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A QUESTIONS FOR 24/7 EXPERIANCED SLAVES - 4/8/2004 9:51:11 AM   
MistressDREAD


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Status: offline 		1.)How did you secure your current relationship in your 24/7
consensual slavery?
2.)Did you use written contracts to secure you and your Owners words for your long term servitude?
3.)What were your expectation of the Dominant/s in the relationship and how did you secure that these expectations would be met?
4.)Did you have limits expressed befor the relationship started as a slave and if so will those limits be allowed to be experimented with or were they addressed as a hard limit?
5.)What lenth of your slavery was given in your current 24/7 relationship?
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RE: A QUESTIONS FOR 24/7 EXPERIANCED SLAVES - 4/8/2004 1:06:34 PM   
knees2you


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Status: offline 		MstressDREAD, i hope within the next week or so i'll be able to answer those questios for You, it does take alot of emotion though getting to the point of being collard~

sincerely, knees2You

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if a snake bites before it is charmed there is no profit
for the charmer~

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RE: A QUESTIONS FOR 24/7 EXPERIANCED SLAVES - 4/8/2004 5:29:30 PM   
iwillserveu


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Status: offline 		Let me tell you background on me before I answer.

I believe in contracts. My two experiences with slavery were contract based. (Two? Read on.)

The first one I was a newbie. Not knowing anything, I over promised. Although I would have let it get worse, my Mistress and I decided to stop it since I was clearly in over my head.

I avoid making the same mistake twice.:)

My second Mistress, well, here it gets weird(er ).

She asked for no strings attached, but wanted to try a live in 24/7. She wanted him to have to go away and not stalk her if she decided she didn’t like it. Then we had me. I was not sure if I really wanted to be a slave or just thought I wanted it. Although her profile says ocean springs, Miss., she is from a city near New Orleans. Massachusetts does not border Louisiana.

She found me and contacted me here on collarme. (This was back when my profile was searchable.) We agreed on six months of cyber, then one week of RT where I would get plane tickets and fly down there for one week of being naked and running the vacuum cleaner. Then reality intruded.

Her teenage daughter decided she was not going to college that semester. I had bought non-refundable plane tickets. Instead of being the naked slave in the smaller bedroom, I was that guy who sleeps in shorts on the couch. (She was smart and did not question why there was a guy doing chores that would have been hers.)

She had a job and there was hope we’d know when she wasn’t going to be around. Of course, she quit when I was around. We had only 1 session where I was bound escapablely in case she came home and we had to be vanilla.

Then there was my chastity belt. I wore a club F.E.M. chastity device for a week prior. I had modified it to take a plastic lock from a CB-2000 family. (I get tired of explaining the curve is a CB-2000 type for well-endowed men. Besides, that sounds too much like bragging. {Of course I did it anyway. })

The travel day I got sores at the contact points. I spent the week unbelted. (It might not be big to you, but that is my fetish!)

Anyway, to answer you questions:

1) Does not apply (currently)
2) Always
3) Depends on definition of “expectations”. I was comfortable her limits were tighter than my own.
4) I mentioned no limits as I was confident she had no desire to even try things that scare the bejesus out of me.
5) Does not apply (currently)

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RE: A QUESTIONS FOR 24/7 EXPERIANCED SLAVES - 4/12/2004 9:35:05 AM   
LadyBeckett


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From: Scotland/Tennessee
Status: offline 		While we both know it absolutely wasn't me, I just want to say I sooooooo have a tee shirt from an experience just like that, but it was when one of my sons were still at home at that time. I do have a 15 year old daughter at home now, and while she is aware of lifestyle (as is age appropriate, of course) she is also very academically and socially active within her own circles, which gives me a bit more freedom within my own.

I really felt for you while reading your post.

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RE: A QUESTIONS FOR 24/7 EXPERIANCED SLAVES - 4/12/2004 2:06:45 PM   
iwillserveu


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Status: offline 		Thanks, Lady Becket,

There are more issues on my plate right now than just getting vacation time. Still, assuming all goes right on my end would you be open to something like that? Saying, "No," won't hurt my feelings. Especially since you have a young(er) daughter and I might be setting myself up for a repeat.

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RE: A QUESTIONS FOR 24/7 EXPERIANCED SLAVES - 4/14/2004 2:32:19 PM   
sweetone


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From: Sacramento California
Status: offline 		1) Master and I met online, W/we discusssed everything over a period of 6 months. When Master offered His collar I felt secure in accepting. Shortly after, I moved across country and W/we became 24/7. W/we negotiated everything before hand.

2) W/we have just recently signed a new 10 year contract as O/our last one expired which was for a year.

