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rubytuesday -> Have a question bout orgasms blush (11/20/2004 11:18:40 PM)
This might sound weird but Im genuinely curious and i hope no one is offended by my question.......... Having been newly introduced to the world of the clitoral orgasm [;)] I have found that once I reach the point where I tip over the edge (if you know what it mean) it's just a very short lasting intense sensation and then i get a really really sensitive clit - is that normal - Id love to be able to take more attention to that area after an orgasm but wonder if it is similar to when a guy cums and then needs breathing space - damn I feel so naive and certainly this is the only place I feel comfortable asking this. smiles ruby

proudsub -> RE: Have a question bout orgasms blush (11/20/2004 11:52:24 PM)
quote: Having been newly introduced to the world of the clitoral orgasm I have found that once I reach the point where I tip over the edge (if you know what it mean) it's just a very short lasting intense sensation and then i get a really really sensitive clit - is that normal - It is for me. I need several minutes before i can be touched again.

blushes4u -> RE: Have a question bout orgasms blush (11/21/2004 4:21:10 AM)
ohhhh same here i definitely need to breathhh and use my inhaler [:D]

MistressDREAD -> RE: Have a question bout orgasms blush (11/21/2004 6:13:03 AM)
OoOoOoOHHHH but ladies this IS the time when Us Dominants LUVVVVVVV to have ya tied and moaning and continue to tourture those sweet lil nubs to those next orgazaaaumms making them swell up till they feel like they will absolutly burst with that sweet gummie smell of cum drooling down your sweet shivering and quivering inner thighs as you beg and moan and cry and hollar to pleaze pppppppPLLLLLEAAAAZZZZZZEEEEEEEE no more till you once again cummmm to Our delight and your ready to totally fall out from exhaustion. ~smiles wickedly~

MaitresseEden -> RE: Have a question bout orgasms blush (11/21/2004 7:19:10 AM)
Not unusal at all.. Now if you want to learn to have mutliples or intensify the clitorial orgasm, Work on massaging the G-spot while getting the clitorial stimulation. the G- spot is something that has to be developed over time, It is reach with a gentle upward hooking motion on the finger, and feels like a spongy tissue. As it is stimulated and becomes more accustom to stimulation it will expand and enlarge. In some woman as large as a 50 cent piece. Statistically most women prefer in and out stroking with pressure to the G-spot. There are many toys out on the market, but I personally just prefer a submissive with real long fingers, and a hard tongue . Somepeople are able to have multiplesby alternating between g-spot and clitorial, others have more intense whole orgasms when the two are combined. Happy Experimenting! Ms. Eden

perverseangelic -> RE: Have a question bout orgasms blush (11/21/2004 9:52:56 AM)
Lord, me too. I had someone once think that by keeping going without pausing he could get me to another orgasm. Very effective form of torture. It hurt. Badly. Ended up being sore for three days. If I have a minute or two to pause, then I can sometimes come again, but to keep going for too long right after just -hurts- and doesn't stop hurting till the person stops.

rubytuesday -> RE: Have a question bout orgasms blush (11/21/2004 3:53:41 PM)
Well I dont feel so abnormal now smile - Its such a difficult topic to bring up with ones friends and being new to the orgasmic world I really am curious - G spot orgasms and multiples of I have mastered but for intensity I just cant get enough of the clitoral orgasms - I kinda liked turning 40 - its been a sexual and sensual learning curve ever since. smiles ruby

sub4hire -> RE: Have a question bout orgasms blush (11/24/2004 2:54:12 PM)
Better late than never. I know a woman who is 55 she just realized her erogenous zones. Its been a learning experience for her for the past two years. Anyway, I guess I'm a bit different than most. Once my clitoris becomes inflamed enough for me to orgasm. I can have multiples. It is only if it is too rough it becomes painful. My old Dom used to love to see how many orgasms I could have before passing out. Thankfully Doug has only done that to me on two occassions. He is a bit less sadistic. Yes, everyone I know everyone loves orgasms. However when large chunks of life just disappear. I think I'd settle for less orgasms.

BeachMystress -> RE: Have a question bout orgasms blush (11/26/2004 12:49:55 AM)
One thing about a G-spot stimulation. It can make you feel like you need to pee. It is kinda how I tell new people they know they're doing it right. Make sure to urinate before playing.. then let your partner go to it. Some women do "ejaculate" with a G-spot orgasm. I experience that about 1/3 of the time that I cum that way. For those of you who think you've never had it happen so you never will.. I was 36 the first time I "ejaculated." It took the right man with the right touch. I must admit to being taken VERY aback. For us women.. wet in that quantity isn't usually good. I was lucky to have a partner who knew exactly what had happened and explained it to me. I told him it couldn't have been because I'm not a squirter. He repeated the exercise many times and showed me I was. smiles

suzeeQ -> RE: Have a question bout orgasms blush (11/26/2004 4:54:34 AM)
ok learned somthing about myself in this post. Wow, i always thought I had a bladder problem lol. Seems though, from this post, i must be a "squirter" also [:)]

blushes4u -> RE: Have a question bout orgasms blush (11/26/2004 2:21:46 PM)
personal note ....I just LOVE the way MistressDread thinks!!! [:D]

topcat -> RE: Have a question bout orgasms blush (11/27/2004 7:10:43 AM)
Midear Ruby- Try this: When you hit the 'NO MORE!' point, just have him cup his hand (or you do it) over the whole vulva, and just 'pulse'- slowly, rythmicly squeeze gently. for some, this is an amazing technique Stay warm, Lawrence

