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RE: How do You make Your sub/slave feel owned? - 7/7/2006 2:39:51 PM

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RE: How do You make Your sub/slave feel owned? - 7/7/2006 2:59:24 PM

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You volunteering lass? <VWEG>

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RE: How do You make Your sub/slave feel owned? - 7/7/2006 5:56:36 PM

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Can I slap you around and call you martha?

Start slapping me around and you can call me anything you want

Now your just teasing me.

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RE: How do You make Your sub/slave feel owned? - 7/7/2006 6:08:29 PM

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I just do what I do. *shrugs*

I love to cuddle my slave. I've told her quite frequently that the only reason I can't let her sleep on the floor or the foot of the bed is because I love cuddling her too much. I know the amount of attention she gets helps. That, and I continually tend to remind her how special she is to me, etc. I've always been the romantic type on the inside.

She has mentioned on a couple of occassions that she feels like she is property and loved at the same time, something her other Master doesn't occassionally provide is the loved part.

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RE: How do You make Your sub/slave feel owned? - 7/7/2006 6:40:31 PM

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Hummmmm, by being myself. If she can't tell by that, then we have a problem. Either she isn't paying attention, or I don't own or love her. And for me, the two(own and love) go hand in hand......if I don't love a slave, why would I want to own her? I can hire a maid, a cook, and a hooker and it'd be cheaper, and less work for me.

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and nods .... great answer ...

:: claps ...

ok ... i liked this one ....

but i agree they are 2 questions ..

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RE: How do You make Your sub/slave feel owned? - 7/7/2006 6:47:28 PM

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Now that's Hawt.

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Greetings E/everyone, i have a question for You Dominants, how do you make Yours slave/submissive feel Owned/loved?

Quite honestly, I fuck'm the way I want and then I hold them.

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RE: How do You make Your sub/slave feel owned? - 7/7/2006 6:47:54 PM

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How does she tell she is owned? There are many outward signs (collars, bracelets, etc) but the most telling is mental. When she looks inside and offers herself and knows she is being accepted, then she knows she is owned.

Love... a long long answer.

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RE: How do You make Your sub/slave feel owned? - 7/7/2006 6:49:16 PM

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Thank you....thank you very much.(useing my best Elvis imitation)

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RE: How do You make Your sub/slave feel owned? - 7/7/2006 7:11:37 PM

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Now that's Hawt.

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Greetings E/everyone, i have a question for You Dominants, how do you make Yours slave/submissive feel Owned/loved?

Quite honestly, I fuck'm the way I want and then I hold them.

I must admit, I haven't had any complaints yet. LOL

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RE: How do You make Your sub/slave feel owned? - 7/7/2006 8:39:14 PM

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Can I slap you around and call you martha?

Start slapping me around and you can call me anything you want

Now your just teasing me.

You say that like its a bad thing <grin>

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RE: How do You make Your sub/slave feel owned? - 7/7/2006 8:46:48 PM

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In no particular order...

I once put out a cigarette on her ass.

I gave her a tattoo that says "slave" in Chinese on her back, right over the heart.

I make her refer to herself as "cunt" when she speaks to me.

I tell her to do things like make ball gags and be my right hand when the various betas and gammas get out of hand.

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Greetings E/everyone, i have a question for You Dominants, how do you make Yours slave/submissive feel Owned/loved?

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RE: How do You make Your sub/slave feel owned? - 7/7/2006 10:57:06 PM

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Greetings E/everyone, i have a question for You Dominants, how do you make Yours slave/submissive feel Owned/loved?

Greetings Cristalin,

Simple slap a steel collar around her neck, add a leash and lead her around the room....'

grins and smiles a little and has that little mischevious grins and has the eyebrows going up and down...the really cool way...........then just laughs..

Truthfully, when she moves in with me, knowing that it is a major step in anyone's life. All her luggage, all her processions, all her mental spirit. When do I know this would happen, simple, when I would enter the home..before we move in together..and she just undresses, gets on the floor and crawls over to me, and then just kisses my shoe and says....thank you...then I would know it is then time to move in.

It does go both ways....you just have to be human, because then you become a better Master and trainer.

Be well and take care.

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RE: How do You make Your sub/slave feel owned? - 7/8/2006 6:44:46 AM

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You say that like its a bad thing <grin>

Oh no, my dear. Not a bad thing. You just have to be prepared for the consequences for doing such. A man can be teased for only so long until he finally just takes what he wants.

