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Is every dom on here a pro? - 2/21/2014 11:29:18 AM   
Potatoesg


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Status: offline 		I have been on here for a few hours and have been trawling through profiles. And it seems every single dom out there are calling themselves pros so are expecting money.
I am a very good slave and have queues of men willing to dominate me. But I was after a change hence why I joined this site.
If you are not a guy and don't charge. Please get in touch.
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RE: Is every dom on here a pro? - 2/21/2014 11:36:24 AM   
SweetAnise


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Joined: 8/23/2013
Status: offline 		Welcome to the discussion side. Since you have been here for only a few hours you may simply want to hang around and get to know others on this side. Ask questions and join the discussion. The CM Profile side is very different than this side.

What stood out in your profile however is that you are married and your wife doesn't know about you being here. So actually paying someone may work for you because most single women on CM do not wish to have interaction or play with someone who is not honest with their partner. Most women would want an established relationship where they get something out of it too. Not just you.

< Message edited by SweetAnise -- 2/21/2014 11:46:13 AM >

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RE: Is every dom on here a pro? - 2/21/2014 11:37:35 AM   
TNDommeK


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Status: offline 		Most of the time, our profiles will be honest about what we do, and what we are.


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RE: Is every dom on here a pro? - 2/21/2014 11:37:55 AM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		Okay. First, your profile is not visible. That won't help.

I'm surprised that you'd have so many men wanting to Dom you tge day that you joined, with no profile and no way to contact you prior to your post. How does that work?

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RE: Is every dom on here a pro? - 2/21/2014 11:43:35 AM   
LafayetteLady


Posts: 7683
Joined: 5/2/2007
From: Northern New Jersey
Status: offline 		Well, your profile isn't likely to find you anything but a pro. As sweetanise mentioned, the cheating on your wife isn't something many women are going to want.

But worse is that you openly state that you "are too good to pay," a complete turnoff and certainly not something some one who admits they are new to this should be saying. Shit, someone with years of expeience shouldn't be saying it.

If you were as good as you think, you probably wouldn't need to cheat on your wife.

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RE: Is every dom on here a pro? - 2/21/2014 11:44:42 AM   
LafayetteLady


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From: Northern New Jersey
Status: offline 		Profile was just visible to me. It was quite amusing.

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RE: Is every dom on here a pro? - 2/21/2014 11:49:09 AM   
Miyani


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Joined: 12/4/2007
Status: offline 		~FR~

Believe me, honey, you're not too good to have to pay. Submissive men, especially online, are a dime a dozen, and as was mentioned above, the fact that you're cheating on your wife throws you to the bottom of the pile.

You've got queues of men waiting to dominate you. Go to them.

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RE: Is every dom on here a pro? - 2/21/2014 11:49:40 AM   
Rawni


Posts: 1175
Status: offline 		I saw his profile and I gotta say... this whole thing is about as made up as a few other threads that have been around recently... in my opinion of course. Once again we are hitting all the hot buttons where regulars will tend to post rashly, pointing out all the faults and getting riled up so this newbie with strong opinions will get his junk off. A player of another kind.

No picture because of his wife. Been here a few hours and can only see pro's for which he won't pay and he wants to try the other side being a bit tired of the normal... guy.


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RE: Is every dom on here a pro? - 2/21/2014 11:52:47 AM   
SweetAnise


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Status: offline 		Ah a Troll CM member. . We should have badges for them.

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RE: Is every dom on here a pro? - 2/21/2014 12:16:44 PM   
LadyConstanze


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Potatoesg

I have been on here for a few hours and have been trawling through profiles. And it seems every single dom out there are calling themselves pros so are expecting money.
I am a very good slave and have queues of men willing to dominate me. But I was after a change hence why I joined this site.
If you are not a guy and don't charge. Please get in touch.


First the good news:
Somewhere, in one of the many planets of this almost infinitive universe, there might be one planet in which short, skinny, cheating males are in hot demands and are considered too good to have to pay.

