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RE: Most don't get it........ - 2/18/2014 7:01:19 PM   
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Hmmm... I'd love to see him educate LP in a cage match. Hell, I'd even give him a chainsaw and her a pack of gummy bears.

Place your bets ladies and gents. 1,000,000 to one odds on the new comer.... The vig will kill you the other way.

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RE: Most don't get it........ - 2/18/2014 7:17:33 PM   
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Hmmm... I'd love to see him educate LP in a cage match. Hell, I'd even give him a chainsaw and her a pack of gummy bears.

Place your bets ladies and gents. 1,000,000 to one odds on the new comer.... The vig will kill you the other way.

Jus sayin
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Don't get crazy, we still need a semblance of a fair fight.

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RE: Most don't get it........ - 2/18/2014 7:28:01 PM   
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I'm more surprised that some people are not agreeing with this. Yea, it's a little biblical but no where did I read there was any harm to the submissive. I've seen pictures and read posts about all kinds of play and being referred to as "a piece of meat", "my way or the highway", slavery, etc. I've seen pics that would have me running to the curb. I did not see any abuse in his OP.

I thought it was more or less the meat and potatos for M/s.

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If he were talking about submissives, it would be one thing, but he is talking about women...all women. It's as if he doesn't believe dommes exist, that they are submissives who haven't found a man to make them submit yet.

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RE: Most don't get it........ - 2/18/2014 7:29:45 PM   
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RE: Most don't get it........ - 2/18/2014 8:06:50 PM   
Toysinbabeland


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One small query?
Was your mom was exactly as you've described?, if so, then please,
thank her for setting such a great example for all of us according to your standards.
Have a great day.


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RE: Most don't get it........ - 2/18/2014 8:24:28 PM   
catize


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Am I one of the 'most'? What don't I get? What? Where? **wanders off to get it**

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RE: Most don't get it........ - 2/19/2014 7:23:06 AM   
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If he were talking about submissives, it would be one thing, but he is talking about women...all women. It's as if he doesn't believe dommes exist, that they are submissives who haven't found a man to make them submit yet.

His caricature of human beings would be no more accurate if he was solely talking about "dominant" males and "submissive" females. What he's doing is trying to put his own twisted little fantasy onto the entire rest of humanity... a fantasy, of course, which puts him at the top of the heap... not simply a "dominant male" but one of the few who "get it".

It is just as offensive to me as it is to Carol. It's basically offensive to humans in general, even the ones for whom it fits.

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RE: Most don't get it........ - 2/19/2014 7:28:54 AM   
WinsomeDefiance


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Seriously though, being raised Southern Baptist, I heard a LOT of that in various sermons when growing up.

I admit to feeling perfectly comfortable in a HoH relationship where tha man is in charge, but I find the concept of all encompassing generalizations to be offensive.


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RE: Most don't get it........ - 2/19/2014 7:36:04 AM   
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ORIGINAL: searching4mysir
If he were talking about submissives, it would be one thing, but he is talking about women...all women. It's as if he doesn't believe dommes exist, that they are submissives who haven't found a man to make them submit yet.

His caricature of human beings would be no more accurate if he was solely talking about "dominant" males and "submissive" females. What he's doing is trying to put his own twisted little fantasy onto the entire rest of humanity... a fantasy, of course, which puts him at the top of the heap... not simply a "dominant male" but one of the few who "get it".

It is just as offensive to me as it is to Carol. It's basically offensive to humans in general, even the ones for whom it fits.


Yep. My submissive submits to me. Period. Nobody else. And nobody else submits to me unless she joins our house.

There's an energy in submission and Dominance. It's no more to be squandered on random strangers than meaningless sex would be.

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RE: Most don't get it........ - 2/19/2014 7:58:09 AM   
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ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant
Hmmm... I'd love to see him educate LP in a cage match. Hell, I'd even give him a chainsaw and her a pack of gummy bears.

Place your bets ladies and gents. 1,000,000 to one odds on the new comer.... The vig will kill you the other way.

