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What Forum??? - 2/16/2014 4:17:56 PM

masterkinks

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I've been on this site for years and never noticed the forums. Wow am I single minded. I am here to date and hopefully find a compatible sub/slave for a LTR. I have never been successful doing so or even meeting anyone. God knows I have tried sending PM to apparently compatible candidates. I have found very few candidates will even have the courtesy of saying NO. They just don't say anything. Oh well. Maybe my luck will Change.

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RE: What Forum??? - 2/16/2014 4:21:39 PM

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Welcome to the forums, and very best wishes and luck to you in your search.

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RE: What Forum??? - 2/16/2014 4:22:55 PM

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Welcome, Jamie. Note that the forums are for chat and discussion, not for meeting up.

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RE: What Forum??? - 2/16/2014 4:46:04 PM

masterkinks

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Yes understood, I just started reading some of the success stories.

Besides my surprise that there are forums here, I am commenting on the appalling lack of courtesy I have experienced from other members. Yes I know many potential candidates are absolutely buried with PMs. But I still think a simple "Not Interested" should be SOP at some eventuality.

Maybe I should start a thread to that effect.

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RE: What Forum??? - 2/16/2014 5:52:44 PM

DarkSteven

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PLEASE don't.

The women get buried in unsolicited messages and just write it all off as noise. We get a thread a week from men complaining that women don't answer their messages, and somehow they have a moral obligation to do it. That gets old.

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RE: What Forum??? - 2/16/2014 6:43:07 PM

VideoAdminChi

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Perhaps someone would be so kind as to post a link to a thread that discusses why women don't answer messages.

Meanwhile, here's a more general thread that sheds some light: Funny Messages from the "Other Side"

Welcome masterkinks!

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RE: What Forum??? - 2/16/2014 6:54:07 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: masterkinks

Yes understood, I just started reading some of the success stories.

Besides my surprise that there are forums here, I am commenting on the appalling lack of courtesy I have experienced from other members. Yes I know many potential candidates are absolutely buried with PMs. But I still think a simple "Not Interested" should be SOP at some eventuality.

Maybe I should start a thread to that effect.

Someone may post a link, but it will be quicker for me to answer than look at the moment.

Buried with PMs?
Yes.
Try over a hundred a day sometimes.

So, sending each and every one a simple "Not Interested" could easily eat up over an hour out of one's day.

However, that is generally not the reason why women don't do that.
The main reason why most women won't do that is because of the rude and abusive replies we often receive when we took the time to be curteous.
Any derogatory phrase that you can think of have been tossed back at us numerous times after rejecting some of those who message us.
So we have learned that it is less messy to not reply.

And my advice to you is to come to terms with the simple premise that no response is in fact a definitive reply.
There is no ambiguity.
She isn't interested.

edit: clarity

< Message edited by angelikaJ -- 2/16/2014 7:09:52 PM >

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RE: What Forum??? - 2/16/2014 7:03:53 PM

Rasciallymisty

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Hello and welcome op, nice to have you join us here.

Chi I found a few.....
http://www.collarchat.com/m_4618598/mpage_1/key_women%252Canswer%252Cmessages/tm.htm#4618671......this one I think is one of the better one.

http://www.collarchat.com/m_4604071/mpage_1/key_women%252Canswer%252Cmessages/tm.htm#4604081

http://www.collarchat.com/m_4604071/mpage_1/key_women%252Canswer%252Cmessages/tm.htm#4604081

There are many more if you would like. Op these thread should help you understand why some do not respond.

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RE: What Forum??? - 2/16/2014 8:06:43 PM

TieMeInKnottss

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Welcome...we are the fun side of this site

.. Don't start a thread about the women who never answer...it will get UGLY and we try to keep the newbies alive long enough to lose their vanilla cone! There are several regulars on here from FL and they speak highly of the organizations down there. Maybe some will come along and offer some tips.

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