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Craving Submission - 3/9/2014 1:47:28 AM

JupitersJuno

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Hello Everyone!

I'm Juno. I'm new to the site and to the lifestyle, although I've been a fan of the lifestyle for as long as I can remember, just never able to find the right partners, I guess.

I'm a very naturally dominant person, professionally and personally. And I get absolutely turned off by being dominant sexually... so that leaves me in a bit of a bind. I'm opposed to fake, or play only relationships, but I'm not quite sure how to go about finding someone who is strong enough to earn my submission, as I tend to be a bit stubborn and I don't think I will be easily 'broken'.

So I'm not even completely sure what I'm doing here, but I can't seem to let this obsession go. I'm hoping to find people patient enough to talk with me and even play with me, and help me figure this out.

I know what my fantasy is, and I know nothing else turns me on as much as this one thought. So, I suppose I shall be brave and chase it. :)

~Juno

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RE: Craving Submission - 3/9/2014 6:37:09 AM

DarkSteven

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Hi there, Juno!

Nosy question - I'm so used to the Greek mythology names that it's a surprise to read the Roman ones in your name? Why'd you choose to go Roman?

To answer your question with another one - there are two places where you can submit - in the bedroom and out of it. You're stating very clearly that you want to be Dominated in the bedroom. Do you want to be submissive outside of it, or have an equal relationship there? Neither answer is "bad", but they are two different things. One is a classic submissive, and the other is a bedroom submissive, or "bottom".

Welcome to the site.

Edited to add: I dug up some groups in Charleston.

https://fetlife.com/groups/32795

https://fetlife.com/groups/78807

< Message edited by DarkSteven -- 3/9/2014 6:46:39 AM >

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RE: Craving Submission - 3/9/2014 10:15:54 AM

Rasciallymisty

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Hello and welcome and I think DarkSteven as covered all that I would say other than.....Its nice to have you here among us and that I hope you will take a look around and see all that others have to offer here.

Best of luck in journey.

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RE: Craving Submission - 3/9/2014 10:27:58 AM

ChatteParfaitt

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Hiyas Juno.

I agree that finding the right partner is key. That will most likely happen on the profile side. Here you can learn an awful lot, which will help you make good relationship decisions.

So feel free to jump into our discussions. We don't bite (much).

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