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sexyred1 -> RE: Gaining (2/24/2014 3:23:52 PM)
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ORIGINAL: SyrMorgana
@LadyConstanze and Kalikshama, my apologies that you have seen such awful representations of this issue. Yes indeed, there is a darker side to it, as there is any fetish but my understanding is that when done consensually and considerately it can be as enjoyable as any other aspect of kink. :)
In my case, I like the idea of feeding someone, although granted not excessively so but am also simply an admirer of larger people. Generally people who are larger naturally.
Ok, I will be quite blunt, OP. The kink you describe as being consensual, considerate and enjoyable is sugar costing an actual practice called feeder-ism, which is one of the most heinous, selfish, desperately controlling and dangerous practices ever.
As a big girl myself, I of course am attracted to men who are attracted to me and my body type. However......I would not be attracted to someone who viewed my fat as a fetish delivery system, instead of a woman. It's like when someone calls me beautiful, I get that. If someone said you are a beautiful fat woman, that's stupid because now you have qualified my beauty by my size. Understand?
No woman, fat or thin, wants a kink to be about size. I would say the same if you were into not feeding someone consensually. It's dangerous and fucked up to help someone gain weight who is already heavy.
You need to look inside and discover what type of person looks out from the mirror, who would partake of such an emotionally and physically damaging practice. And if a woman wanted this, then she is not simply into accepting herself, she is actually suffering from severe self esteem issues.
If you admire larger people, date one, but tank this kink. God, if any guy asked me to gain weight, I would slap him.
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