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pahunkboy -> on naked pics- my rant (7/7/2006 8:16:34 AM)

ok- i been talking to a guy on messnger. I dont care for the onesidedness of the converstion. then he offers to trade x pics. i declined and said i did not do this.

this after he did not recip any of the other pics i sent.

he had the ordacity to ask- "do you mind if i ask why"

my reply=-  i have more class then that.

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pahunkboy -> RE: on naked pics- my rant (7/7/2006 9:31:24 AM)

i dont know how a naked pic is relevent to a possible date.  especially when this is local. i guess i am also abit surprised that a naked pic is necessary.  argh!



Emperor1956 -> RE: on naked pics- my rant (7/7/2006 9:51:08 AM)

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i dont know how a naked pic is relevent to a possible date. 


Only if you want to send him one and say "Ha, ha...look what you ain't gettin'."

Sorry pahunk, but you've learned that asshats come in all sizes, shapes and genders.  I hope future contacts are more productive.

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pahunkboy -> RE: on naked pics- my rant (7/7/2006 10:09:18 AM)

Emperor1956 thank you.

i dont mind looking at x pics. but i really dont want mine all over the net/globe. not that i am any better then the next guy. i dont think it is necessary.
if someone chooses to send such- fine. im ok with that. it just isnt anything i choose to do.
thanks for your reply.

-regards





missturbation -> RE: on naked pics- my rant (7/7/2006 3:30:28 PM)

So someone asked you for naked pics?
You said no.
I don't see the problem!!
I'm a little amazed that in this day and age anyone would be shocked or offended by a request like this. I get asked for them daily and i just say no.



pahunkboy -> RE: on naked pics- my rant (7/7/2006 3:38:03 PM)

after the "no"... his reply---

"do you mind if i ask why"



juliaoceania -> RE: on naked pics- my rant (7/7/2006 3:40:41 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: pahunkboy

after the "no"... his reply---

"do you mind if i ask why"


The next reply: "Because I don't wanna"



missturbation -> RE: on naked pics- my rant (7/7/2006 3:41:13 PM)

lol you were more offended by this than the actual request?
He asked you a question which you had no obligation to answer.
Problem?



pahunkboy -> RE: on naked pics- my rant (7/8/2006 5:36:57 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

quote:

ORIGINAL: pahunkboy

after the "no"... his reply---

"do you mind if i ask why"


The next reply: "Because I don't wanna"


Thank you Julia!

I feel there is plenty of smut on the web. I wont reduce myself to a wanking session. If I dont respect me, who else will ?  This guy was supposed to be a date- not a fcck. But even still- it is my body- and I so choose to not have any naked pics of me anywhere. I have that right. The guy- well- I put my setting on invisable. He is out of the ballgame. This tells me-he has not sowed his wild oats. That he is not capable of a 1 on 1 relationship. I dislike when I am asked for info, and no info is recipracated.  My profile on that site where I met him was not slutty at all. So this is where I was taken aback.

I am not ashamed of my endowment. I carry my weight. At the same time- I dont "owe" a wanker pics of it..... ever.

Dats my story, and im sticking to it.

Thanks julia- I appreciate your kind post.  :-D

-regards



pahunkboy -> RE: on naked pics- my rant (7/8/2006 5:46:02 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: missturbation

lol you were more offended by this than the actual request?
He asked you a question which you had no obligation to answer.
Problem?


Yes- there IS a problem. healthy communication goes both ways. 

Solution- placed him on invisable. 

I feel what I feel, I will get over it.,

I owe no one really much of anything.  Civility- ok- thats all I can think of. I pay my bills. I answer to the guy that signs my check.

If the dude wants smut- it abounds online.

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/men101    <-- xxx male, male on male
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/getbj  <-- arrange bj- a mixed crowd- gay/bi/straight.  ladies are welcome.

we send out 1000s of male pics in 2 of my groups.

A quickie is easy to get. A fling/date/relationship- is harder.

long story short- miss, I owe nobody.

be good-



cuddleheart50 -> RE: on naked pics- my rant (7/8/2006 5:53:55 AM)

I always get asked for nude pic and when I say no, they always ask why too....I  guess I'm just used to it, and it doesnt bother me that much anymore...It did at first, but I guess the shock has worn off...lol....



pahunkboy -> RE: on naked pics- my rant (7/8/2006 6:12:43 AM)

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ORIGINAL: cuddleheart50

I always get asked for nude pic and when I say no, they always ask why too....I  guess I'm just used to it, and it doesnt bother me that much anymore...It did at first, but I guess the shock has worn off...lol....


