OvidInDallas
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Hello to both of you,
You are engaged in what is colloquially known as a Unicorn Hunt. This is because it is almost as hard to find a single bisexual female willing to engage in a committed relationship with an existing couple where she is a secondary figure in the relationship as it is to find a unicorn. Having been on the hunt myself in the past, I have some tips:
1) The male cannot sit out the process. Based on your profile it would seem that the live in slave will be having a lot of interactions with the male, including punishment. No sane person would enter that kind of relationship without extensive contact with the person they are planning to submit to. Would you be willing to enter a slave relationship with someone you only know through a third party (and a third party who is biased in favor of the dominant)?
2) Your profile indicates that the person you are looking for will have to go through a long term vetting process and that you are not ready for them to come to your home just yet. Good advice on this forum is that if you are looking to create a relationship with someone real then you will need to be able to meet with them within 2 weeks to at least check them out in person. This applies to your search too. If you plan a long online courting process then expect the person you are talking to online to turn out to be fake. With the number of couples looking for the unicorn, real unicorns don't need to wait for you to be ready for them.
3) On that same note, you have a large number of requirements for the unicorn. Slim, young, no kids, personality requirements. These will all make your search harder. For example, based on your profile I'm guessing you and your partner have a kid/kids? Are you looking for a fetish nanny? If not you should get rid of the good with kids thing. Again, anything that restricts your search will make finding your unicorn harder.
4) I'm guessing, based on your profile, that it was written by the female member of your relationship. The reason I guess this is because it is structured like many female profiles who have only ever really been courted by men (lists of demands and requirements, etc). If you are pursuing a woman then you need to build your profile around giving them what they want, not listing your expectations of them. Single women can pick and choose. You have to attract their attention, not vice versa. Keep what you want in mind, but bring it up as the relationship develops. Don't front load your fetishes and fantasies.
There's a bunch more I could suggest but that's a good start. I wish you the best of luck in your search, sometimes people do find that unicorn. I also hope you take the time to get involved in the forums here, they are much more engaging than the profile side. Welcome!
Helpfully,
Ovid
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