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LadyPact -> RE: Is it really a numbers game? (2/23/2014 1:54:20 PM)
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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze
They weren't all workshops, but most munches (certainly all I have been to) the men outnumber the women, fetish events even more so, at workshops you actually get the highest number of women.
I'm so puzzled about your experience, I have slowed down going to munches and all that, I think the last year maybe 3 or 4, I guess LP is the most active around here, maybe she can shed some light on it, because unless you are really living in an area that hardly has any guys, it seems to be so different from everything I ever experienced.
These days, I'm actually not. I haven't been to anything since the community dungeon in December. Since then, there have been some things that are privately held, rather than under the community name, but due to the events allowing some who have outed others in the kink community to attend, I really don't want anything to do with that. There was also one person from the community who started up a fat thread (which has since been pulled) and I was ashamed to say I actually knew the man.
When I was attending, the Fairbanks area is actually rather small. As for single men, I've got one of the few, and there were some folks who really weren't happy about that. Being a skilled top is always an advantage, no matter how the numbers roll.
I've been everything from the only Dominant (not switch) woman in the room and I've been one of many. Some of it does come down to where a person lives because having moved several times during My kink life, if anything, I'd really just say that it depends on where you are. You can't even pin it on a certain state because two munch groups who are more or less neighbors can have completely different demographics.
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