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lie to my Mistress - 3/13/2014 2:40:10 PM   
slaveForMiss35


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Status: offline 		i did make a big big lie to my Mistress,i did lie about my location, more then one time.
she found out, annyone has a idea how to fix it? i am realy sorry about this.. and dont
wanne loss her she is evryting for me.

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RE: lie to my Mistress - 3/13/2014 2:44:18 PM   
searching4mysir


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Status: offline 		You should have thought of that before you lied about something so stupid as location.

Once trust is broken, it is difficult to repair. If you are fairly early in the relationship, then there most likely hasn't been enough history to make the work to do so worthwhile.

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RE: lie to my Mistress - 3/13/2014 2:48:48 PM   
Rawni


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Status: offline 		She tolerated more than one lie? Well, you may stand a chance still.

Had you lied to me... you would be hunting down someone else to talk to.

Learn your lesson.

No way will I help someone manipulate a way to convince someone to overlook such a relationship crime. Honesty from the start is best... but even late... some might tolerate it. Till they see what many of us have seen and end up here posting a thread about those lying scum bags that never take anything seriously. Hell, it keeps the forum going.

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RE: lie to my Mistress - 3/13/2014 2:50:55 PM   
anniezz338


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Status: offline 		Ask her how you can make it right. Rebuilding trust is alot of work and if it was me, I wouldn't be easy on you.

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RE: lie to my Mistress - 3/13/2014 3:02:20 PM   
stef


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quote:

ORIGINAL: slaveForMiss35

i did make a big big lie to my Mistress,i did lie about my location, more then one time.
she found out, annyone has a idea how to fix it?

If she has any sense she would introduce you to the curb with a quickness.

quote:

i am realy sorry about this.. and dont
wanne loss her she is evryting for me.

If that was true, you wouldn't have lied to her multiple times.

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RE: lie to my Mistress - 3/13/2014 3:04:15 PM   
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Status: offline 		What was the reason you lied to her? And I assume this is online and you have never met?

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RE: lie to my Mistress - 3/13/2014 3:05:26 PM   
NiceButMeanGirl


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Status: offline 		SlaveforMiss35,

If my submissive/slave lied to me, I'd really be pissed. Plus, I don't tolerate lies, without the trust there's nothing in my opinion. Were I your Domme, I'd show you the door after multiple lies.

How long have you been in the dynamic w/ her? Is it a real time dynamic or online only? (I don't take online only seriously, sorry) The best you can hope for here, I think, is that she might give you another chance. In my opinion though, if you've lied more than once, she already gave you a second chance & you blew it. Why lie about something as silly as location anyway?

That being said, welcome to the forums.

NBMG

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RE: lie to my Mistress - 3/13/2014 5:32:31 PM   
SeekingTrinity


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If she means everything to you, you shouldn't have lied to her. Dishonesty is never a good policy. If you'd lie about something as simple as your location, any self-respecting person would wonder what wouldn't you lie about. I too wouldn't waste my time with a liar caught in their lies.

All you really can do is come clean, apologize profusely, and hope for the best. You made your bed...nothing to do now but lay in it.

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RE: lie to my Mistress - 3/13/2014 6:21:50 PM   
ExquisiteStings


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Status: offline 		Well, if you've lost this one, maybe you can get another one. Make sure that she is an English teacher, because your usage and spelling of My beloved language is abhorrent to say the least.
So, if you ever have to come up with any pissant excuses about your dishonesty, at least you'll have them spelled correctly.

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RE: lie to my Mistress - 3/13/2014 8:00:57 PM   
sunshinemiss


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Status: offline 		I am an English teacher and generally give people a lot of leeway when English isn't their first language. I mean, geesh! my spelling In Spanish and Korean are pretty much crap! All those little é è dash thingies that change meanings in Español! I can't keep track of those! and Korean? ㅐ ㅓ ㅔ are all basically the same sound...

