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Hey! Stubled upon this site on Reddit and decided to se... - 2/28/2014 6:51:38 AM

elec

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So... hello there good people.

I usually like to talk about others rather than myself, but just to get ends loose and since this is the introduction...

I am relatively very new to the scenery here. Have always been somewhat kinky and open to almost anything. Since for most of my past years the people i have met and hung around have been more vanilla type (i can tell since most of my relationships so far have been on the 'friends with benefits' level if you know what i mean), i really haven't had to chance to get pulled into anything... fetishy (is that even a word hah).
I met this one woman some half a year ago, who is a domme by profession. We clicked well and slowly but steadily i am opening up to the things i know i would love the most.
Not yet entirely sure about my orientation though... i do LOVE how she is even naturally dominating, talk about sexually. Then again, i don't like the mentality of a "slave", which i am not to her. I like to be the alpha and i like the woman to be my queen. I like to belong to her. I like her to do with me anything she wants and vice versa.
Well, anyway, there is much to explore and i am excited.

I value confident, rational people with steady mind and control over themselves. People with... professional attitude (hard to describe) but yet being able to be loose, open minded and funny.
I enjoy highly emotional, passionate music (as if, don't like reggae, but LOVE Vivaldi).
Also, constructively arguing with people not for i think i am right, but to make them question in themselves. I do think there is so much lies and manipulation all around us that you can hardly ever be 100% sure in anything. NOT paranoic though :D Just... a critical thinker.
I am VERY much into astrology, cosmology and physics overall.

And i think the best inventions throughout all human history are beef jerky and parmesan cheese.

Nice to meet you all!

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RE: Hey! Stubled upon this site on Reddit and decided t... - 2/28/2014 7:20:24 AM

DarkSteven

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Good Lord, fella. That's one of the best intros I've ever read. And I assume that's with English not being your first language. Let me guess - Estonian is your first language, Russian your second, and English your third?

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RE: Hey! Stubled upon this site on Reddit and decided t... - 2/28/2014 7:26:07 AM

SylvereApLeanan

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Hi, and welcome to the discussion forums. You sound like a friend of mine, who identifies as a switch. Have fun exploring!

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RE: Hey! Stubled upon this site on Reddit and decided t... - 2/28/2014 7:31:42 AM

OvidInDallas

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Hi Elec,

quote:

ORIGINAL: elec
Not yet entirely sure about my orientation though... i do LOVE how she is even naturally dominating, talk about sexually. Then again, i don't like the mentality of a "slave", which i am not to her. I like to be the alpha and i like the woman to be my queen. I like to belong to her. I like her to do with me anything she wants and vice versa.

Don't worry about tying yourself down to one of the official designations. For a long time I struggled with my orientation in kink much like what you are describing. Do not let Femdom porn mess with your head. You do not have to be a crawling worm to be a submissive male or submit to a dominant female. You don't have to enjoy humiliation or crossdressing to be a sub male. You can be an alpha and enjoy submitting to a woman you care for. Just be yourself and do what you enjoy and don't worry about labels.

I look forward to you joining discussions on the forum, welcome!

Regards,
Ovid

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RE: Hey! Stubled upon this site on Reddit and decided t... - 2/28/2014 7:33:28 AM

elec

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To be honest, i did learn russian in school for about seven years. Still, am as good in russian as an average reindeer is in algebra. So i wouldn't even put it in the list. Estonian 1st and english 2nd ;)

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RE: Hey! Stubled upon this site on Reddit and decided t... - 2/28/2014 10:33:10 AM

kalikshama

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Great intro!

I'm looking forward to seeing you participate in discussions around the forums.

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RE: Hey! Stubled upon this site on Reddit and decided t... - 2/28/2014 11:14:14 AM

LadyMondenschein

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Lol @ "am as good in Russian as an average reindeer is in algebra"..nice to meet you.

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RE: Hey! Stubled upon this site on Reddit and decided t... - 3/1/2014 6:43:37 AM

Rasciallymisty

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Hello and welcome elec, its nice to have you join us here.

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RE: Hey! Stubled upon this site on Reddit and decided t... - 3/1/2014 6:47:32 AM

elec

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Thank you. It's a pleasure.

And i'll remember not to piss in your cereal.

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RE: Hey! Stubled upon this site on Reddit and decided t... - 3/1/2014 6:51:49 AM

Rasciallymisty

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LMAO.....now everyone will wonder what you mean.....hehehehe.....its our secret okay???

You are going to fit in here rather well. I am looking forward to reading some of your post when you get more involved.

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