Jus sayin
Exiled

Do I get to bring the whip? I promise I'll provide My own.





Don't get crazy, we still need a semblance of a fair fight.


Ha! You clearly saw the bigger picture, dinnya?

As the cage snaps shut, the OP starts to monologue... Kinda like a James Bond villain, "Foolish woman, now I have you in my clutches. You must be learned and educated as to blah, blah, blah, yawn..." LP opens her pack of gummie bears, all nonchalant and shit, fashioning her gummie bears and earrings into the sticky scourge of Destruction!

Yep, it's not pretty.

Jus sayin
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RE: Most don't get it........ - 2/19/2014 9:58:25 AM   
theshytype


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RE: Most don't get it........ - 2/19/2014 10:01:06 AM   
Lynnxz


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Am I one of the 'most'? What don't I get? What? Where? **wanders off to get it**


You can be one of the moist.

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RE: Most don't get it........ - 2/19/2014 10:01:07 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Lynnxz


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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant
Hmmm... I'd love to see him educate LP in a cage match. Hell, I'd even give him a chainsaw and her a pack of gummy bears.

Place your bets ladies and gents. 1,000,000 to one odds on the new comer.... The vig will kill you the other way.

Jus sayin
Exiled

Do I get to bring the whip? I promise I'll provide My own.





Don't get crazy, we still need a semblance of a fair fight.


Ha! You clearly saw the bigger picture, dinnya?

As the cage snaps shut, the OP starts to monologue... Kinda like a James Bond villain, "Foolish woman, now I have you in my clutches. You must be learned and educated as to blah, blah, blah, yawn..." LP opens her pack of gummie bears, all nonchalant and shit, fashioning her gummie bears and earrings into the sticky scourge of Destruction!

Yep, it's not pretty.

Jus sayin
Exiled


Dude, I hate you. I've got no less than five written works going at the same time, and you drop that nugget on the counter in front of me? Damn you, man, that line alone would justify another story right there. And it doesn't help that the OP's avatar does bear more than passing resemblance to a Bond villain...

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RE: Most don't get it........ - 2/19/2014 10:06:15 AM   
ExiledTyrant


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ORIGINAL: MasterCaneman


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ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant


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ORIGINAL: Lynnxz


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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant
Hmmm... I'd love to see him educate LP in a cage match. Hell, I'd even give him a chainsaw and her a pack of gummy bears.

Place your bets ladies and gents. 1,000,000 to one odds on the new comer.... The vig will kill you the other way.

Jus sayin
Exiled

Do I get to bring the whip? I promise I'll provide My own.





Don't get crazy, we still need a semblance of a fair fight.


Ha! You clearly saw the bigger picture, dinnya?

As the cage snaps shut, the OP starts to monologue... Kinda like a James Bond villain, "Foolish woman, now I have you in my clutches. You must be learned and educated as to blah, blah, blah, yawn..." LP opens her pack of gummie bears, all nonchalant and shit, fashioning her gummie bears and earrings into the sticky scourge of Destruction!

Yep, it's not pretty.

Jus sayin
Exiled


Dude, I hate you. I've got no less than five written works going at the same time, and you drop that nugget on the counter in front of me? Damn you, man, that line alone would justify another story right there. And it doesn't help that the OP's avatar does bear more than passing resemblance to a Bond villain...


Um... Er... Well, did you want fries with that?

P.S. Exiled industries cannot be held responsible for damages incurred to any electronic devices that may be destroyed from liquids gushing from your nose and mouth at a high rate of speed due to an Exiled Industries quip.


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RE: Most don't get it........ - 2/19/2014 10:15:42 AM   
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ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant


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ORIGINAL: Lynnxz


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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant
Hmmm... I'd love to see him educate LP in a cage match. Hell, I'd even give him a chainsaw and her a pack of gummy bears.

Place your bets ladies and gents. 1,000,000 to one odds on the new comer.... The vig will kill you the other way.

