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BecomingV -> RE: Male Submissive Lies About Being Single (3/12/2014 2:45:08 PM)
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ORIGINAL: MasterRobert007
Why are you so mean and cruel? What did I ever do to you for you to make fun of me? How would you like it if I said mean things to you?
What's useful to know are these things:
Rapists are not popular. I know that I treat them differently than other human beings.
People who ask others to injure pregnant women... yeah, they get treated differently, too.
Even in the jailhouse, raping partners who blame one another when they colluded against a victim, they get very different and special treatment.
Specifically, the sub who lied about being single..., I look down my nose at the deceit and reject the notion that the title, "sub" would fit such a person. Doms, subs, masters, slaves... these are titles that fit honest, trustworthy and respectful relationships. So, yeah, if someone lies about their status, I reject them in every way. (It doesn't have to be me, the lie is directed to.)
Having said that, a lie about marriage is manageable. I take time to get to know people well before I up the ante with activities that involve trust. Through mutual friends or family, I learn about the person's life... not just from what I'm told by them directly. Sometimes, people are great liars and they do fool people. All of us have been successfully lied to at one time or another, about something. So, no perfection, right? But, there is a lot to be said for taking time, doing research and waiting for the picture to expand. It is possible, when dating, vanilla or BDSM, to be fooled. It hurts.
Compare that with:
Refusal to accept the responsibilities of a master, while boasting the title. Re: the baby would be the Master's responsibility because his sub/slave became pregnant while agreeing to be his sub. Pregnancy can happen despite all precautions and if Masters have female subs who are capable of reproduction, then activities that may result in pregnancy need to be chosen accordingly.
Raping a submissive through collusion and direction to specifically violate the boundary set by the submissive. No man, of any title, was granted permission, by the submissive, to expose her to unprotected sex. This need not be a pregnancy issue. It could be safety against STDs, or it may be psychological... some subs only bareback with their one and only Dom/Master.
Responding to the crisis with a cover your ass action plan. Abandon her. Attempt to have a pregnant woman violently attacked. Blame the submissives. (That, is really the ultimate in NOT being dominant in any way.) Come here and seek sympathy for what - cause and effect consequences?
Refusing to see that while there may not be a civil ($) legal case, there is most definitely a criminal, legal case here.
It's despicable for people to lie about marital status. It's even illegal to lie about it on a lot of government forms. But, it is not illegal to lie to other BDSM participants. It's just scummy. Those liars are pond scum.
The scenarios you have posted about involve serious bodily harm and mental anguish and criminal activity. Those who collude to rape, then later collude to set physical violence against the raped, pregnant woman - that person would be the fecal matter of BDSM. (and of humanity, in general)
I don't know that there is any hope for sexual predators, however young they may be when they become aware that this is their problem. (or however old they are when they read massive numbers of respondents online who see it all too clearly)
As much as I despise saying this online, "Get therapy, very quickly and for a very long time." I only say this because at this point, it appears the rape victim will not be pressing charges. She may just want her child to be free of such a criminal and I can't blame her for that. She's been traumatized for life while the rapist is leaving a message and preying on new prey.
Predators just aren't likable so posters tend to be mean to them. Please, end up in prison on a rape charge. Hurry!
ETA - punctuation error
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