LadyBeckett -> RE: Have a question bout orgasms blush (11/27/2004 10:43:50 AM)
I read a lot of focus on clitoral and g-spot orgasms, however there are more "spots" that can be stimulated with a warm wet tongue that result in a build up leading to those pleasurable contractions, and can be explored gently, patiently, following a clitoral or g-spot orgasm, to extend the experience without pain, but sweet little experiences while another clitoral or g-spot orgasm is being contemplated. [;)]

Nvernilla -> RE: Have a question bout orgasms blush (11/27/2004 11:22:39 AM)
I second this emotion! I also like the way they get closer together. I can only tell about female orgasm from the outside though, this trip to earth anyway

smile2cu -> RE: Have a question bout orgasms blush (11/28/2004 5:01:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyBeckett I read a lot of focus on clitoral and g-spot orgasms, however there are more "spots" that can be stimulated with a warm wet tongue that result in a build up leading to those pleasurable contractions, and can be explored gently, patiently, following a clitoral or g-spot orgasm, to extend the experience without pain, but sweet little experiences while another clitoral or g-spot orgasm is being contemplated. [;)] I think it varies from woman to woman, but following a first clitoral orgasm, it seems there's usually a place for a gentle warm wet tongue. But one has to listen. If she says "Mmmm", you're probably OK. "Errk": better back off pretty fast, and try elsewhere and lighter. There's no rush. Just soft caresses. Depending on the situation, this can continue for quite some time. Most women turn out to be multiorgasmic. (You lucky so-and-so's [sm=tongue.gif])

rubytuesday -> RE: Have a question bout orgasms blush (11/29/2004 12:19:51 AM)
Lawrence - well thank you for that - I should be able to get a try at that technique this weekend if Im lucky ............... I'd love to be able to go on from the "no more" point and see what happens.........damn these orgasms are addicting :-) smile2cu - I know you are an "expert" in this area smile - as Ive often said damn shame Ohio is so far from NZ wicked grin smiles ruby

subbiejenn -> RE: Have a question bout orgasms blush (12/1/2004 8:01:38 AM)
Hiya Ruby i have also felt the same way as you and became very sensitive after a orgasm but there was one Dom who was into forced multiply orgasms which i didn't think i could do because of this. i had always needed some time in between and didn't think i could just keep going but i did with Him. Honestly the whole experience is foggy LOL but i had several orgasms in a row and without Him giving me the break i usually needed so it can be done! It was amazing experience for me. He used 2 Hitachi magic wands and needless to say afterwards i went and brought me 2 of them! One He inserted inside of me (hitting that G-spot) and the other on my clit and honestly it was like i got where i couldn't control the orgasms they just keep coming and coming. i found myself begging Him to stop which is another thing i thought i would do LOL When He did stop i didn't think i could have another orgasm if my life depended on it but that is when He fisted me and OMG again and again more orgasms. The body is really a amazing thing smiles i always had many orgasms in a session but never this close together. grins it can be done -- just need the right person to show it to you.. JMO best of luck ~jenn~

Destinysskeins -> RE: Have a question bout orgasms blush (12/2/2004 9:16:49 AM)
you're supposed to stop stimulation after reaching this point?! grins i don't know if i'm just wired a bit differently but i do love continued clitorical stimulation after orgasms. Though when i stop and think about it i do think it took a bit of time to reach this point (such as a year's worth of pleasuring myself after my divorce! [:)]). i'd suggest to try continued stimulation for longer and longer periods of time to gradually increase your tolerance/desire for this type of thing. Oh, and as a sidenote i've found that men can also enjoy this type of thing after orgasm as well - grins just remember to hold on tight as they tend to buck a bit!

conflicted -> RE: Have a question bout orgasms blush (12/5/2004 5:28:08 AM)
i had to smile at Mistress Dread's comment. I found myself tied spread eagle to a table recently and had a very similar experience but with the use of various powerful buzzy toys. It was actually a punishment, and while it felt like bliss after the first few...after nearly an hour i was absolutely exhausted and begging (as well as i could between trying to catch my breath) for Him to stop, which He did......eventually.....after.. "Just one more" . i thought i knew my body, laying there exhausted, whimpering that there wasnt any left..... ANYWAY..... my whole body ached for the next 2 days from muscle soreness!!! It was a punishment that i wont forget in a hurry. i hope you have loads of fun Ruby giggles n

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