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maidrog57 -> dressed (2/17/2014 10:55:41 AM)

Does a Mistress like to see her slave in male mode before She dresses him



Rawni -> RE: dressed (2/17/2014 11:15:22 AM)

Maybe, maybe not, depends on the people involved.

Now, a question for you. What if a dominant didn't care to dress you all the time? What if she decided, that you weren't going to dress and would just serve her in male garb a lot of the time?




LadyConstanze -> RE: dressed (2/17/2014 11:46:03 AM)


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ORIGINAL: maidrog57

Does a Mistress like to see her slave in male mode before She dresses him



I think you might find that most Mistresses prefer men who are able to dress themselves, or as a friend of mine frequently says "I'm you domme, not your mom"



LadyPact -> RE: dressed (2/17/2014 11:53:53 AM)

I have cross dressing as a hard limit for My life. Therefore, I only want males in male mode. In fact, when a male s-type has a primary picture of them in any type of female attire, I know automatically that we are not compatible.



LafayetteLady -> RE: dressed (2/17/2014 12:23:54 PM)

I don't want a cross dressing guy either.



LadyConstanze -> RE: dressed (2/17/2014 12:30:08 PM)

I don't mind being friends with TVs or CDs, but in a D/s dynamic it never worked all that well for me, everything seems to be about them and really, if I want to doll somebody up, I prefer it to be me.



PrincessDonna11 -> RE: dressed (2/17/2014 12:41:04 PM)

I decide when to tell them to dress....



MsMJAY -> RE: dressed (2/17/2014 1:15:13 PM)

I'm cool with a crossdressers and I like dressing them up sometimes. I require that they remain in male mode until I decide I want them dressed otherwise.



LadyPact -> RE: dressed (2/17/2014 4:54:30 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze
I don't mind being friends with TVs or CDs.......

Even when I wrote the above, I knew I should have fixed it. Yes, friends are fine but it's not somebody who is going to be in a dynamic with Me or in any way be a part of My romantic or sexually intimate life. Just not compatible on that level.




SylvereApLeanan -> RE: dressed (2/17/2014 5:19:08 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MsMJAY

I require that they remain in male mode until I decide I want them dressed otherwise.


This.

Before I had to end the relationship with my last sub, I was looking for a two-sided pet tag I could clip to a collar. He would know whether I wanted him in boy mode or en femme depending on which side was showing when I attached it. He defaulted to boy mode unless otherwise instructed.



LafayetteLady -> RE: dressed (2/17/2014 6:37:01 PM)

I was thinking the same thing. But I also think its sad we have to be so PC as to clarify what is fine in a relationship or just friendship. After all, I'm totally heterosexual, so if I say I'm not interested in women, do people assume I mean that even for friendship?

On a friend/aquaintance level, I'm open to all kind os people. On a relationship level? Not so much.



MistressDarkArt -> RE: dressed (2/17/2014 8:18:51 PM)


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ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady

I don't want a cross dressing guy either.


Or me.

I like males who serve as males.

Now him dressing ME: another story altogether. Style my hair. Paint my toenails. Help me put on my fancy clothes.



shadowborn61 -> RE: dressed (2/17/2014 9:13:22 PM)

Though i enjoy dressing for play it would be at the whim of the Dominant i am serving.
It is after all about submitting to the Dominants will but hopefully their wants/needs will coincide with mine if they are not somewhat close then we would not have enough in common for the relationship to go very far or deep. At least that is my thoughts on it.
I cannot say for sure since i have not found a Dominant that was more than an occasional play partner.
Still looking and hoping though.



LadyConstanze -> RE: dressed (2/18/2014 8:57:29 AM)


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ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady

I was thinking the same thing. But I also think its sad we have to be so PC as to clarify what is fine in a relationship or just friendship. After all, I'm totally heterosexual, so if I say I'm not interested in women, do people assume I mean that even for friendship?

On a friend/aquaintance level, I'm open to all kind os people. On a relationship level? Not so much.



Not so much a PC quote, I know a bunch of TVs/CDs and it is a lot of fun to hang out and have a sort of girlie night, I just noticed that whenever I had D/s interactions, they wanted to be dressed up and dolled up, can be fun if you're in the mood, but to be honest, if I want to play I want to play, I don't want to go through an hour long ritual of hair fixing, makeup and all that.



FriendlyMuppet -> RE: dressed (2/18/2014 9:34:02 AM)

My stuffed animals dress me. I've never thought of it as much of a submissive activity.



GoddessBlueKura -> RE: dressed (2/18/2014 2:57:46 PM)

I'm attracted to some men that crossdress. I would say it's a turn on for me. Still I notice that I don't feel this way towards all men that crossdress.



LadyConstanze -> RE: dressed (2/18/2014 3:01:17 PM)


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ORIGINAL: GoddessBlueKura

I'm attracted to some men that crossdress. I would say it's a turn on for me. Still I notice that I don't feel this way towards all men that crossdress.


I like masochists, doesn't mean I have to like each and everyone of them, but in general I do like them ;) I think what you are expressing is perfectly normal, because somebody has a fetish that works for you, it doesn't mean that you have to be attracted to everybody with that fetish.



NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: dressed (2/18/2014 5:07:21 PM)

I like a man that dresses like a man. However, if I care a lot for a particular man, I do enjoy helping him shop & dressing him girly now & then just for fun & because I like to see him happy. Of course, it's extra nice if I can take pictures of my handiwork. hehe

NBMG



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