the ration of crap an "omega sub" would get? Sheeeeesh!

A_G




MistressDREAD -> RE: not really a seasoned domme here.. (11/21/2004 3:43:23 PM)

actually Geek
My omegas are pampered pets.
and the pecking order as you call
it works quite well. Its was the C O C K
that made such a pecking order work.
My slave dread is My alpha and
you better beleive he runs My
home just like I would in My absence
and has served Me an Mine quite well.






garylee -> RE: not really a seasoned domme here.. (1/19/2005 9:01:23 AM)

since coming into this household,..with my Mistress......She already has a sub here,...although she is female,...she is Ma'am's #1........so she is the alpha.
i ,..male....just coming into here.......do not have the senority(sp?)....the amount of time....that she does,.........i am the beta.......2nd in line.
does this help?
garylee
reg#807385
slave to Ms Cindy




Suleiman -> RE: not really a seasoned domme here.. (1/19/2005 9:45:13 AM)

Kind of like an alpha wolf, but the pissing contest is on a more rarified plane.




ProtagonistLily -> RE: not really a seasoned domme here.. (1/19/2005 9:58:41 AM)

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Kind of like an alpha wolf, but the pissing contest is on a more rarified plane.


You kill me somtimes...LOL

Lily




nella -> RE: not really a seasoned domme here.. (1/19/2005 10:54:00 AM)

i am engaeded to be marrid to my Dom, if we would ever have another sub in our relationship, they would be his sub but i would also be his wife, and would terfore be considerd the alpha sub.




ProtagonistLily -> RE: not really a seasoned domme here.. (1/19/2005 10:57:34 AM)

Um, thanks Nella, for the detailed explaination. I am well aware of poly pecking orders and what an alpha, beta....etc. order means.

Thanks for the explaination though,
Lily




Suleiman -> RE: not really a seasoned domme here.. (1/19/2005 11:13:21 AM)

She was in all likelihood replying to the thread in general, dear. 'Tis but a minor mistake, a mere misapplication of one button over another, both of which are marked "reply".




ProtagonistLily -> RE: not really a seasoned domme here.. (1/19/2005 11:22:41 AM)

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She was in all likelihood replying to the thread in general, dear. 'Tis but a minor mistake, a mere misapplication of one button over another, both of which are marked "reply".


Now, should I be taking offense to that 'dear'? ~grins~

I'm learning so much today[;)]

Lily




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