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Everafter1972 -> Looking for real. Tired of emails and fakes (2/23/2014 3:53:28 AM)
I am a 41, soon to be 42, year old woman. I am overweight but I have been told I am attractive. I am working on losing weight. I live in Galveston, TX but I was born and raised in Italy and I have lived all over Europe and US. I do have an accent. I have dual citizenship. I work in the medical profession. I have a career. I always excelled academically. I also have kids. No drama or issues. They are at a point where they are pretty independent. My interests and hobbies include: walking (and sometimes running) on the beach, reading, movies, sci fi, self sufficiency, homesteading, camping, travel, music. I would also be perfectly happy to stay home and cuddle watching a movie. I am really tired of the endless emails and chatting with men who never want to meet. Ultimately, my goal is to find a Dom/partner/soulmate for a ltr

ChatteParfaitt -> RE: Looking for real. Tired of emails and fakes (2/23/2014 5:22:10 AM)
Welcome to the discussion side Ever. Your profile and pic look very familiar. A good way to weed out the wannabes is to discuss vanilla topics until you meet. And plan to meet early. Yes, this takes patience.

RedMagic1 -> RE: Looking for real. Tired of emails and fakes (2/23/2014 6:04:58 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Everafter1972 I am really tired of the endless emails and chatting with men who never want to meet. Uninstall Yahoo. Email back and forth at most five times, then set a date to meet, preferably by phone. Use a prepaid phone if you are concerned about stalker issues. Don't waste time on time wasters.

SweetAnise -> RE: Looking for real. Tired of emails and fakes (2/23/2014 6:35:10 AM)
Welcome to the forum.

kalikshama -> RE: Looking for real. Tired of emails and fakes (2/23/2014 7:00:54 AM)
I'm pretty sure I already advised you to: 1. only date local guys 2. who were willing and able to meet within two weeks, but if not, there it is again. If they are local and can't meet you in two weeks, they are likely too busy to date or otherwise do not share your relationship goals. Welcome back!

Everafter1972 -> RE: Looking for real. Tired of emails and fakes (2/23/2014 7:02:19 AM)
I had to delete my previous profile and make a new one based on a suggestion by one of the members here. My previous profile name gave too much identifying info

kalikshama -> RE: Looking for real. Tired of emails and fakes (2/23/2014 7:06:04 AM)
quote: I am overweight but I have been told I am attractive. I am working on losing weight. I recommend not framing it this way, as it indicates low self esteem, which is chum for predators. People can tell by your pictures that you are overweight; no need to dwell on it. You could frame it more positively by saying something like "slowly but surely losing weight now that I have discovered myfitnesspal.com and water aerobics" - whatever is applicable.

SweetAnise -> RE: Looking for real. Tired of emails and fakes (2/23/2014 7:07:14 AM)
kalikshama I was thinking the same thing.

DarkSteven -> RE: Looking for real. Tired of emails and fakes (2/23/2014 8:17:44 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt Welcome to the discussion side Ever. Your profile and pic look very familiar. Yep. She was previously here under another name. Welcome back.

Inghammar -> RE: Looking for real. Tired of emails and fakes (2/23/2014 9:40:21 AM)
Hello. I just read through your profile and I was left with the impression you are looking for a fundamentally conventional relationship with some kink. I don't mean to come off as 'kinkier than thou' but perhaps there are better venues with which to meet someone? You seem motivated to get in shape more and perhaps there is a group activity - rock climbing, bicycling, sport bikes (my bias :) - anything that attracts a diverse group and that interests you. Meet some people in a relaxed venue and let the kink chips fall where they may. A good match might be someone who has some kink but not overwhelmingly so that he hangs out around here.

eagarsub -> RE: Looking for real. Tired of emails and fakes (2/23/2014 9:51:12 AM)
Hi I'm 26 and looking to meet people for chat and possibly play so far have only encountered the pay to play fakes and was hoping that's not all this sites about

Rasciallymisty -> RE: Looking for real. Tired of emails and fakes (2/23/2014 12:13:44 PM)
First eagarsub its rude to highjack someone else intro...if you have not done so make your own intro. Sorry about that op. Everafter its nice to have you back and its even nicer that you wanted to come back and join us here again.

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