It does make me wonder how many actually send naked pics out of themself.

:-)

During this exchange- he sent no pics of him at all. Not that- it would have changed my mind.



meatcleaver -> RE: on naked pics- my rant (7/8/2006 6:32:44 AM)

'Naked photo' is the give away to his motives. I can understand someone wanting a mug shot. No one wants to be surprised by being confronted with Elephantman or his female counterpart.

I know women complain of cock shots but I did once get a message out of the blue asking for one, though I guess it could just as easily been a fellow. I wrote back and said I only display it in person and heard nothing else.

It seems strange to me why people bother when there are so many naked pics on the internet, I can't see the point of one more naked pic from someone you don't know.



pahunkboy -> RE: on naked pics- my rant (7/8/2006 7:26:36 AM)

this is my profile on the other site. 
as you say- there is plenty of porn on the net.
im going to think on it a few days... maybe send him an email- i can see his workplace out my window. literally.

thanks meatcleaver! :-)
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http://www.savetheinternet.com/


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missturbation -> RE: on naked pics- my rant (7/8/2006 9:40:43 AM)

As is quite typical of this site at times i find a lot of judgement and stereotyping here. The guy asked for a naked pic he must be going to wank over it! Just as we ask for a pic of someones face to see if we find them attractive maybe someone would just want to see if they find your body attractive. There is nothing dirty or rude about a naked pic - its just your body and i cannot see the problem with someone asking for such a pic. I personally do not send naked pics out of me to all and sundry but i do have them and do choose to share them with people from time to time.
To say this is collar me i am surprised to find so many people shocked or aggrieved at a naked pic request when they would readily accept the request of scat, water sports, whipping, etc etc etc.



juliaoceania -> RE: on naked pics- my rant (7/8/2006 9:48:30 AM)

I come from the school people can ask me anything, but they had better respect my answer when it is given. I can understand your feelings and you are right, no one will respect you unless you respect yourself.

The above is why I do not do anything unless I want to, then I only have myself to blame if it doesn't work out... at least until I submit my power to someone. If I give out sex, naked pics of myself it is because I wanted to and got something out of it in the past (Im an unabashed exhibitionist as long as I am not subjecting people nonconsensually to my kink). I still respect myself for being who I am, but if I didn't get off on it and I was sending naked pics to someone that I did not really feel good about, I wouldnt respect myself either.

Do what feels right to you is what I am trying to say



missgiveNTake -> RE: on naked pics- my rant (7/8/2006 11:01:32 AM)

I tell people I don't want to see it if I can't touch it, so don't send me X pics.

I also say, why should I show it if your not going to touch it. I have no X pics.



juliaoceania -> RE: on naked pics- my rant (7/8/2006 1:31:35 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: missgiveNTake

I tell people I don't want to see it if I can't touch it, so don't send me X pics.

I also say, why should I show it if your not going to touch it. I have no X pics.


My kink is not your kink but your kink is ok... smiles

I do not randomly hand out naked pics of myself to nonconsenting peeps.

But then again I guess I might post something very showy on profile if I was told to..Ha Ha



zumala -> RE: on naked pics- my rant (7/8/2006 1:43:43 PM)

I suppose it's all subjective.  I personally was raised in a Christian household.  To my way of thinking, 'private parts' are called private for a reason.  I suppose I figured that if someone was seeing mine, there would be sex involved.  Either that or they happen to be my doctor.  LOL.
 
I don't know that I'm much to look at, but what I have is mine.  If someone else is seeing something classified as 'private', they can count themselves as being very special.  At least as far as I'm concerned.  I probably do have an exhibitionist streak buried somewhere to be honest, but my way is generally to be selective.  To ASK me to see a naked picture is insulting.  If I wanted you to see me naked, I'd OFFER.  [;)]
 
Just my 2 cents.  I know thoughts and opinions will vary widely on this topic.  My thoughts are purely my own with regard to my body.
 
zuma



juliaoceania -> RE: on naked pics- my rant (7/8/2006 1:56:51 PM)

I have never given out a "pussy shot" and no one but those I have had sex with have seen one. I have had pics taken of me in my bra and panties, or with my nipples visible, but hardly anything pornographic.... yet.... although my Daddy wants to take me to the Lair in nothing but my thong, tie me to a Saint Andrew's cross while he beats me silly... Damn I am an exhibitionist.

BTW, I was raised in a Christian home too, not all Christian homes are repressed ones... No one thought anything of me running around naked all the time, and I grew modesty all on my own. Nakedness does not equate sex for me.



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