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I am new to scene and site andI would like to introduce... - 2/26/2014 7:20:08 PM

YouWantMe2What

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Hello All,I am 36 year old submissive male from Connecticut about 5 minutes from springfield Mass and 20 minutes from Hartford CT.I am looking for a strong Women to worship and serve. I am new to the scene and I need to be trained and just basically shown the ropes, as well as the whips,paddles and the chains and the .... etc.I am curious about all areas of servitude and I hope to find a cruel ,sadistic ,cold Fem Dom who will use Me as she sees fit.Anyone have any advice?

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RE: I am new to scene and site andI would like to intro... - 2/26/2014 7:23:28 PM

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Welcome to the Forum side. I don't have any advice, other than to read through some old threads that sound like they would interest you. There is an "Ask a Mistress" forum where others may have already asked questions that may help you.
Have fun.

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RE: I am new to scene and site andI would like to intro... - 2/27/2014 4:12:11 AM

Rasciallymisty

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Hello and welcome to the discussion side.

My first advice is since there are about hundred subs for every one Domme fill in your profile not about where you live but who you are in a non kink way. Second give them some information about yourself so that they may have find if they have things in common with you. Third and actual believe it or not it really is a biggy from what I have seen them say.....loss the bathroom mirror picture. They want to see you doing things you like to do. A good example of a great picture that will get you notice is like what a Dom has posted right here on the message board.....of him walking on fire. http://www.collarchat.com/m_4639377/tm.htm take a look. No you do not have to be walking on fire but just something that shows them who you are as a person. Oh and the junk in trunk pics they 99% of the time do not want to see unless they ask to see it. An lastly what Blonderfluff had to say.

Good luck to you and its nice to have you join us here.

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RE: I am new to scene and site andI would like to intro... - 2/27/2014 4:19:17 AM

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Welcome to the non-profile side of CM where we discus things and such.

If you're looking for a real time fem domme here's a huge piece of advice: don't lead with your kink.

Women like to be treated like (dare I say it) women first and dommes second. Unless you're willing to pay for it.

BTW: Describing yourself as a white sub male makes you sound racist. Just a heads up.

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RE: I am new to scene and site andI would like to intro... - 2/27/2014 8:39:54 AM

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Hello All,I am 36 year old submissive male from Connecticut about 5 minutes from springfield Mass and 20 minutes from Hartford CT.

...Anyone have any advice?

Yes, join the Western Mass Power Exchange, which last I knew had monthly munches in Chicopee, MA and a monthly event at a dungeon in CT. Last I checked, their fetlife page was more active than their website.

Also, your post sounds like your impression of Fem Dom relationships may have been formed by porn, which will turn off women looking for lifestyle relationships. (This will not be a problem for Pro Dommes.) I suggest you check out some of the nonfiction in the booklist: http://www.collarchat.com/m_1726118/tm.htm

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RE: I am new to scene and site andI would like to intro... - 2/27/2014 9:18:17 AM

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Some posts have been removed for being off topic. If you did not receive a Gold Letter, it is because your post replied to a post that was pulled.

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RE: I am new to scene and site andI would like to intro... - 2/27/2014 9:48:11 AM

YouWantMe2What

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ORIGINAL: kalikshama

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Hello All,I am 36 year old submissive male from Connecticut about 5 minutes from springfield Mass and 20 minutes from Hartford CT.

...Anyone have any advice?

Yes, join the Western Mass Power Exchange, which last I knew had monthly munches in Chicopee, MA and a monthly event at a dungeon in CT. Last I checked, their fetlife page was more active than their website.

Also, your post sounds like your impression of Fem Dom relationships may have been formed by porn, which will turn off women looking for lifestyle relationships. (This will not be a problem for Pro Dommes.) I suggest you check out some of the nonfiction in the booklist: http://www.collarchat.com/m_1726118/tm.htm

thanks every one for the advice.
why do you think that my impression of fem dom relationship was formed this way?
I would love to find a pro domme (or lifestyle dom) I have been trying to set up a session with one for the best part of a year and none of them ever get back to me. I did have one experience and it was a complete disappointment /rip off!I am very frustrated to say the least.

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