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bashfulgirl -> feminizing females (7/7/2006 9:30:51 AM)

hello Maam and Mistresses,im a ny subbie whose Mistress wants her to look like a lady, but am not comfortable in womens clothes i prefer mens clothing because im a bbw any suggestions



MasterFireMaam -> RE: feminizing females (7/7/2006 9:49:05 AM)

This first thing to do is to ask your Mistress what kind of clothing she'd prefer. Then, ask around for places to shop for BBW clothing in those styles. It's kinda hard to answer a vague question, even a well-meaning and sincere one.

Master Fire




thegunslinger -> RE: feminizing females (7/8/2006 8:42:12 AM)

I agree, the best way of finding out what your Mistress wants, is asking her. She probably knows, and if she doesn't know exactly, sounds like a shopping trip either online or in RL.



BlkTallFullfig -> RE: feminizing females (7/8/2006 12:53:02 PM)

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ORIGINAL: bashfulgirl
hello Maam and Mistresses,im a ny subbie whose Mistress wants her to look like a lady, but am not comfortable in womens clothes i prefer mens clothing because im a bbw any suggestions
There is no reason you cannot be beautifully clothed/feminine as a BBW believe me.
If your mistress wants to make you more feminine appearing and you wish to submit to her, have fun and follow her lead.    M



Vendaval -> RE: feminizing females (7/9/2006 12:16:20 AM)

Hello bashfulgirl and welcome to the boards.  I have some Web-sites
to suggest for you; www.roamans.com, www.lanebryant.com. and
www.justmysize.com.
 
Sometimes it is less inhibiting to shop from your own home by
way of the Net.  Try a few news things and find out what works for you
and what your Mistress likes you to wear.
 
Be well,
 
Vendaval



Willowmourne -> RE: feminizing females (7/9/2006 12:40:56 PM)



I politely beg to differ on the idea that a slave should always ask Mistres what she wants her to wear.

Now, I am a loving Domme, and I'm fairly easy to serve. I expect My pets to either:

Show how they are intune with their Mistresses likes and dislikes.

And I'm a Mistres who can be decisive, which is an oft-needed quality. I'f I *know* I want My sweet confection wearing a favorite gown of Mine.

"Dearest pet, go change into the chanel"

someties questions are a sub's way of saying "may I have more guidance please?"


these are just my exprience, diffrence is the spice of life

-Willowmourne



janiceleeinsc -> RE: feminizing females (7/10/2006 3:16:54 PM)

Hello there.

Welcome to the group.  This is an interesting question finally.   I am a mature BBW, and I trained in a Dungeon setting with s hot 28 year old femalr pro-domme.  The first time I saw her, she came out in a spandex dress with no bra.  All we could do was stare at her.   She wanted me to dress as she did.  That meant in spandex etc. 
At first I was horrified, but the more I worked with her, the more comfortable I became.  I even bought a braless teddy and everyone at the Dungeon said it was hot.  My slave just stared at it.
She also had me working on my hair and make up.   I am at the age where I have terrible hot flashes.  I hate to wear any make up.
She made me practice putting make up on about 30 minutes each day.  I am not training with her now, but I would not think twice about wearing fetish clothing because I am a BBW, and remember that stands for big, BEAUTIFUL, woman.  She taught me how to be a Domme. 
She will show you what she wants.   Enjoy it.    I loved what she did.  She changed my hair too.

Respectfully,

Mistress_Jan



ladylexington -> RE: feminizing females (7/10/2006 7:42:50 PM)

Check out Torrid: http://www.torrid.com/. They have hot, hot outfits that fit plus-size women very well. My favorite brand there is Tripp, which has a line of comfortable corsets.



yumyi -> RE: feminizing females (7/11/2006 6:05:23 PM)

Being plus-sized does not mean not being feminine.  I'm large, and extremely feminine  - even when I dont paint my nails, wear make up, etc..

If it's a physical comfort factor (pants being more comfortable than a skirt) vs. an emotional comfort factor - what about a beautifully tailored pant suit?  Ever seen Marlena Ditrich (German film star) in a tux?  There was no mistaking her femininity... even in one of the most "masculine" of garments. 

Likewise try doing it gradually.  Pair your favorite blue-jeans with a nice blouse or tank top with a bit of sparkle - vs. a plain t-shirt.   Wear your favorite baggy sweater with a short skirt and a tall pair of boots.  Wear comfortable shorts with a pair of high heeled sandles...

Being lady-like is not just about what you wear, but about how you speak, how you stand, what you say, how you move.....  not just if you're wearing pink.  A Lady has good manners, she doesn't chew her nails, she doesn't swear, she knows when a "knowing smile" says a million more things than telling the whole story.  Perhaps your Mistress wants to refine your inner lady, and not just her wardrobe?



MisPandora -> RE: feminizing females (7/11/2006 6:56:06 PM)

My slaves are managed how they identify.  If they are genetic female and identify as a girl, they are coached into dressing as a proper female in a style that I enjoy.  If they are genetic female and identify with the masculine, they will be coached into looking the butch boi that I enjoy.  I will not cross gender lines if the slave is not amenable to it, as that is an abuse of identity that many work years on personally to find for themselves.



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