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brentsslave -> new to the site and looking (3/8/2014 10:52:32 AM)
I am new to this site and way of life but am very interested and looking. I am the submissive of a relationship and my Master has tasked me with finding a female to add to our relationship. While I have never been with a female before I am interested and excited to see what comes in the future.

AthenaSurrenders -> RE: new to the site and looking (3/8/2014 10:55:15 AM)
Hello and welcome to the site! I'm afraid you've got some pretty stiff competition, since there are lots of couples looking to add another female, and very few women that want to be added. It's your choice of course, but I've heard many women say they are put off when the dom sends the sub out to find another woman - your chances might be better if you work together as a couple. Definitely worth going down to the poly forum and reading some of their very informative threads.

brentsslave -> RE: new to the site and looking (3/8/2014 10:57:51 AM)
Thanks for the advice. While I am to look for the additional female, he will have the final say. I will check into what you suggested.

DarkSteven -> RE: new to the site and looking (3/8/2014 1:16:47 PM)
You want to try it our way? Tasha and I attend events. Both of us. Everyone, including prospective thirds, get to see us and how we interact. If there's mutual interest, we invite her over. I don't see how you, being only 1/2 of the couple, could attract people who will have to serve the entire couple.

TieMeInKnottss -> RE: new to the site and looking (3/8/2014 1:17:45 PM)
Ohhhh...many others will give the "unicorn" search speech so I will restrain myself... I WILL say this, from a female sub who is seeking (male Dom not a couple) that the photo of a breast might not be the most appropriate...I am not bi so maybe that is why it is a turn off to me..but I do think most women who are looking prefer pics (even without a face) of a person doing something, posing in front of a tourist attraction. Since you all are a couple and he is the dominant...most are going to want to see both of you and know about you both... Just my two cents....

SylvereApLeanan -> RE: new to the site and looking (3/8/2014 5:11:03 PM)
Okay, I'm a little confused. Is the girl for you, for him, or for both of you? Because if she's primarily going to be his companion, let him do his own searching and make sure you negotiate so you have veto power. Otherwise, I strongly recommend you date women on your own before you even think about a threesome, let alone a long-term relationship. Experiment solo and get comfortable being sexually intimate with women before you try to add your male partner to the mix. Very few women want to join a couple and even fewer want to be your guinea pig.

MasterCaneman -> RE: new to the site and looking (3/8/2014 7:09:50 PM)
Hello and welcome. You're gonna have a hard time meeting anyone, seeing as your profile's hidden.

Rasciallymisty -> RE: new to the site and looking (3/9/2014 9:57:32 AM)
Hello and welcome

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