Now the bad news:
You're on the wrong planet

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RE: Is every dom on here a pro? - 2/21/2014 12:21:06 PM   
OsideGirl


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Potatoesg

If you are not a guy and don't charge. Please get in touch.


No, not every Dom/me is a Pro.....and trolling for dates in the forums is just tacky.


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RE: Is every dom on here a pro? - 2/21/2014 12:39:07 PM   
DesFIP


Posts: 25191
Joined: 11/25/2007
From: Apple County NY
Status: offline 		Does the UK do a February break from school? If it was a U.S. profile, I'd put it down to that.

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RE: Is every dom on here a pro? - 2/21/2014 2:16:53 PM   
Inghammar


Posts: 145
Joined: 11/25/2012
Status: offline 		I am not a pro dom but I do an occasional mugging.

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RE: Is every dom on here a pro? - 2/21/2014 2:26:01 PM   
SeekingTrinity


Posts: 1834
Joined: 5/29/2012
From: The 'burbs of Portland, OR
Status: offline 		~FRing it~

If one has a line of men around the block ten times over...all eager to dominate, why is one trolling an Internet forum looking for men to dominate him? To my way of thinking, Id have gone with the sure thing (the queues of men all willing to dominate you) instead of this way of doing things.

Or perhaps complaining about pros who charge was the true motivation? Hmm...

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RE: Is every dom on here a pro? - 2/21/2014 2:40:47 PM   
crazyml


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Status: offline 		I've just taken a look at your profile, and I'm torn between writing you off as a troll and admiring your self confidence.

Assuming, for now, that you're not taking the piss..

Unless you radically overhaul the profile, though, you don't stand a chance. As it stands, while you may indeed be too good to pay, there is no evidence whatsoever of this in the profile.

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RE: Is every dom on here a pro? - 2/21/2014 2:50:42 PM   
PeonForHer


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quote:

ORIGINAL: TNDommeK

Most of the time, our profiles will be honest about what we do, and what we are.




Are you mixing up CM with some other website, K?

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RE: Is every dom on here a pro? - 2/21/2014 3:59:55 PM   
ResidentSadist


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Status: offline 		"Is every dom on here a pro?"

Nope . . . some are definitely amateurs.

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RE: Is every dom on here a pro? - 2/21/2014 4:01:36 PM   
ExiledTyrant


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From: Exiled
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quote:

ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

"Is every dom on here a pro?"

Nope . . . some are definitely amateurs.


It's the spoon thing isn't it? Damn spoon test... FFS they said there is no spoon.

Amateur
Exiled

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RE: Is every dom on here a pro? - 2/21/2014 5:05:23 PM   
FluidFlame


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Joined: 2/19/2014
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Potatoesg

I have been on here for a few hours and have been trawling through profiles. And it seems every single dom out there are calling themselves pros so are expecting money.
I am a very good slave and have queues of men willing to dominate me. But I was after a change hence why I joined this site.
If you are not a guy and don't charge. Please get in touch.



Neither one of us on this account considers ourselves a pro, and we would never expect money (unless you move in then we'd need help with food and bills).

~Flame


Edit: it may take some time wandering the community to find who would suit you the best.

< Message edited by FluidFlame -- 2/21/2014 5:15:26 PM >

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RE: Is every dom on here a pro? - 2/21/2014 5:49:12 PM   
LadyPact


Posts: 32566
Status: offline 		Let Me see what I can do in this matter.......

I am not a pro. I don't charge people for play, cam, scenarios, or sell <cough> used items. On the other hand, as a presenter, I have been comp'd (compensated) for time and expense for doing demonstrations at various kink related groups and events. That means, if I'm going to be the demo chick for various organizations, I get in the door for free, may or may not get overnight accommodations, or be reimbursed for gas, materials, or time spent. I'm not what folks would call a 'big name'. (In other words, I'm not Jack Rinella, Lee Harrington, or anybody else you might recognize just from who they are.)

On the other hand, I don't do anything that I consider 'private' or pay for play. If there is not a group or organization involved where it is an actual TEACHING experience, I've got no interest in it.


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