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AthenaSurrenders -> RE: breeding and milking slave are sub (3/14/2014 7:51:55 AM)
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ORIGINAL: ARIES83
I guess I don't scare so easy. this whole "Hucow" idea... So what? I don't know if I'd be into it or not, I don't even know what breast milk tastes like. though I have been offered, I'm very sure I declined, as I don't remember anything other than that... I may have been drunk at the time...
I could see myself exploring this type of thing easily... Especially if I owned a hobby farm. The idea of my partner milking the goats and doing various other morning hobby farm chores, then returning to the house to have her own breasts relieved by receiving her milking, like just another little animal occupying my farm, is a delicious thought.
The idea would probably get old fast... I don't know.
I actually knew a girl once that did keep her breasts producing milk by pumping, but I didn't really ask her about it...
Anyway, I'm a pretty practical guy, what is going to be done with all that breast milk?
If its just going to waste, I couldn't really see myself doing it.
For along time I've always considered myself to be a prude, but I'm finding more and more that's not the case.
For me, it's not the milking that's the issue, it's the fact that the people who are into it are often pretty unrealistic. I know, I know - there are unrealistic people into every fetish.
Lactating is hard work. The actual making of milk is something your body does of it's own accord, but if you want to keep that ability you need to devote quite a bit of time to it. Much more so if you are trying to start lactation from scratch, without the benefit of nine months of pregnancy hormones. I guess it sort of grates on me that people like the OP - who clearly has not the first clue how it works - and others we've seen here just think it's a case of hooking a woman up and switching to human milk on their cornflakes.
In reality, to induce lactation just by pumping and then to maintain it at anything above a trickle (a small minority of lactationally-gifted woman aside) is going to mean hours a day spent on the pump, at inconvenient times which will impact sleep and work. Some people still won't produce a drop, and most won't produce very much. If the milk is to be consumed, she has to watch what she eats and what medication she takes. If she's unlucky, and especially if she's using a cheap pump she's also at risk of blocked ducts and mastitis which really hurt. In short, it's a lot of sacrifice on the woman's part to fulfil the man's fetish, especially when you consider than the same hormones that keep the milk flowing can dampen sexual desire.
That's not necessarily an issue - a D/s relationship is unequal by definition - but I rarely see those looking for hu-cows take these things into account or offer circumstances which would make it feasible for a woman.
Now granted, if a woman has just had a baby or has been breastfeeding for a while she's going to have an easier time. But again, I don't think I've ever seen anyone here hunting for a hu-cow who has responsible parenting in mind. And women with small babies are rarely desperate to jump into a kink intensive relationship at that time.
I'm also sensitive to it because I had a child with feeding problems and used a breast pump for nine miserable months of no sleep and feeling like a prisoner, so I'm willing to admit to considerable bias. If someone had wanted to fetishize my milk production at that time, I would have felt disgusted and less-than-human because it would have been focusing on something that I was doing for my infant and also on changes in my body and my lifestyle which already made me feel nothing more than a machine.
Side note: breastmilk is actually very tasty. It tastes a bit like thin melted ice cream, much sweeter than cow's milk.
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