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RE: How do You make Your sub/slave feel owned? - 7/8/2006 9:39:28 PM

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You say that like its a bad thing <grin>

Oh no, my dear. Not a bad thing. You just have to be prepared for the consequences for doing such. A man can be teased for only so long until he finally just takes what he wants.

Oh SURE>> now who's teasing who???

<muttering about doms and their caveman tactics.. or lack thereof <wink>>

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RE: How do You make Your sub/slave feel owned? - 7/9/2006 8:59:33 PM

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To the OP:

I don't make my girls do anything. They willingly submit to my ownership of them.
As for the love part; I don't love them. However, I do appreciate them every single day, and their service to me.

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RE: How do You make Your sub/slave feel owned? - 7/10/2006 8:45:30 AM

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Feeling loved and feeling owned, to Doms yes they can be one in the same, but for a slave we have a tendency to separate the 2. For feeling owned, my Master puts a leash on me at night before He goes to bed. i can be in bed asleep, and when he comes to bed, he will lift up my hair and click the clasp to my collar ( i have a padlock chained collar), then he wrap his body around me, almost like he is using his body for holding mine down. Master and i also love breath play, he will put his arm or hand around my neck, which is instant sub-space/being owned feeling..

For love, my Master and i are very touchy feely people we will pet/love on each other daily. Also i think we kiss each other at least 15 times a day on average. i am lucky i can playful with my Master, when he passes me i can pat his ass, or kiss him or whatever...and he does the same with me. i don't have a hands off rule with my Master like others do.

But this is U/us, Master one time told me that "i love you" are just words, that we should show each other how much W/we mean to each other, and every day that is what W/we set out to do..to show how W/we feel.

ladyofhemanor/slavelilly (to my friends)

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RE: How do You make Your sub/slave feel owned? - 7/10/2006 10:53:12 AM

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When a Master exerts power upon the slave (this can happen by various means i.e. voice, words, glance, mentally, physically, etc. with respect to the type of slave, as everybody is individual it would also be something very individual which would "work" on this slave) and by the skill of the Master to create a permanent bond with the slave making him/her trust and feel Her/His influence via this bond on a long term or lifetime basis would be owning.

In which way the Master exerts this power upon the slave can have so many different motives, it might happen in love, then it would be loving the slave.

Found this poem somewhere once upon the time:

Ties That Bind

The ties that bind are not of steel,
Links of chain so cold to feel.
They are not made of leather bands,
Or silken ropes-binding hands.
They are not cuffs that click in place,
Of satin threads there's not a trace.
Not spreader bars, or restraints bought,
No man-made thing against which is fought.
Instead they come from in the heart,
Binding one right from the start.
Chains of loyalty true and strong,
Keeping one where they belong.
Ropes of truth, and threads of trust,
All these things, they are a must.
Cry to the angels up above,
Bound by honor-Bound by love.

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RE: How do You make Your sub/slave feel owned? - 7/11/2006 7:07:11 PM

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mannnnnnnn .. I gotta love em too . I thought we just slapped around a bit then fucked em hard and walked out saying I respect you .. hmmm

seriously tho feeling owned is something the slave or sub feels thru the actions I show with her . how do I do that . good question . I never internalized it .... I am simply me I let her know in no uncertain terms I am the one she chose to own her I mix the Daddy Dom in with being a Master so there is more touchy feely and hugs abounding when I am with her. How do i show her she is loved . thats the question many of slaves have often wondered about me ... since I am not one of those guys who freely says I love you . or gets a romantic bone in his body .... I do subtle things .. it could be going some place she really wanted to go ... it could be a night of cuddlin .. it could be a night of her favorite play time session .... I am the silent I love you guy I guess .... I don't say it I do small hidden things that say it

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RE: How do You make Your sub/slave feel owned? - 7/14/2006 12:13:52 AM

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Of course a Collar then a contract signed by both parties is good for me.
Also I'd want a gold ring in her pussy.
You show love by your actions.

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RE: How do You make Your sub/slave feel owned? - 7/14/2006 5:49:58 AM

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ORIGINAL: MrDiscipline44

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Greetings E/everyone, i have a question for You Dominants, how do you make Yours slave/submissive feel Owned/loved?

Quite honestly, I fuck'm the way I want and then I hold them.

Awwwwwwwwwww....:)

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