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Question for the subs – What it is that makes you enj... - 3/11/2014 4:11:41 AM   
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I just remembered a talk I had with a women I used to play a lot with years aback. From a very young age she had a hard time to cum. Having a cock in her did very little to her, but being licked fingered or stimulated in other ways would get make her cum. However that cum wasn’t very powerful mostly like a pleasant tingle in her body which would make her whimper a little. When that happened she felt an overwhelming urge to pee and she be very embarrassed if that should happen, so she would pull her partner on top of her so he could enter her and get his satisfaction. That pretty much was her sexlife in her twenties and her marriage where she got divorced in her late twenties.
After her divorce she had a few lovers and one of them loved massaging her long and slow which she never tried before, but the end was as described above.
One day he did a particularly long session and she was floating away on “Cloud Nine” when suddenly she felt a pair of handcuffs shut on her wrists. She woke up very quickly and felt somewhat scared about what he was going to do and she begged him to release her. He just looked at her and said “Now it is finished with you controlling anything. I want to see how far I can take you”. After this he tied her legs spread eagled and just sat looking at her. She told me she had never felt so embarrassed in her life laying there naked with her pussy exposed and feeling totally helpless, but at the same time she felt like a warm feeling in her body coming.
After a while he started the massage up again until she felt she was about to come which did happen and she begged him to stop and among other things told him she was about to pee all over, “who cares” was the answer, whereupon he stuck two fingers up in her and touched something she didn’t know she had. Her body shot in the air whereupon he withdrew and she felt down again gasping for breath. He sat looking at her smiling whereupon he said “So you are a little orgasm slut after all”. At this stage she could hard speak, just made some noise, where he stuck his fingers in her mouth and told her lick them which she did. He then took the out and traced them slowly down her body telling her that he was going to finger fuck her again, so he could hear her scream. She felt like hypnotized by those fingers until they slid inside her, and this time he didn’t just touch that spot but massaged it and in no time she was having the most mind blowing orgasm she ever felt. After it was over she felt totally drained. But when she looked he was sitting on his knees between her legs with his cock in his hand and a dirty smile on his face. He said to her “so, your little hussy, now I am going to fuck you to pieces”. She was beyond caring now and just letting it happen, but to her absolute surprise she started getting turned on again and had her first vaginal orgasm ever.
Five years after this took place I meet her and the funny thing was that embarrassment was still in her when I tied her up. Funny woman actually. Very prim and proper in her daily life, but behind closed doors, tied up and just about to cum, she changed to a filthy mouthed animal with absolute no inhibitions at all. I must say I truly enjoyed my sessions with her.
So my question to the subs is what turns you on and what is feelings about it, like what do you think when it happens? As we all should know, we are all different!
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RE: Question for the subs – What it is that makes you... - 3/11/2014 5:00:13 AM   
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Just because a woman doesn't orgasm doesn't mean she isn't enjoying herself.

Your poorly written porn doesn't go over well with strangers, BTW.

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RE: Question for the subs – What it is that makes you... - 3/11/2014 5:44:52 AM   
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It always amuses me when al knowing American grammar Nazis comes with this kind of response.
I could of course have posted in my native language (Danish) as English is only my second out the number of languages I am conversant in. How many languages are you conversant in? I do find Americans rather poor when it comes to that!
Regarding the story, as you, as the absolute expert on everything chooses to dismiss as poorly written fiction, I can only say it was told to me over 15 years by the woman in question. Whether true or not I can’t guarantee, but her responses with me, in the time we spend together, I would call it highly likely.
By the way, how is your skills as an electrical engineer (my education)? I do guess below mine in writing as I never claimed to have any training in journalism. It doesn’t make me untrustworthy!!!

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RE: Question for the subs – What it is that makes you... - 3/11/2014 6:08:11 AM   
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I didn't think she was criticizing your grammar so much as the incredibly graphic and slightly cliche nature of the story. Could be wrong though. Perhaps she was in fact implying that she could out perform you as an electrical engineer.

True or not, it will probably put people off giving you the answers you seek. It does read like erotic fiction and some people will not answer because they will assume you are looking for similar stories as masturbation fodder.

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RE: Question for the subs – What it is that makes you... - 3/11/2014 6:11:13 AM   
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I agree with Athena. I read your post an hour ago, and did not reply for exactly that reason.
Let me put it this way. It was as if you walked up to us at a bar, and started to tell a story that was highly inappropriate, and left us all looking around awkwardly.

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RE: Question for the subs – What it is that makes you... - 3/11/2014 6:16:34 AM   
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FR:

I couldn't make it through the wall of text. It looks like one of those stories doms have on their profile to let the subs know what a great online diminant er dominant he is.

Hoooooooooo hum.

I think the OP's story belongs in creative writing. There is no discussion I can see except, is it a good story?



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RE: Question for the subs – What it is that makes you... - 3/11/2014 6:26:50 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders

I didn't think she was criticizing your grammar so much as the incredibly graphic and slightly cliche nature of the story.




Exactly. Regardless of whether it is a "true story" or not, the graphic detail was unnecessary when dealing with strangers. Why would any of us CARE in the slightest about the escapades of the "woman" in question?


I used to be rather fluent in Spanish, but since I haven't used it in many years have lost my fluency. This being said, how many languages a person speaks isn't usually impressive to me. Their character and manners are far more impressive. When someone tries to brag about stuff like that, it makes me think they may be trying to overcompensate for something.

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RE: Question for the subs – What it is that makes you... - 3/11/2014 7:21:39 AM   
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ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders

I didn't think she was criticizing your grammar so much as the incredibly graphic and slightly cliche nature of the story.