Jus sayin
Exiled

Do I get to bring the whip? I promise I'll provide My own.





Don't get crazy, we still need a semblance of a fair fight.


Ha! You clearly saw the bigger picture, dinnya?

As the cage snaps shut, the OP starts to monologue... Kinda like a James Bond villain, "Foolish woman, now I have you in my clutches. You must be learned and educated as to blah, blah, blah, yawn..." LP opens her pack of gummie bears, all nonchalant and shit, fashioning her gummie bears and earrings into the sticky scourge of Destruction!

Yep, it's not pretty.

Jus sayin
Exiled


Dude, I hate you. I've got no less than five written works going at the same time, and you drop that nugget on the counter in front of me? Damn you, man, that line alone would justify another story right there. And it doesn't help that the OP's avatar does bear more than passing resemblance to a Bond villain...


Um... Er... Well, did you want fries with that?

P.S. Exiled industries cannot be held responsible for damages incurred to any electronic devices that may be destroyed from liquids gushing from your nose and mouth at a high rate of speed due to an Exiled Industries quip.


No high-velocity fluid expectoration here. It's just now I'm trying to figure out how to have a character fashion Gummie bears and earrings into a death-dealing device of fruity destruction..

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RE: Most don't get it........ - 2/19/2014 10:23:41 AM   
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No high-velocity fluid expectoration here. It's just now I'm trying to figure out how to have a character fashion Gummie bears and earrings into a death-dealing device of fruity destruction..


I'm kind of McGyvers smarter brother. At home, in the jungle, I make my own cording, string, and rope from fiber. It's a neat process and a skill I acquired because I like being able to walk off into the jungle with a shoe string and build a Shopping mall.

Naturally, in my twisted TV of vision, I saw LP rolling her gummie bears into cord, twisting those cords into a scourge, attaching her earrings, and waylaying the fuck out of him. Bond villain falls into the lava pit in the center and we all cheer... Shudder fearfully... But cheer loudly so she doesn't scream "NEXT!" and point at one of us.

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RE: Most don't get it........ - 2/19/2014 10:28:40 AM   
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I'm more surprised that some people are not agreeing with this. Yea, it's a little biblical but no where did I read there was any harm to the submissive. I've seen pictures and read posts about all kinds of play and being referred to as "a piece of meat", "my way or the highway", slavery, etc. I've seen pics that would have me running to the curb. I did not see any abuse in his OP.

I thought it was more or less the meat and potatos for M/s.

ETA: DUCKS!


If the op had come in and said this is what I want in a relationship with a women who also thinks this way then I think he would have gotten totally different responses. But he came in and implied that all women are like this and that is what most people took offense with. I didn't see anyone say they thought he was abusing anyone so I can't respond to that point of your post.

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RE: Most don't get it........ - 2/19/2014 10:39:14 AM   
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I'm more surprised that some people are not agreeing with this. Yea, it's a little biblical but no where did I read there was any harm to the submissive. I've seen pictures and read posts about all kinds of play and being referred to as "a piece of meat", "my way or the highway", slavery, etc. I've seen pics that would have me running to the curb. I did not see any abuse in his OP.

I thought it was more or less the meat and potatos for M/s.

ETA: DUCKS!


If the op had come in and said this is what I want in a relationship with a women who also thinks this way then I think he would have gotten totally different responses. But he came in and implied that all women are like this and that is what most people took offense with. I didn't see anyone say they thought he was abusing anyone so I can't respond to that point of your post.


yea I must not have had my morning coffee then. Reading again he is just coming across as weird. I can only hope he has a woman for a boss.

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RE: Most don't get it........ - 2/19/2014 10:48:23 AM   
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RE: Most don't get it........ - 2/19/2014 11:41:02 AM   
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If he can get someone to go for this approach and run with it, then he is indeed the darkly brooding Tarnsman of Gor.

And if he can't, then either it's on to plan B, flogging the same dead horse to no avail, or just being happy with a rich fantasy life.

But he's entitled to his thing and I wish him all the best.

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