How old where you when you first became "involved" in bdsm?

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18-23

39% (13)

24-29

6% (2)

30-35

9% (3)

36-41

12% (4)

42-47

6% (2)

48-53

3% (1)

54-59

0% (0)

59-64

0% (0)

65 +

0% (0)

19 and under

24% (8)

Total Votes : 33

(last vote on : 2/4/2008 4:18:54 AM)
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srllile7 -> How old where you when you first became "involved" in bdsm? (7/7/2006 4:34:15 AM)
Okay so its a very vague question, but we all do something so diffrent so i left it kinda open-ended and would love an additional comments. Thank you.

ta2dqt -> RE: How old where you when you first became "involved" in bdsm? (7/7/2006 4:44:08 AM)
I was once married BY age 16...........................I had my first experiences then.....................not all good...........but even through all that.........I STILL know what i want........................ how bout Yall?????? ;) XOXOXOXOXOXO

JohnWarren -> RE: How old where you when you first became "involved" in bdsm? (7/7/2006 5:15:24 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: srllile7 Okay so its a very vague question, but we all do something so diffrent so i left it kinda open-ended and would love an additional comments. Thank you. a Almost 21 when I first whipped someone, but the fantasies had appeared when I was about eight

shivvy -> RE: How old where you when you first became "involved" in bdsm? (7/7/2006 5:22:47 AM)
sorry, but had to answer 18, but infact i woz 16 when i first experienced the pain and pleasure of bdsm. as for when i thought and fantasied about stuff i now know is called bdsm, then prolly like Mr Warren, when i woz about 8.

RavenMuse -> RE: How old where you when you first became "involved" in bdsm? (7/7/2006 5:35:01 AM)
None of the above. I was 15 when introduced to BDSM and D/s by the lovely woman who soon after ended up wearing my first collar.

SpankMuhButt -> RE: How old where you when you first became "involved" in bdsm? (7/7/2006 6:06:28 AM)
Had my first expierience at 25-26 only cause i didnt know what it was before that. I knew i had "strange" kinks but didnt know there was a name for it till i got online, wasnt like i could say "hey mom is it weird to imagine a group of men doing nasty things to me while they pull my hair and call me a nasty slut" lol

Evanesce -> RE: How old where you when you first became "involved" in bdsm? (7/7/2006 8:03:13 AM)
"Involved" in what way? I've played kinky games since the age of 18, but I didn't become "involved," as in lifestyle and community until my late 30's.

wild1cfl -> RE: How old where you when you first became "involved" in bdsm? (7/7/2006 8:19:58 AM)
When I was a young boy of about 6 or 7 I loved to tie the neighboring girls who were about the same age to the poles in our barn. It was a game to us but it start a deep desire to bind a woman with rope. This later grew into my love of rope bondage that really become formal at the age of 17 with a young lady of the same age who had stolen some of her father's porn magazines that showed pictures of rope bondage. From there it was all downhill LOL

srllile7 -> RE: How old where you when you first became "involved" in bdsm? (7/7/2006 8:30:16 AM)
Okay i have changed the ages a bit sorry for those who have voted but there was a suprising amount who were under 19 so theres a couple of new categories. btw i just now becam involved at 22. I was intrested in starting probably 16 but didnt know my kinks had a whole society behind them if you will till recently, nor did i find a Dominant man till now.

RavenMuse -> RE: How old where you when you first became "involved" in bdsm? (7/7/2006 8:37:40 AM)
Given you changed it and added "19 and under" I have now added my vote[:)]

Chrisie -> RE: How old where you when you first became "involved" in bdsm? (7/7/2006 9:11:13 AM)
I was interduiced to it as a child, First I learned to bare it. then I learned to like it. now I crave it.

YveGee -> RE: How old where you when you first became "involved" in bdsm? (7/7/2006 9:27:56 AM)
My first boyfriends were all foot fetishists and very, very eager to please! They were the ones who didn't tell me it was wrong to spank a naughty boy(friend). [;)] It wasn't until I was out of college and making friends in "the real world" that I learned that it wasn't normal to bend an erring lover over my knee. None of my friends in college minded! Heck! Many of my college friends helped me dress my sissies and gave me more ideas on how to make a guy up. I married a vanilla guy but he doesn't mind my kinksters and fetishists. I've never been active in the community. I'm not really much of a joiner. Occasionally I post but you'll noticed that my post count is very low considering I've been here since 2004.

MrrPete -> RE: How old where you when you first became "involved" in bdsm? (7/7/2006 9:49:29 AM)
My earliest recollection was trying on my mom's shoes sometime around age ten. Then fantasies of domination started in my 20s. It wasn't till I got my first computer and found the Internet that realized there were others like me and more importantly women willing to the recipient. I was involved in IRC chatrooms for about 2 years before my first RT experience Once I had a taste of the real thing I lost interest in IRC.

cuddleheart50 -> RE: How old where you when you first became "involved" in bdsm? (7/7/2006 1:15:29 PM)
I was 47, late bloomer...lol

litleone8620 -> RE: How old where you when you first became "involved" in bdsm? (7/7/2006 1:24:34 PM)
The fantasies appeared when i was 13. I put a name to them at 17, and had my first RL experience when i was 20

enigmabrat -> RE: How old where you when you first became "involved" in bdsm? (7/7/2006 2:10:46 PM)
I was abaout 15 when I first started but I was actually spanking my sisters when we played house when I was like 8ish and into spanking even befor that

SexyRed -> RE: How old where you when you first became "involved" in bdsm? (7/7/2006 2:20:27 PM)
I knew from my first memories...I would have certain feelings when I saw images on TV or movies or in books. I also played with other kids in that way before I even knew what I was doing and why I was doing it. My first real experience was age 16...and never turned back.

Daddysredhead -> RE: How old where you when you first became "involved" in bdsm? (7/7/2006 3:22:55 PM)
I was spanked as a kid when I got into trouble, and like enigmabrat, I often spanked other kids when we played house and I was the "mom." I read the book 9 1/2 Weeks as soon as it came out, which was when I was in my early teens if not before. I did not know that other people actually "did" those kinds of things, but I know that the book's binding was heavily creased at all of the "good parts." I tied up and was tied up by a boyfriend when I was 16, and had a strong pull towards kink from the beginning of my sexual experiences. I remember signing my friends' high school yearbooks "Perverts Make Better Lovers" - which probably made some of their parents wonder about the nice girl in the neighborhood who did so much volunteer work and such, and why she would write such a thing. [:D] I had some kinky experiences sexually off and on, but it was not until I met Daddy three years ago that I heard the term BDSM and what it encompassed. Since then though, I have been fortunate enough to have a sweet, patient Master who has taken me far beyond what I thought I was comfortable with, and who has actually had to slow me down a bit in order for me to learn the way He wants me to, and not according to my own preferences. Turns out, Master was right. (Imagine that! lol) quote: A trucker will slow down for a blonde, stop for a brunette, but back up 500 yards for a redhead! Amen, my redheaded sister! Just need to blow up the size of that signature line!!! [sm=preen.gif]

SohCahToa -> RE: How old where you when you first became "involved" in bdsm? (7/7/2006 5:11:52 PM)
I bought my first pair of handcuffs at a gift shop on a school trip to a historic prison when I was eleven. At the time I justified the purchase as joke but deep down I think I knew what I wanted them for. I still have them and can still escape from them with the aid of only a paper clip mostly due to the fact they are cheap rubbish.

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