And I thought it was the fact that I'm not a native speaker, oh and the TMI content, I was ready to pay a comment for one handed typing though ;)

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RE: Question for the subs – What it is that makes you... - 3/11/2014 7:31:14 AM   
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OP,

You should have simply asked a question for discussion at the beginning, instead of burying it at the end of a clichéd porn vignette. Oh, and when you say "her first vaginal orgasm", that is annoying. Great orgasms are great orgasms.

As others have said, never assume strangers are interested in your gory details of real or imagined experiences.

Discussions are welcomed here, not TMI.

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RE: Question for the subs – What it is that makes you... - 3/11/2014 7:32:37 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: rockspider

How many languages are you conversant in?



4-6 depending on how you count. And you know what, a run-on sentence is a run-on sentence is a run-on sentence in all those languages. I sincerely doubt Danish is an exception, which leads to the conclusion that a whole bunch of your poor writing skills carried over.


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ORIGINAL: rockspider

Regarding the story, as you, as the absolute expert on everything chooses to dismiss as poorly written fiction



She said porn dude, not fiction.

And not only is it extremely poorly written, there is no point to it. It doesn't tie into your question well. It's not a helpful anecdote. It serves no purpose.

Your post comes across as a thinly veiled attempt to get people to read your porn and personal brag story, with a random question tagged at the end just to make it seem like you're trying to discuss something.



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RE: Question for the subs – What it is that makes you... - 3/11/2014 8:15:57 AM   
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Pretty much everyone beat me to it. I didn't make it past the first paragraph.

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RE: Question for the subs – What it is that makes you... - 3/11/2014 9:20:09 AM   
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The graphic content clouded your question.

Your question was: "What it is that makes you enjoy it?"
That might have led to an interesting discussion.

But what you wrote sets forth the agenda that you expect something sexually explicit in return, and most of us save those revealings for our intimate partners.




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RE: Question for the subs – What it is that makes you... - 3/11/2014 10:49:35 AM   
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~FRing it~

Meh, pretty much what everyone else said. This looks like it belonged over in the creative writing section. Had it just been a question without the wall o' porn, it might have been received better. All this looks like is yet another feat in one-handed typing.

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RE: Question for the subs – What it is that makes you... - 3/11/2014 11:12:55 AM   
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You might post this on your profile in your journal. You'll find if you pay attention at all to these forum discussions that people here aren't interested in reading wank fodder.

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RE: Question for the subs – What it is that makes you... - 3/11/2014 12:16:40 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: SeekingTrinity

~FRing it~

Meh, pretty much what everyone else said. This looks like it belonged over in the creative writing section. Had it just been a question without the wall o' porn, it might have been received better. All this looks like is yet another feat in one-handed typing.


Don't be mean, one handed typing is an art form and I guess some people make up memories as they get on a bit ;)

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RE: Question for the subs – What it is that makes you... - 3/11/2014 4:56:37 PM   
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quote:

So my question to the submissives (a sub in my language is a sandwich) is what turns you on and what is feelings about it, like what do you think when it happens?
What turns me on...my Partner....sorry but no one doing anything to me would turn me on more than he does when he is doing absolutely nothing. What is (are) my feelings about it? I think how does he do it....just laying there on the bed giving me ridiculous responses to Jeopardy answers and feigning anger when I laugh at him---and looking hot and sexy as hell. What do I think about it when it happen? How freaking lucky I am that he can play along with Jeopardy and get me hotter than wank fodder would.

@ChattePafaitt----
quote:

There is no discussion I can see except, is it a good story?
Umm nope....


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RE: Question for the subs – What it is that makes you... - 3/11/2014 5:01:53 PM   
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Reading the OP's profile, I'm curious as to why everything he is a beginner of has to do with WIITWD and everything he is expert at has nothing to do with WIITWD? Didn't he mention that he heard this story 15 years ago? I could be mistaken but I don't think so. What does it tell you?

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RE: Question for the subs – What it is that makes you... - 3/11/2014 7:10:56 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze


quote:

ORIGINAL: SeekingTrinity

~FRing it~

Meh, pretty much what everyone else said. This looks like it belonged over in the creative writing section. Had it just been a question without the wall o' porn, it might have been received better. All this looks like is yet another feat in one-handed typing.


Don't be mean, one handed typing is an art form and I guess some people make up memories as they get on a bit ;)


It may be an art form, but it creates a biohazard situation for the poor tech guys called in to fix computers.

When the computer said to input data, that's not the input it had in mind

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RE: Question for the subs – What it is that makes you... - 3/11/2014 7:55:02 PM   
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Couldn't be bothered to read the porn.

As for why I orgasm? Because I can. What makes me orgasm? Him. How does it feel? Good.



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RE: Question for the subs – What it is that makes you... - 3/11/2014 8:05:37 PM   
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ORIGINAL: rockspider


I could of course have posted in my native language (Danish) as English is only my second out the number of languages I am conversant in. How many languages are you conversant in? I do find Americans rather poor when it comes to that!



I live in America.
I'm fluent in three languages,
Conversant in five.
My children are fluent in three languages.

I know of many Americans who are educated beyond your discrimination.



I TAKE OFFENSE TO YOUR COMMENT.

YOU DON'T KNOW AMERICANS AS WELL AS YOU THINK.

PERHAPS THE DANISH HAVE A POOR REPRESENTATION OF WHAT AN AMERICAN IS.

THANK GOODNESS THIS ISN'T YOUR FIRST POST.

I'M NOT FOND OF PREJUDICE.

Oh, and by the way,
I'm not fond of sweeping generalizations.

Now to Answer your question:

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