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I am a findom! - 3/5/2014 8:17:53 AM

QueenHazel

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I am a findom; some of you ask questions about why we do this. Well it is a fetish just like any other. Even though you may not care for it does not mean others do not. If you do not like it you do not have to, but do not say it is not a real fetish because it is just as real as chastity and any other. I am here from Fimdom.com just checking out what is here and so far I have only found time wasters and Scam Subs. Even though I love findom it does not mean that I do not love other fetishes such as chastity, tease and denial, cum control, teamviewer, humiliation, and others. My limits are anything to do with toilet training or vomit. I am in search of great subs,paypigs,and cucks. I do not care if what I do disgusts any other non findom domms. So please keep to yourself I could care less your opinion on things if your just going to knock what I do. Thank you

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RE: I am a findom! - 3/5/2014 8:58:43 AM

AthenaSurrenders

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Hi Hazel, nice to have you on board.

You seem a bit defensive for your first post. If you've been getting abusive messages on the profile side, rest assured that it's not really the same crowd over here, and while findomme can be controversial, you're not likely to have people challenging you out of the blue about whether it's a legit kink. As for the profile side, you're just going to have to grow a thick skin and use the block button. Criticism is an occupational hazard for findommes.

Come and join in with some threads and conversations so we can get to know you.

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RE: I am a findom! - 3/5/2014 11:11:54 AM

SylvereApLeanan

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Hi, Hazel. Welcome to the discussion forums.

Athena's right; you're always going to get trolls on the profile side who send you nastygrams. The Block and Mark As Spam and Delete buttons will be your best friends, so use them. Most people on the forum side recognize financial domination as a legit kink and don't care what two consenting adults do together. There are exceptions, of course, but most people have a "live and let live" attitude. We've had some epic threads on the fetish and some of the findommes who have posted about it are regular and respected contributors to the boards. Stick around, hang with us, and you might even make some friends.

Here are a couple of links to get you started:

Is financial domination a legitimate form of D/s? (Fair warning - this one is 90+ pages)

Financial Dominantion / What are your thoughts & Why?

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RE: I am a findom! - 3/5/2014 11:13:08 PM

TieMeInKnottss

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Welcome. We actually have several regulars on this side that are Fin Dommes and very well liked and respected. I would name names...but that might sound like I am biased!!

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RE: I am a findom! - 3/6/2014 3:14:45 PM

Rasciallymisty

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Hello Hazel and welcome its nice to have you here with me.

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RE: I am a findom! - 3/6/2014 7:43:23 PM

QueenHazel

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Thank yall very much for being respectful and I am glad to be here

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RE: I am a findom! - 3/7/2014 5:04:44 AM

ChatteParfaitt

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Welcome to the discussion side Hazel.

Unfortunately, being a gorgeous young findom means the wankers come out in droves. You'll learn quickly enough how to weed them out.

Feel free to join in our discussions and games on THIS side, and BTW you have to check out the TRAINWRECK thread. It will give you the best idea of who we are here.

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RE: I am a findom! - 3/7/2014 5:13:11 AM

Toysinbabeland

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Welcome hazel.
As a findomme, you'll have no problem hitting that block button with your cute little stiletto.
We like people here for being themselves, so welcome.
~ toys

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RE: I am a findom! - 3/7/2014 5:59:01 AM

Rasciallymisty

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Once again Opt is nice to have you here and hopefully you will find us a fun bunch and stick around.

< Message edited by Rasciallymisty -- 3/7/2014 6:40:50 AM >

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RE: I am a findom! - 3/7/2014 6:26:03 AM

CandiDanielz

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:D I love these threads
Welcome hazel, stick at it, there are plenty of timewasters, but there are the odd guys who are legit.

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RE: I am a findom! - 3/7/2014 6:41:38 AM

VideoAdminGamma

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Fast reply

This is the Introduction section where all posts should be welcoming. If another member attacks someone, please report them and do not reply. Replying to the attack just makes more work for the staff and causes this to look like it is the forum etiquette, when in fact it is not. This is usually one of the first area new members post in, and this should be where we can lead through example for how our forum culture is.

Please return to welcoming the OP and please report any posts that do not meet the section and community guidelines.

Thanks for being a part of CollarMe,
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RE: I am a findom! - 3/7/2014 6:57:09 AM

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Well, since my previous welcome got scrubbed because it included some against-the-guidelines nastiness...

Welcome to the forums, Hazel!

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RE: I am a findom! - 3/11/2014 4:39:15 PM

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Welcome QueenHazel! I have to admit, when I saw your username I did a double take. lol Hazel is my first name & I hardly ever see anyone else by that name.

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RE: I am a findom! - 3/11/2014 6:23:52 PM

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Welcome to the forum.

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