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Caning - 2/15/2014 8:56:04 AM   
urscute6969


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Status: offline 		my Mistress has enjoyed caning me many times.. It is part of every session.. Our relationship is like every relationship full of Love for each other, We just play harder than many.

We had a discussion the other day about caning of the male anus (rosebud) and agreed to do this in one of our next play times..

Have any of You experienced this in Your Play sessions or as punishment?

i am curious pros and cons what You think?

Thank You

MJspiglet
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RE: Caning - 2/15/2014 9:01:18 AM   
shadowborn61


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Status: offline 		As a fan of the cane myself i would advise caution. While i have never done this the "rosebud" is many many more times sensitive than just about any other area the head of the penis being the only thing i would think is as sensitive.

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RE: Caning - 2/15/2014 9:06:06 AM   
urscute6969


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Status: offline 		We both understand it will be unpleasant for me.. i Trust Mistress with my life more than even the people i served with in the Armed Services so i am assured that She will be very diligent in administering pain to me. i enjoy pain at Her hands for only one reason and that being, Giving Her pleasure and seeing Her Smile..

i know it will be sensitive believe me i know lol

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RE: Caning - 2/15/2014 9:08:00 AM   
LadyConstanze


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Status: offline 		It's something you really don't want to do, think ring muscle, damage to it = wearing diapers

If you want to play harder, I'd recommend a really strong deep heat product and add a bit of sensation play (warm and cold water, use warm it will feel like scalding hot) and then caning and whipping.

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RE: Caning - 2/16/2014 10:10:00 PM   
NiceButMeanGirl


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Status: offline 		I tried to imagine actually hitting the butthole with a cane & thought it would be difficult but maybe I just don't have good enough aim. However, for smaller & more intricate work, I use a chopstick. For instance, this guy who comes over just to get Dominated, I use the chopstick on his balls. It works exceedingly well & I have better luck with that for smaller more intricate aim than using my larger cane.

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RE: Caning - 2/17/2014 2:37:56 PM   
Maradium


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Status: offline 		I thought the "rosebud" was the clitoris?
What you wish to consider caning, I'd call the bunghole (among other things).
But, then I looked it up.

It seems to be consistently something more of an anatomical consequence than purely an anatomical area.

Urban dictionary definition of "rosebud".
Wikipedia definition of rosebud.
Yahoo answers version of rosebud.

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RE: Caning - 2/17/2014 8:08:53 PM   
MistressDarkArt


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Dude, do not cane the butthole. It will be impossible to keep clean should the skin become compromised, and could get badly infected.

Use electro. All the sting; none of the damage.

< Message edited by MistressDarkArt -- 2/17/2014 8:22:46 PM >

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RE: Caning - 2/17/2014 8:24:34 PM   
MistressDarkArt


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RE: Caning - 2/17/2014 9:08:01 PM   
shadowborn61


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Status: offline 		Having tried electro in that specific area i can attest to the "all the sting" being completely true.

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RE: Caning - 2/21/2014 9:32:45 AM   
bubba28752


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Status: offline 		that sounds fun, put the ground on the balls and the other on your hiney

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RE: Caning - 2/21/2014 10:02:20 AM   
shadowborn61


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that sounds fun, put the ground on the balls and the other on your hiney

Yeah that was the placement of the electrodes,
I had never tried electro before and it was.... interesting and is one of the things i would like to try with an experienced Dominant.
If you do this yourself make damn sure to turn the little knob on the tens unit the correct direction to turn the intensity down or you are in for a shock (pun intended) and trying to get it turned down then is shall we say really fun.

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