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RE: lie to my Mistress - 3/13/2014 10:17:39 PM   
shadowborn61


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Status: offline 		Accept that you have probably committed an act that She will and probably should not forgive you for.
If you are lucky enough to get a second chance i would suggest that you try being honest with Her.

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RE: lie to my Mistress - 3/13/2014 10:19:16 PM   
GoddessManko


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quote:

ORIGINAL: slaveForMiss35

i did make a big big lie to my Mistress,i did lie about my location, more then one time.
she found out, annyone has a idea how to fix it? i am realy sorry about this.. and dont
wanne loss her she is evryting for me.




I can imagine, though it seems harmless, she will wonder if a small lie like this will lead into bigger ones.

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RE: lie to my Mistress - 3/13/2014 10:39:10 PM   
FieryOpal


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Status: offline 		Get down on your hands and knees and beg big time. To start.
Take whatever punishment she doles out (within your mutually agreed-upon limits).

You call this a "big, big lie," so you weren't where you were supposed to be? How big of a lie are we talking about?
A big enough one to cause a ripple effect? One that affected other people directly or indirectly?

How long have you been with your Mistress?
If not very long, don't expect her to be lenient or forgiving, because you broke trust before you had proven yourself trustworthy.
If you've been with her for awhile, she may weigh the offense accordingly. It would depend upon the strength of your bonds. (No pun intended)
If she were everything to you, you wouldn't have lied in the first place.

There are some Mistresses, such as myself, who have a zero-tolerance policy. One strike in the deception dept. and you're out.
You say it's been more than once that you've lied to her, saying you're somewhere else than where you really are.
If she's found out about it more than this once, then you can kiss your ass goodbye.

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RE: lie to my Mistress - 3/13/2014 10:58:23 PM   
MistressDarkArt


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quote:

ORIGINAL: slaveForMiss35

i did make a big big lie to my Mistress,i did lie about my location, more then one time.
she found out, annyone has a idea how to fix it? i am realy sorry about this.. and dont
wanne loss her she is evryting for me.




This is online, right? You should pay a penance. Every time you lie, you have to send her X amount of euros (guilders, whatever you're using there)

Welcome to the boards, btw.


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RE: lie to my Mistress - 3/14/2014 5:33:32 AM   
AthenaSurrenders


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ORIGINAL: GoddessManko

I can imagine, though it seems harmless, she will wonder if a small lie like this will lead into bigger ones.


It's not necessarily a small or harmless lie. If she was looking for someone to have potential real-time interaction with, and he made her believe that was possible just so he could get his online needs met, that's a big fat selfish lie in my eyes.

OP - I read her profile, and it says 'If I ever catch you on a lie you are a goner'.

You are a goner. Man up and deal with the consequences of your own actions.

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RE: lie to my Mistress - 3/14/2014 11:17:26 AM   
slaveForMiss35


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Status: offline 		i really need some good ideas so she can forgive me

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RE: lie to my Mistress - 3/14/2014 11:29:49 AM   
LadyConstanze


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quote:

ORIGINAL: slaveForMiss35

i really need some good ideas so she can forgive me



If you are religious, you can always pray...

In short, nope, why would she forgive somebody who was dishonest?

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RE: lie to my Mistress - 3/14/2014 11:44:00 AM   
stef


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ORIGINAL: slaveForMiss35

i really need some good ideas so she can forgive me

There is exactly one person who can tell you what you need to do in order to be forgiven.

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RE: lie to my Mistress - 3/14/2014 11:51:20 AM   
MistressDarkArt


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i really need some good ideas so she can forgive me


What, you didn't like the money idea?

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RE: lie to my Mistress - 3/14/2014 12:08:48 PM   
LadyConstanze


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressDarkArt


quote:

ORIGINAL: slaveForMiss35

i really need some good ideas so she can forgive me


What, you didn't like the money idea?



Obviously doing anything else than lip service is a hard limit ;)

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