3) My expectations were exactly as W/we had discussed. Master is the same online as He is offline.

4) The limits expressed as "hard " will remain as they are the same as my Master's. The "soft" limits are pushed as Master desires and can always change.

5) The new legnth is 10 years.

sweet




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RE: A QUESTIONS FOR 24/7 EXPERIANCED SLAVES - 4/17/2004 9:31:34 PM   
Gabrielle


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Joined: 3/27/2004
Status: offline 		What do you consider an 'experienced' slave?

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RE: A QUESTIONS FOR 24/7 EXPERIANCED SLAVES - 4/18/2004 7:11:52 AM   
Sylverdawn


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Status: offline 		deariswillservu:

darlin..why you didnt pack her and you up and go an extenda stay suite hotel .. load up her cleaning supplies.. her vacum..and put the freakin do not distrub sign on the door for a week!!!!... you could have done all the nekkie cleaning you and she wanted.. alternately.. get your happy tushies to a local club for some play time.. sounds to me like what you got was a posuer!!!!

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RE: A QUESTIONS FOR 24/7 EXPERIANCED SLAVES - 4/19/2004 9:04:59 PM   
silksoul4u


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From: Cheyenne, WY
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quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressDREAD


2.)Did you use written contracts to secure you and your Owners words for your long term servitude?

No. I have been his 24/7 rt slave for 5 yrs now, but i have known my Master since i was 5 yrs old. There was no need or desire for any written contract. Our hearts and minds were in the same place, there were no negotiations. It just came to be very naturally.

5.)What lenth of your slavery was given in your current 24/7 relationship?

My desire is to serve him the rest of my life.

lisa
~proud slave of silksMaster~




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lisa
*very content 24/7 slave to silksMaster

"I never met a chocolate I didn't like." Deanna Troy, Star Trek, The Next Generation

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RE: A QUESTIONS FOR 24/7 EXPERIANCED SLAVES - 4/29/2004 7:45:58 PM   
DaddysEve


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Status: offline 		1.)How did you secure your current relationship in your 24/7
consensual slavery?

With love and constant communication.

2.)Did you use written contracts to secure you and your Owners words for your long term servitude?

No, why would I? That's absurd. I am slave. I have only the rights allowed me by my master.

3.)What were your expectation of the Dominant/s in the relationship and how did you secure that these expectations would be met?

Simple, we talked for a long time and found out we wanted and needed the same things.

4.)Did you have limits expressed befor the relationship started as a slave and if so will those limits be allowed to be experimented with or were they addressed as a hard limit?

Limits? Slaves have no limits. It is the responsibility of the master to see that the slave comes to no harm. It is the slave's repsponsibility to let the Master know if harm is being done. It's that simple. No trust, no slavery. I trust my master implicitly. With my very life, often, my throat is offered to his hand with the understanding the my breath is his to take or give. It's called trust.

5.)What lenth of your slavery was given in your current 24/7 relationship? Not sure I understand what you mean, but, slavery is a lifetime comittment for both of us. Collars are not lightly given, nor accepted. So, forever seems like the answer you are looking for.

Hope this helps.

Eve.

< Message edited by DaddysEve -- 4/29/2004 7:51:18 PM >

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RE: A QUESTIONS FOR 24/7 EXPERIANCED SLAVES - 4/29/2004 8:02:04 PM   
catzubmsve


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Status: offline 		greetings to A/all,

Please allow me to introduce myself...i am boy terry...collared 24/7 boy to Mistress Catz and new to collarme. i saw the post and wanted to reply since i am in fact 24/7 and give my opinions.

1.)How did you secure your current relationship in your 24/7
consensual slavery? i met Ms Catz online on AOL and W/we chatted for a month online daily before meeting R/T.

2.)Did you use written contracts to secure you and your Owners words for your long term servitude? Mistress and i drew up a contract and it was signed the day i became Her boy.

3.)What were your expectation of the Dominant/s in the relationship and how did you secure that these expectations would be met? Mistress and i talked and W/we each sopke of O/our expectations of the O/other and negatiated everything in the beginning.
4.)Did you have limits expressed befor the relationship started as a slave and if so will those limits be allowed to be experimented with or were they addressed as a hard limit? All limits hard and soft as well as health issues were discussed at the start of Mistress and i chatting

5.)What lenth of your slavery was given in your current 24/7 relationship? i give Mistress all i have and all that i am because this is what a true slave does.

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RE: A QUESTIONS FOR 24/7 EXPERIANCED SLAVES - 4/30/2004 3:04:37 AM   
slaveofKat


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Status: offline 		iwillserveu, I know this isn't really relevant anymore, but is it possible that Ocean Springs is in Mississippi, rather than Massachusetts? (trucker here who has been Everywhere)

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RE: A QUESTIONS FOR 24/7 EXPERIANCED SLAVES - 5/4/2004 2:16:31 PM   
elfinslave


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Joined: 4/4/2004
Status: offline 		MistressDREAD I will try to answer this for you about myself.

1) How did you secure your current relationship in your 24/7
consensual slavery?
I met my Master through alt.com and we wrote to one another for a bit and then we met face to face. It didn't take long till we could both tell that it was right for us both. We then moved out of state together and have been together ever since.

2) Did you use written contracts to secure you and your Owners words for your long term servitude?
Yes we had a collaring and also have a contract which serves as a constant reminder (like I need one). He also allowed me to wear his tattoo of ownership. It clearly states on it that I belong to him (by name).

3) What were your expectation of the Dominant/s in the relationship and how did you secure that these expectations would be met?
I had no expectations of Master except for this. That is that he would always own me and that He would do his best to help me grow in any way that He may so choose. I knew that He would always make the best choices for us with Him in consideration firstly and also with me in mind.

4)Did you have limits expressed before the relationship started as a slave and if so will those limits be allowed to be experimented with or were they addressed as a hard limit?
Before we started our relationship I did not know that I had any limits. I have since found out that I do and this is something that I am trying to let go of now. As I do believe that He deserves 100% of me.

5) What length of your slavery was given in your current 24/7 relationship?
I have been a slave to this Master for 2 1/2 years now. I had a Master before but I now understand that I was not a slave I was at best his sub.

Well there you go and I do hope that helps you.

elfinslave
happily owned by analytical master

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RE: A QUESTIONS FOR 24/7 EXPERIANCED SLAVES - 5/13/2004 2:18:18 PM   
MistressDREAD


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Status: offline 		if you have to ask
Gabrielle
your not one.

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RE: A QUESTIONS FOR 24/7 EXPERIANCED SLAVES - 5/13/2004 2:21:15 PM   
MistressDREAD


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LadyBeckett
get otta My
questionair!
jezzzzz the
two of You are
startin to Make
Me queezie
with the followin
after one anothers
words. For peats
sakes meet and
get it over with!!
giggles~~

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RE: A QUESTIONS FOR 24/7 EXPERIANCED SLAVES - 5/13/2004 2:30:11 PM   
MistressDREAD


Posts: 2943
Joined: 1/1/2004
Status: offline 		hmmmm looks at the amount of
posts compaired to the amount
of those whom claim to be 24/7
slave here on collarme and wonder
why more have not responded.....
does it say sumthing to just how
many are truly experianced??
does it say sumthing to just how
many concider them selfs experianced?
ohhhh so many questions yet not many
answered ........... Ill wait a week longer
with this post.....

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RE: A QUESTIONS FOR 24/7 EXPERIANCED SLAVES - 5/13/2004 5:46:58 PM   
iwillserveu


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Status: offline 		Slave of Kat,

Yes, it is in Mississippi. She wanted a 24/7 from far away to be sure I left if she hated it.

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When the Lady smiles i can't resist her call. As a matter of fact, i don't resist at all. Well that depends if it is a smile or a grimmace.

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RE: A QUESTIONS FOR 24/7 EXPERIANCED SLAVES - 5/13/2004 5:50:40 PM   
iwillserveu


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Status: offline 		Sorry I did not reply to this earlier.

Frankly I never though about Whisking her away to a motel.

I don't think she as a posseur as much as inexperienced.

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When the Lady smiles i can't resist her call. As a matter of fact, i don't resist at all. Well that depends if it is a smile or a grimmace.

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RE: A QUESTIONS FOR 24/7 EXPERIANCED SLAVES - 5/13/2004 5:52:41 PM   
iwillserveu


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Joined: 1/1/2004
Status: offline 		M'Lady,

Dread's right. Would You like a room?

Reading this board was a trip down memory lane. Has it only been a month since I became i and you became You?

Dread's right. Let's get a room.

< Message edited by iwillserveu -- 5/13/2004 8:58:13 PM >

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When the Lady smiles i can't resist her call. As a matter of fact, i don't resist at all. Well that depends if it is a smile or a grimmace.

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RE: A QUESTIONS FOR 24/7 EXPERIANCED SLAVES - 5/13/2004 7:52:17 PM   
Thanatosian


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Joined: 5/10/2004
From: New Castle, PA
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quote:

hmmmm looks at the amount of
posts compaired to the amount
of those whom claim to be 24/7
slave here on collarme and wonder
why more have not responded.....


Dread - it could just be that they either are here only for the personals side of the site or have not yet discovered the boards ( I was a member of collarme for a month before i started on the boards)

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